N.Y. Comp. Codes R. & Regs. tit. 7, § 711.3 – Procedures.

(1) To ensure mutual agreement, the inmate and the intended spouse shall write to the superintendent expressing an intent to marry.
(2) The notices are to be recorded and filed in the inmate's guidance file.
(3) The superintendent shall designate an offender rehabilitation coordinator to be responsible for processing the request, interviewing the inmate and intended spouse, and ensuring that the inmate has a valid marriage license and that administrative requirements have been fulfilled.
(b) Offender rehabilitation coordinator's interviews.
(1) The offender rehabilitation coordinator shall conduct an initial interview with the inmate to explain the entire marriage procedure, emphasizing that while the department will assist the inmate, the primary responsibility for making all arrangements and securing the necessary documents rests with the inmate and the intended spouse.
(2) The offender rehabilitation coordinator shall explain that the temporary release program and the family reunion program operate independently of the marriage process and any applications or arrangements for those programs are likewise the responsibility of the inmate. An inmate who wishes to be married while on temporary release must conform to the procedures delineated in Subchapter A of Chapter XII of this Title.
Note:
For family reunion program purposes, legal spouses must be married for at least 12 months prior to submitting a family reunion program application; and both parties can not be himself/herself a resident of a New York State correctional facility.
(3) The offender rehabilitation coordinator shall examine the inmate's entire folder, including the presentence report, paying particular attention to information which may present legal impediments to a marriage (e.g., the existence of a previous marriage).
(4) Subsequently, the offender rehabilitation coordinator shall interview the intended spouse at the facility to explain the marriage process and the complications imposed by the inmate's confinement in a correctional facility. In the course of this interview, the offender rehabilitation coordinator should advise the intended spouse to discuss with the inmate the circumstances surrounding his/her incarceration. The offender rehabilitation coordinator shall inform the intended spouse of the inmate's parole eligibility date, conditional release date, and maximum expiration of sentence date.
(5) If the intended spouse refuses to participate in the offender rehabilitation coordinator’s interview, the offender rehabilitation coordinator shall explain that the interview is a part of the total procedure for processing marriage requests. The participation of the intended spouse shall be encouraged; however, a refusal to participate shall not be grounds for disallowing the marriage.
(c) [Reserved]
1. (1) The inmate and the intended spouse must appear before a town, city or county clerk to apply for a marriage license. A marriage license is valid for 60 days from the date of validation.
2. (2) In some facilities, an official at the facility is designated a town clerk. In such cases, this person shall receive the application for the marriage license.
3. (3) At other facilities, the offender rehabilitation coordinator or head clerk shall make every effort to get the local town, city or county clerk to either visit the facility or to designate a deputy in the facility community for the completion of the license application form.
4. (4) An inmate may choose to coordinate the application for a marriage license with a scheduled temporary release application if eligible under the guidelines of the temporary release program. The inmate must, however, conform to all the requirements of this directive, including but not limited to prior notification to the superintendent and participation in counseling.
5. (5) Under no circumstances will an inmate be allowed to proceed to the town, city or county clerk's office under escort by department personnel.
6. (6) The responsibility to determine whether a marriage can be contracted under the law rests with the town, city or county clerk. The license-issuing agency reviews competency and questions both parties regarding the legal dissolution of prior marriages.
  (e) Solemnization of the marriage.
7. (1) A marriage, whether it takes place in the facility or in the community, must be solemnized by either:
  1. (i) a clergyperson or minister of any religion or a leader of the Society for Ethical Culture licensed to perform marriages in New York State;
  2. (ii) a justice or judge of a court of record or a municipal court, or a police justice of a village or town; or
  3. (iii) others as indicated in the Domestic Relations Law.
8. (2) If the marriage ceremony takes place within the facility, the inmate and the intended spouse may select two individuals to serve as witnesses, e.g., employees who are willing, inmates, relatives or friends.
9. (3) The ceremony will be limited to the participating partners, the official solemnizer and two witnesses who may be selected according to the inmate's wishes.
10. (4) If the marriage is to be solemnized in the facility by someone other than the facility chaplain, the assigned offender rehabilitation coordinator should assist the inmate in recruiting the clergyman, minister, or civil official chosen to perform the ceremony.
11. (5) If the facility chaplain officiates at the ceremony, he or she may not accept any fee or honorarium.
12. (6) There must be an interval of 24 hours between the date that the marriage license is issued and the date of the marriage ceremony (Domestic Relations Law, section 13-b).
  (f) Responsibility for expense incurred.
  The marriage license fee and other expenses incurred for solemnization of the marriage shall be the responsibility of the inmate and the intended spouse.
(d) Application for marriage license.
(g) The offender rehabilitation coordinator assigned will notify the superintendent in writing upon completion of the solemnization of the marriage providing the information required in subdivision (i) of this section.
(h) Notification of marriage to central office.
By Monday of the last full week of the month, the Director of Ministerial and Family Services shall be advised in writing, by the superintendent, of the various facts concerning the marriage ceremony (i.e., names and addresses of partners, date of ceremony, name and address of church, witnesses and officiating chaplain, clergyperson or civil official).

(a) Notice to the superintendent.