N.Y. Comp. Codes R. & Regs. tit. 4, § 75.1
(e) The term retiree shall mean a person who has become enrolled in the plan as an employee and whose coverage is being continued after withdrawal from the active service of the employer under the eligibility privileges of the plan and who either:
(f) The term dependent shall include the spouse of an employee or retired employee. It shall also include such person's unmarried child 15 days of age or older but under 19 years of age, any unmarried child 19 years of age or older who is incapable of self-support by reason of mental or physical disability and who became so incapable before reaching the age at which dependent coverage would otherwise terminate, and any student dependent as hereinafter defined. The term child shall include any natural born child, any legally adopted child and any stepchild dependent upon the employee or retired employee, and any child dependent upon the employee or retired employee during any waiting period prior to the finalization of the child's adoption by the employee or the retired employee. Dependent shall not include, however, any person: