N.Y. Comp. Codes R. & Regs. tit. 22, § 205.71
(b) Upon such referral, the probation service shall inform such person:
(2) that the person seeking to file a family offense petition is entitled to request that the probation service confer with him or her, the potential respondent and any other interested person concerning the advisability of filing a petition requesting:
(d) At the first appearance at a conference by each of the persons listed in subdivision (c) of this section, the probation service shall inform such person concerning the function and limitations of, and the alternatives to, the adjustment process, and that:
(2) the probation service may confer with the persons listed in subdivision (c) of this section if it shall appear to the probation service that:
(11) if the adjustment of the matter results in a voluntary agreement concerning the cessation of the offensive conduct forming the basis of the family offense complaint:
(e) If the adjustment process is not commenced, the probation service shall give written notice to the persons listed in subdivision (c) of this section that: