N.Y. Comp. Codes R. & Regs. tit. 20, § 4000.6
(a) At any time before the conciliation order is issued, the requester may discontinue the conciliation conference by filing a request for discontinuance, in writing, with the Bureau of Conciliation and Mediation Services, either in person at the offices in Albany or by mail addressed to:
Bureau of Conciliation and Mediation Services
Department of Taxation and Finance
Building 9
W. A. Harriman Campus
Albany, NY 12227