N.Y. Comp. Codes R. & Regs. tit. 18, § 435.3
(a) A family is eligible for respite care and services when the family is otherwise eligible for mandated preventive services pursuant to section 430.9 of this Title and immediate relief is needed to maintain or restore family functioning. Conditions for which respite care and services may be provided for families include, but are not limited to, the following:
(b) A foster parent, other than one providing therapeutic foster care, is eligible for respite care and services when one of the following conditions exists:
(2) a foster parent demonstrates a need for additional support in order to continue caring for a foster child and a determination is made that:
(4) it is necessary for the foster parent(s) to be absent from the foster home when there has been a death in the immediate family of the foster parent(s).
(c)-(d) [Reserved]