N.Y. Comp. Codes R. & Regs. tit. 18, § 421.11
(g) inform possible adoptive parents of the following additional information at the orientation session:
(1) that married persons can adopt only as a couple with each partner participating, and that a married person who is living separate and apart from his or her spouse pursuant to a legally recognizable separation agreement or decree of separation or who has been living separate and apart from his or her spouse for a period of three years or more prior to the commencement of the adoption proceeding may also adopt a child;
(2)
(i) develop a record for each person inquiring about adoption which contains:
Authorized agencies operating an adoption program shall: