In any case where there has been a finding of abuse, domestic violence has been disclosed by either party, or where there is reason to suspect domestic violence, a certified family mediator shall take measures such as:

1. (a) Encouraging the victim or person who has either disclosed or there is reason to suspect has experienced domestic violence, to consult with a lawyer or domestic violence service provider, or both;
2. (b) Taking appropriate steps to shape the mediation process in light of the finding, disclosure, or suspicion;
3. (c) Regularly re-evaluating the ability of each of the parties to negotiate; and
4. (d) Promoting the use of specific and detailed language in any agreement to avoid ambiguities.