45 C.F.R. § 505.3
Child means:
(2) Any son or daughter of a deceased person born out of wedlock will be deemed to be a child of the deceased for the purpose of this Act, if:
(iii) So declared by an order or decree of any court of competent jurisdiction.
Husband means the surviving male spouse of a deceased prisoner of war or of a deceased civilian American citizen who was married to the deceased at the time of her death by a marriage valid under the applicable law of the place entered into.
Natural guardian means father and mother who shall be deemed to be the natural guardians of the person of their minor children. If either dies or is incapable of action, the natural guardianship of the person shall devolve upon the other. In the event of death or incapacity of both parents, then the blood relative, paternal or maternal, standing in loco parentis to the minor shall be deemed the natural guardian.
Parent means:
(1)
(2) The father of an illegitimate child will not be recognized as such for purposes of the Act unless evidence establishes that:
(iii) Prior to death of the child he has been declared by decree of a court of competent jurisdiction to be the father.
Widow means the surviving female spouse of a deceased prisoner of war or a deceased civilian American citizen who was married to the deceased at the time of his death by marriage valid under the applicable law of the place where entered into.