WOOD v. WOOD
No. 69, September Term, 1961.
Court of Appeals of Maryland
Decided December 14, 1961.
(Two Appeals In One Record)
227 Md. 211
The first part of this contention may therefore be disposed of by pointing out that, in the absence of a showing of prejudice or of abuse, considerable discretion as to whether cross-examination should be permitted to extend beyond the scope of the direct examination is vested in the trial judge. Wilhelm v. Hadley, 218 Md. 152, 146 A. 2d 22 (1958), and cases cited therein. As to the second part of this contention, we think it is manifest from what has already been said that the plaintiffs were not in any way prejudiced when they acted on the suggestion of the court and called the adverse witness as their own. See Eastern Contractors v. State, Use of Seifert, 225 Md. 112, 126, 169 A. 2d 430 (1961).
Finding no prejudicial error in any of the rulings below, we will affirm the judgment appealed from.
Judgment affirmed; appellants to pay the costs.
Donald S. Caruthers, with whom was Joseph D. Buscher on the brief, for appellant.
Marion E. West, with whom were West & Venables on the brief, for appellee.
BRUNE, C. J., delivered the opinion of the Court.
This is a divorce case in which the wife appeals from a decree granting the husband an absolute divorce on the ground of abandonment. To a large extent the case grew out of the wife‘s consuming religious zeal, which led her to spend much time at church services, not only on Sundays but also throughout the week—both late afternoons and evenings—to the neglect of her home and husband, and also, as she frequently took her teen-age son along, to the interruption of his normal life, particularly his home studies. After this had been going on for about a year, the husband told her she would have to choose between her home and her great religious activity.
Matters came more or less to a head in the middle of January, 1959. For some months prior to that time marital rela-
She returned several months later, in April, to get some clothes and a small machine and spent about forty-five minutes talking with the son, but she did not see or speak to her husband. She then departed again.
Early in September, 1959, she returned a second time. On this occasion she first telephoned the son, who suggested that she come over some afternoon when he would be there in the afternoon. He did not want her to come when his father would be there because he anticipated an argument. The wife came at about 9:30 that evening without prior notice to the husband, let herself in with her key and, without more ado, went to her room downstairs and took off her dress and hung it in the closet. The husband and son, hearing the noise of the opening or closing of the door after they had gone to bed upstairs, came down and found the wife standing backed against the wall in her room. The husband‘s greeting was far from
The Chancellor delivered his ruling from the bench at the conclusion of the hearing. In it he reviewed carefully and in detail all of the testimony which we have only summarized to some extent, and he dealt fully with the wife‘s alleged efforts at reconciliation. The case is almost wholly one of fact and of the application to the facts of established rules of law.
In the light of our review of all of the testimony (which is perhaps unusually repetitious), we could not say that the Chancellor was clearly in error—if in error at all—in concluding that the wife deserted the husband on January 15, 1959, that the desertion continued for more than eighteen months prior to the filing of the bill, that the wife, the deserting party, made no genuine effort towards reconciliation, and that there was no reasonable hope of reconciliation.
There seems to be no doubt that “the wife took the decisive step of leaving the home” in January, 1959. (See Besche v. Besche, 209 Md. 442, 449, 121 A. 2d 708.) It is not a case where the husband left and claimed constructive desertion by the wife. Further, we think that there is no substantial ques-
In accordance with what we have just said, we think that the Chancellor was not in error—certainly not clearly in error—in finding that the separation in January, 1959, was not with the husband‘s consent. Though the cause of friction in the home in this case was doubtless much less acute than that in Moran v. Moran, 219 Md. 399, 149 A. 2d 399, we cannot say that the husband was unjustified in calling upon his wife to choose between her more than intensive religious life and her marital life. That he called upon her to do so does not mean that he assented to either choice she might make. She rejected the call to domestic duty and chose what she doubtless considered a higher duty. That was her deliberate choice and her husband could not prevent it. See Moran v. Moran, supra; Miller v. Miller, supra, 185 Md. at 85; Miller v. Miller (a wholly separate case), 178 Md. 12, 21, 11 A. 2d 630; all holding that acquiescence to or assent to what one cannot prevent does not amount to a voluntary agreement thereto.
The wife‘s visit to the house in April, 1959, to pick up a few things involved no effort towards reconciliation. Her return in September seems a strange interlude. Though the husband‘s actions in response to her physical return might, under some circumstances, constitute agreement to continued separation, or actual desertion on his part (see Hite v. Hite,
We may note that the appellant wife makes no suggestion that she was in such mental condition at any time as to have been incapable of forming or maintaining an intent to desert. Cf. Kruse v. Kruse, 179 Md. 657, 22 A. 2d 475, and Stecher v. Stecher, supra.
We finding nothing to indicate that the Chancellor was in error in finding that there was no reasonable hope of reconciliation. On the contrary, the evidence would seem to indicate that if the wife returned to the home the same situation which gave rise to the breach would develop again.
Since the wife is not entitled to a divorce, she is not entitled to alimony. However, we find no error in the order requiring the husband to pay the costs of this appeal and his wife‘s counsel fees in a reasonable amount. Fries v. Fries, 166 Md. 604, 171 A. 703; Daiger v. Daiger, 154 Md. 501, 140 A. 717.
The wife does not, on this appeal, contest the award of custody of the son to the husband.
The decree of divorce does not undertake to dispose of the property rights of the parties and they are not before us.
Decree and order affirmed, costs to be paid by the appellee.
DUCKETT, J., specially assigned, filed the following dissenting opinion.
I regret that I cannot agree completely with the opinion written by Chief Judge Brune in this unusual divorce case.
It seems clear from the testimony that the original desertion by the wife on January 15, 1959 was voluntary and deliberate on her part. However, I conclude from the testimony that the eighteen months’ separation period was interrupted when the wife returned on September 8 or approximately eight months after the original separation.
In the first place, it must be recognized that the wife had the absolute right to return to the home. This property belonged to her as much as it did to the husband, so she was therefore entirely within her legal rights in returning.
Secondly, in order to obtain an absolute divorce on the grounds of abandonment or desertion for eighteen months, the plaintiff, in addition to proving that the defendant deliberately left him, must prove that the abandonment has con-
Third, as Judge Henderson, speaking for the Court recently said in Stecher v. Stecher, 226 Md. 155, at 159:
“* * * Marriage imposes a duty to bear and forbear and to cherish in sickness and in health. It is not to be terminated for light causes or merely because of a desire to escape from an unpleasant and unhappy environment.”
Fourth, the husband‘s improper actions were such as not to encourage the Chancellor to grant him relief, especially as the State has a vital interest in maintaining the marriage status which may not be dissolved except for grave and weighty causes.
Finally, our law encourages estranged spouses to reconcile their differences and to resume marriage relations. Therefore, during the eighteen months’ period the duty rests upon each spouse to accept any offer made in good faith by the other to resume suspended cohabitation, if it appears that such offer may be accepted without any reasonable sacrifice of self respect, health, safety or comfort. Hite v. Hite, 210 Md. 576.
The testimony in this case is uncontradicted that the husband made no attempt to encourage his wife to return after she left in January. The testimony is also uncontradicted that the wife actually returned on September 8th. Under the circumstances, can her actions at that time be considered an attempt to resume the marital relation? The fact that the wife had little or nothing to say to her husband upon returning can be logically explained on either of the following grounds:
(1) She was mentally deranged at the time or (2) her husband‘s brutal and inhuman actions left little for her to say,
The legal effect of this commitment under
Even though the desertion of the husband by the wife was originally wilful, the period which she was confined involuntarily in an insane asylum must be excluded in determining whether the desertion continued for the requisite period. In other words, by the great weight of authority, the continuity of the desertion is legally interrupted.
Annotation, 19 A.L.R. 2d, 144, 167; 4 A.L.R. 1333; Dorsey v. Dorsey, 90 App. D. C. 284, 195 F. 2d 567; Cox v. Cox, 268 Ala. 572, 109 So. 2d 703; Hartwell v. Hartwell, 234 Mass. 250, 125 N. E. 208; Schouler, Marriage and Divorce, 6th Ed., p. 1837, § 1621; Nelson, Divorce and Annulment, 2nd Ed., § 4.11, p. 82; Pipitone v. Pipitone, 97 N. J. Eq. 35, 127 A. 164; Wright v. Wright, 125 Va. 526, 99 S. E. 515; See also: Bowersock v. Bowersock, 210 Md. 427, p. 438; Noellert v. Noellert, 169 Md. 559, p. 562; Kruse v. Kruse, 179 Md. 657, p. 663; 17 Am. Jur. § 97, p. 318, § 183, p. 380.
If for some reason, not apparent from the transcript, the Chancellor discounted the effect of the physician‘s commitment, it is nevertheless clear that the husband‘s suit must fail.
The wife‘s actions, although erratic, were always upright and sincere. Her testimony, although rambling and confusing, was honest and unimpeached.
The husband‘s actions were not sincere and were, in some instances, reprehensible. In addition to what has been previously stated, he changed the locks on the house; moved four members of his family into the home, thereby preventing his wife from returning; failed to pay the meager board required at the Institution, while at the same time, purchasing an expensive automobile and failing to pay his income tax.
I must conclude, therefore, that the bill of complaint should be dismissed and husband ordered to pay permanent alimony to the wife.
