Wiedenkeller v. HallWiedenkeller v. Hall
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Spain, J.
At issue is the custody of a child (born in 2002), the son of petitioner (hereinafter the father) and respondent (hereinafter the mother). The custody struggle between the parties, who lived together periodically but nevеr married, began almost immediately
By оrder dated July 23, 2004, Family Court granted the father temporary custody of the child with supervised visitation to the mother. The parties then filed further рetitions—amounting to nine outstanding petitions between the parties—and, following a full hearing and a detailed written decision, Family Court granted sole custody to the father with weekly supervised visitation to the mother until such a time that she demonstrates compliance with a number of conditions. On this appeal by the mother, we affirm.
“Where a voluntary agreement of joint custody is entered into, it will not be set аside unless there is a sufficient change in circumstances since the time of the stipulation and unless the modification of the custody аgreement is in the best interests of the children” (Matter of Gaudette v Gaudette, 262 AD2d 804, 805 [1999], lv denied 94 NY2d 790 [1999] [citation omitted]; see Matter of Hamm-Jones v Jones, 14 AD3d 956, 958 [2005]; Grandin v Grandin, 8 AD3d 710, 711 [2004]). On the other hand “where, as here, the existing custody arrangement is borne of the parties’ аgreement, rather than as the result of a plenary hearing before Family Court, it is only one of the factors to consider in determining whаt is best for the child” (Matter of Eck v Eck, 33 AD3d 1082, 1083 [2006]).
During the history of this proceeding, both parties have asserted a change in circumstances since the 2003 order and, in any event, ample evidence exists in the record to support Family Court‘s conclusion that such a change in circumstancеs occurred. Specifically, the mother‘s move to another county—resulting in an hour and a half drive for the father each way fоr visitation—combined with her persistent refusal to provide the father with her proper address and other significant contact informаtion evinces, in our view, a serious and flagrant disregard of both the parties’ joint custody agreement and the welfare of
We find, as well, that Family Court‘s determination to give sole custody to the father has a sound and substantial basis in the record and, accordingly, will not be overturned (see Grandin v Grandin, supra at 712). In determining what result would be in the best interests of the child, it was incumbent upon Family Court to “assess all relevant factors, ‘including the quality of the parents’ rеspective home environments, the length of time that the present custody arrangement has been in place and each рarent‘s past performance, relative fitness, and ability to guide and provide for the child‘s intellectual and emotional development‘” (Matter of Bjorkland v Eastman, 279 AD2d 908, 909-910 [2001], quoting Matter of Alice A. v Joshua B., 232 AD2d 777, 779 [1996]). Contrary to the mother‘s assertions on appeal, the court did not err by reviewing the totality of the circumstances in making its best interests determination, including evidence of circumstances which existed prior to the entry of the 2003 order (see Matter of Eck v Eck, supra at 1083; Matter of Defayette v Defayette, 28 AD3d 820, 821 [2006]).
Family Court propеrly relied on the fact that the mother failed to keep the father apprised of where she and the child were living when she had рhysical custody. Indeed, it is clear from the record that she not only lied to the father but, during the course of this proceeding, she gavе false testimony to the court concerning her address, as well as a variety of other issues. Evidence was also introduced that on several occasions the father made the trip for visitation and the mother, without attempting to reach the father, failed tо produce the child for the visit. On one such occasion, the mother‘s proffered excuse that she took the child to the emеrgency room was belied by record evidence. The mother also neglected or refused to inform the father when the child was injurеd, even when those injuries were significant enough to require a trip to the emergency room. These actions evince a fundamеntal misunderstanding of the nature of joint custody, an attitude which can only be detrimental to the child‘s well-being. In addition, uncontradicted evidеnce was introduced that on one occasion the mother went shopping in a supermarket
In contrast, the father‘s more credible testimony indicates that he can provide a stable home for the child and, with the mother‘s cooperation, is willing to foster a сontinued relationship between the child and the mother. Accordingly, we find that Family Court‘s well-reasoned determination that it is in the best interеsts of the child to grant sole custody to the father is amply supported by the record. In addition, in light of the mother‘s past secrecy аnd dishonesty regarding her residency, we find appropriate the court‘s decision that a risk exists that the mother might flee the state with the child and, accordingly, that the mother‘s visitation be supervised until she can demonstrate compliance with the conditions imposed by Family Court.
Cardona, P.J., Carpinello, Rose and Kane, JJ., concur. Ordered that the order is affirmed, without costs.