85 Cal. 251 | Cal. | 1890
Lead Opinion
This is an action for divorce on the ground of extreme cruelty, by the use of vile and offensive language, without any physical force or violence applied to the person of the plaintiff.
The answer of the defendant denies the cruelty and the use of the language alleged. The court found for the plaintiff, and decreed a divorce and permanent alimony of one hundred dollars per month while she shall remain unmarried, and one thousand dollars for her attorneys’ fees; and defendant appeals from the judgment, and from an order denying his motion for a new trial.
The material substance of the findings as to extreme cruelty is as follows: —
That, upon occasions when the defendant was intoxicated, he wrongfully and unjustly, and without sufficient provocation to justify him in so doing, called the plaintiff vile names, once called her a “ whore,” and on several different occasions called her a “damned bitch,” and a “ damned witch from hell,” in the presence and hearing of other people, and thereby inflicting upon her grievous mental suffering, but wdthout injury to her health; that when he called her such vile names she was not without fault, and that she was not uniformly kind to him; that there is reasonable apprehension to believe that such cruel treatment will be continued if a divorce is not granted.
The defendant contends, — 1. That these findings as to cruelty do not support the judgment; and 2. That they are not justified by the evidence.
1. As to the sufficiency of the finding, it is to be oh-
“ Cruelty is such conduct in one of the married parties . as, to the reasonable apprehension of the other- or in fact, renders cohabitation physically unsafe, to a degree justifying a withdrawal therefrom.” (1 Bishop on Marriage and Divorce, 6th ed., sec. 717.)
Yet this expression of the degree of cruelty which may justify a withdrawal from cohabitation seems to leave it quite as indefinite as was the degree which will justify'- a divorce without aid from this definition; and the learned author seems to admit as much, further on (sec. 740), where, referring to this definition, he says: “ By our definition of cruelty, the apprehension of physical danger to the complaining party must, to justify a divorce, have proceeded ‘to a degree justifying a withdrawal from cohabitation.’ Now, if this seems indefinite, so is the law. There is no possibility of measuring the depth of woe or danger thus required, except by the understandings of the men who occupy the bench and the jury-box, enlightened and strengthened by what has been heretofore deemed or adjudged.”
Certainly, where the fact upon which the law is to operate is indefinite, the law is necessarily indefinite and uncertain to the same degree; and generally, uncertainty of the law proceeds from uncertainty as to the ultimate matter of fact which forms a part of and a term in every proposition of law. .True, it is sometimes uncertain whether a law is mandatory or merely directory or permissive, but much oftener the “uncertainties of the law” arise from uncertainties as to the facts or things commanded, permitted, or prohibited; and so it is with
But although the degree of cruelty constituting a ground for divorce may not have been exactly defined, it has been so described by the decisions of courts that it may be sufficiently identified for practical purposes; and although the judicial descriptions of what is and what is not a sufficient degree of cruelty do not reduce the distinction to a line clearly separating the sufficient from the insufficient degrees of cruelty in all possible cases, they reduce it to a very narrow zone, within which the true line of distinction is to be judicially ascertained or sufficiently approximated, by means of the peculiar circumstances of each case, viewed in the light of “what has been heretofore deemed or adjudged.” A great majority of the cases, however, will be found to fall within the authoritative descriptions of either the requisite or the insufficient degree of cruelty.
It is contended, however, by counsel for respondent, that extreme cruelty is defined by section 94 of the Civil Code, and that the finding in this case, being in the language of that section, must be sufficient. That section is as follows:—
“ Extreme cruelty is the infliction of grievous bodily injury, or grievous mental suffering, upon the other by one party to the marriage.”
If this section is to be considered a proper legal definition of the words “ extreme cruelty,” as used in section 92 of the same code, it certainly deprives those words of an essential part of their meaning as used in the books to express a cause of divorce, since it entirely omits the attribute of wrong or injustice. .“The infliction of grievous bodily injury or grievous mental suffering ” does not imply wrong or injustice, and it may be justi
Although the character of the ill treatment, whether it operates directly upon the body or primarily upon the mind alone, and all the attending circumstances, are to be considered for the purpose of estimating the degree of the cruelty, yet the final test of its sufficiency, as a cause of divorce, must be its actual or reasonably apprehended injurious effect upon the body or health of the complaining party. (1 Bishop on Marriage and Divorce, 6th ed., secs. 732-733 b; Morris v. Morris, 14 Cal. 80; 73 Am. Dec. 615; Powelson v. Powelson, 22 Cal. 362.) This
“ Mere austerity of temper, petulance of manners, rudeness of language, a want of civil attention ,and accommodation, even occasional sallies of passion, if they do not threaten bodily harm, do not amount to legal cruelty; they are high moral offenses in the marriage state undoubtedly, not innocent surely in any state of life, but still they are not that cruelty against which the law can relieve. Under such misconduct of either of the parties, — for it may exist on one side as well as on the other, — the suffering party must bear in some degree the consequences of an injudicious connection; must subdue by decent resistance or by prudent conciliation, and if this, cannot be done, both must suffer in silence. And if it, be complained that by this inactivity of the courts much injustice may be suffered and much misery produced,, the answer is, that courts of justice do not pretend to furnish cures for all the miseries of human life. They redress or punish gross violations of duty, but they go no further; they cannot make men virtuous; and- as the happiness of the world depends upon its virtue, there may be much unhappiness in it w'hich human laws cannot undertake to remove. Still less is it cruelly, ■where it -wounds, not the natural feelings, but the acquired feelings, arising from particular rank and situ
Speaking of this passage, and of cruelty inflicted by other means than physical violence, Mr. Bishop says (sec. 725): “And though the court may not, as Lord Stowell said, have ‘any scale of sensibilities by which it can gauge the quantum of injury done and felt,’ it may sometimes perceive that it is greater than can be practically endured, as well when falling on the mind as on the' body. Equally, whether of the one sort or the other, the court must be made affirmatively to perceive that cruelty exists in fact, and is sufficient in degree, before it can grant the remedy.” Yet the practical view of the law is, that a degree of cruelty which cannot be perceived to injure the body or the health of the body, “can be practically endured,” and must be endured, if there is no other remedy than by divorce; because no “scale” by which to gauge the purely mental susceptibilities and sufferings has yet been invented or discovered, except such as indicate the degrees thereof by their perceptible effects upon the physical organization of the body.
From the foregoing considerations, it follows that the findings of fact are not sufficient to sustain the judgment. “ Extreme cruelty” is not expressly found in any sense; nor does it, in the legal sense above described, follow, as a necessary inference, from the facts found. The finding of “grievous mental suffering” is, and purports to be, only an inference or conclusion from the opprobrious language found to have been used by the defendant. In the case of Smith v. Smith, 62 Cal. 466, in which the only issue was as to the fact of extreme cruelty, it appeared that the trial court, after finding the acts claimed to have constituted extreme cruelty, con-
Although the evidence is conflicting as to the finding that the defendant, when intoxicated, unjustly, and without sufficient provocation, once called the plaintiff a wdiore, and several times a bitch, and a witch from hell, in the presence of other people, yet this finding is justifiable by the rule applicable to findings upon conflicting evidence; but, qualified as it is by the further findings that the plaintiff was not uniformly kind to the defendant, that at the times when he called her those vile names she was not without fault, and that her health was not injured thereby, it does not stand the final test of its sufficiency, as it does not affirmatively show any actual or reasonably apprehended injurious effect of the language used upon the body or health of the plaintiff, and therefore it could not have been affirmatively perceived by the court that the cruelty was sufficient in degree. Upon the findings of fact, I think the judgment should have been for the defendant; and as the case appears to have been thoroughly tried as to the facts, it appears very improbable that a new trial would result more favorably to the plaintiff. (Ford v. Chambers, 28 Cal. 13.)
Both parties had been married before. The plaintiff had three children by her former marriage, aged, respectively, seven, nine, and eleven years, but the defendant had no children by his former marriage. The plaintiff had about two thousand five hundred dollars, and defendant had property worth about one hundred thousand dollars, at the time of their marriage. The intemperate habits of the defendant, such as they were after marriage, were known to plaintiff before marriage, and she testified that she once broke off her engagement to marry him on that account; and as a condition of renewing it, she required him to sign a written pledge to her, not that he would not drink, but only that he would not drink to excess, and that his hand trembled from the effect of drink at the time he signed the pledge. Soon after the marriage, plaintiff’s niece, then a young unmarried lady, came to live with them, and remained until she was married, on July 25, 1888, nearly three months after the commencement of this suit; for it appears that the plaintiff continued to reside in defendant’s house up to the time of trial, as before, except that he occupied a separate room from hers. The defendant kept his pledge until about two months after marriage.
The niece, Mrs. Albee, testified as to the first time he became intoxicated after marriage, as follows: “When I first came down I was very much pleased with my aunt’s choice; he was apparently a gentleman, and acted the gentleman for quite a while, until, probably six weeks afterward, we came home and found him in a state of intoxication, in the hall, and my aunt remonstrated with him after he got into the room, and he became very angry and swore a great deal; .... she remonstrated
It appears that there was no spare bed in the hduse at the time she barred him out of her room, their spare bedroom not being fully furnished at that time.
On cross-examination, plaintiff said: “ The time there
Being asked by her counsel if she ever did anything to provoke him or seek quarrels with him, she answered: “He would come home drunk, you know; I would say, ‘Now, Dave Waldron, now you are drunk again’; I would go on, and I said, ‘Now, you know very well the promise you made me, and the condition upon which I married you, and you have broken that promise, and you know you took an oath to me, and you kept sober, before you married me, for months.’ .... If he would come home drunk and fall in the doorway, and lay in the hall so we could not get him up, when my niece invited company, we had to send over to Mansfield to take him off of the floor; he has fallen in the front door so the whole house shook. When he would come home so, I was a little bit provoked, you know; then I would think it was my time to talk to him, and tell him what he was doing; he could not enjoy his money, and when he would get to drinking, he would kill himself. I would tell him about his soul and the hereafter; then he would answer me in the most terrible blasphemous remarks, when I would begin anything about religious subjects. .... At one time, I don’t know as he had much liquor, . . . . I made the most solemn appeal to him in the dining-room. When I got through he knew I was right. .... When I made this eloquent appeal to him, he picked up his head and said,‘You are a damned fool.’ My appeal was all right, but it was foolish to apply it to him. .... All I would do, I would talk to him, you know, and sometimes I would scold him. .... I says, ‘Did n’t your first wife ever scold you about your actions generally, and try to make you do what was right?
Mrs. Albee, the niece, testified: “I think it was after Christmas that his language and conduct was most vile, — well, almost up to the time ^tnd after she applied for a divorce.”' So it seems that the plaintiff and her niece remained in the house with him, and that the quarreling was kept up, after the suit for divorce had been' commenced,— the niece remaining until she was married, nearly three months after the suit was commenced.
Being asked how often she heard him call plaintiff vile names before the divorce suit was commenced, Mrs. Albee answered: “ I never heard him call her out of her name except this once. I heard him call her a whore but once. I never heard him call her a bitch.....I remonstrated with him. I was very indignant, and I spoke to him about his conduct.”
Plaintiff admitted that the defendant was an honest man in all his business transactions, and that he liberally supplied her and her children and niece. She complained of no unkindness when he was sober, and feared no physical violence from him when he was drunk. In their quarrels she appears to have been more than his match, though she could not descend to answer his profanity and obscenity in kind. While drunkenness was no excuse for calling her vile names under any circumstances, yet the injurious effect thereof upon her mind should not have been, and probably was not, so bad as if he had deliberately called her by those names when he was sober. No mental suffering produced by his drunkenness, merely, can be considered, because not complained of. (Haskell v. Haskell, 54 Cal. 262.) The mental suffering, caused by his words alone, can be considered in this case.
The finding that defendant called the plaintiff a whore
While the defamatory, obscene, and profane language of the defendant was wholly unjustified, inexcusable, and unmanly, it may be said that the conduct of the plaintiff was at least unkind and censorious, and tended to provoke anger and harsh language on the part of the defendant. It probably resulted from her ill temper, bad judgment, and a mistaken view of the duty of a wife under the circumstances. She probably deemed it her duty, by means of censure, reproach, and scolding, to make her husband “ do what was right,” and it seems that she faithfully, in season and out of season, applied such means. In this I think she was mistaken. Intemperate husbands are seldom, if ever, reformed by such treatment, whereas uniform kindness may often prove effectual, and never harmful; but should kindness fail, and the intemperance of the husband become habitual, the wife will be entitled to a divorce on that ground alone.
I think the judgment should be reversed, and the court below directed to render judgment for the defendant on
Belcher, C. C., and Foote, C., concurred.
For the reasons given in the foregoing opinion, the judgment is reversed, and the court below directed to render judgment for the defendant on the findings, without costs, and that the appellant pay his own costs of the appeal.
Paterson, J., dissented.
Dissenting Opinion
I dissent. It is possible that the judgment in this case might be reversed for want of sufficient proof of facts; but I dissent in toto from the views expressed in the opinion adopted by the majority of the court on the subject of extreme cruelty.
The opinion goes back to the old cases of Morris v. Morris, 14 Cal. 80, 73 Am. Dec. 615, and Powelson v. Powelson, 22 Cal. 362, and adopts their doctrine, that no conduct of a husband toward a wife constitutes extreme cruelty unless it injures bodily health or endangers physical safety. It treats a woman as having only a bodily structure and physical organs, like one of the lower animals, and utterly ignores her mental, moral, and emotional nature. Those cases, following musty decisions in the past, when women had few civil immunities which man was bound to respect, were determined before the present statutory law of California upon the subject and at a time when human rights, as human rights, were but dimly recognized, even in these free United States, and when extreme, and in some cases wholesale, violation of personal liberty was common against all except one class, viz., white male citizens. The theory of those cases is, that a husband may heap all sorts of wrongs upon a wife, short of beating or threats of personal violence; that his conduct toward her may be a continuous series of acts of
This doctrine makes legal cruelty depend, not on the misconduct of the husband, but on the endurance of the wife; not on the guilt of the wrong-doer, but on the vitality of the victim. The anguish of the mind must have eaten through the flesh and exhibited itself in bodily disease before there can be any legal evidence of cruelty. But some women, like some men, have inherited from sturdy ancestors physical constitutions so robust, with bone and blood, and muscle and nerve, and heart and lungs, so charged with vitality, that the woes of a Lear would not wear out the machinery or obstruct the currents of healthy physical life. Must such a woman suffer on forever, and only the weak who faint at a gentle reproach be relieved ?
There is not, in my opinion, any necessity whatever to follow Morris v. Morris and Poivelson v. Powelson as authorities; for, since they were decided, the statute law has been changed, and changed, I think, for the express purpose of obliterating those decisions. At that time the statute merely made “ extreme cruelty in either party ” a cause of divorce, without any attempt to define or describe it. (Hittell’s General Laws, par, 2416.) But the code has added the following: “ Extreme cruelty is the infliction of grievous bodily injury, or grievous menial suffering, upon the other by one party to the marriage.” (Civ. Code, sec. 94.) Here “ bodily injury” and “mental suffering” are mentioned as two entirely distinct things, and each, by itself, as constituting ex
It is said that the definition of extreme cruelty in section 94 is defective. Of course, there cannot be a perfect definition of such a thing. The qualities of human actions cannot be designated by accurate lines, as fields can be by fences. Can grievous bodily injury be accurately defined? It is said that the infliction of grievous suffering does not imply wrong or injustice. But section 94 is dealing with extreme cruelty, and uses that phrase. And does not “ extreme cruelty” itself imply wrong and injustice? And while extreme cruelty of either kind cannot, in the very nature of things, be accurately defined, there is often misconduct so far outside of and beyond that produced by the ordinary weaknesses and passions of men that the common judgment of mankind pronounces it extremely cruel. Every case where a divorce is sought on this ground must depend upon its own particular facts; and a correct decision must depend—as most cases depend—upon the sound sense and judgment of juries and courts. Some divorces are no doubt obtained upon insufficient proof; but it must be remembered that one reason why more divorces are granted than formerly is, because formerly wives had no remedy for many outrageous wrongs.
A petition for a rehearing having been filed, the following opinions were rendered thereon on the 1st of September, 1890: —
Rehearing
A rehearing is denied. The petition in this case is discourteous and disrespectful in some of its
Thornton, J., Fox, J., and Sharpstein, J., concurred.
Dissenting Opinion
I did not participate in the decision of this case, owing to want of opportunity to examine it -within the time allowed for a decision. Since the petition for rehearing, I have considered it carefully, and I am unable to concur in the judgment or the order refusing a rehearing. I think section 94 of the Civil Code defines extreme cruelty, and that by such definition it consists of either, — 1. The infliction of grievous bodily injury; or 2. The infliction of grievous mental suffering. This definition'was, I think, intended by the legislature to be complete, and this conclusion is not invalidated by wliat must be conceded to be true, viz., that the acts or -words causing the mental suffering or bodily injury must be not only intended but unjustifiable. These qualities of the acts of cruelty are sufficiently implied in the word “infliction.” In this view, the finding of the superior court comes up to the law,
Dissenting Opinion
I dissent from the order denying a rehearing, and adhere to the views expressed in my former dissenting opinion. I concur in the views of the majority of the court as to the objectionable language used in th.e petition for rehearing.