82 Mo. App. 79 | Mo. Ct. App. | 1899
This is an action for divorce. The petition, though somewhat inartificially drawn, charges in substance that the defendant had absented herself from plaintiff, without reasonable cause, for the space of one year, and it is, we think, therefore sufficient.
"We can not discover that the evidence discloses that there was anything in the conduct of the plaintiff to justify the defendant in absenting herself. It may be, and no doubt was true, as the defendant testified that the plaintiff did not provide for their joint use a very luxurious couch, or a “flowery bed of ease,” but that, with such bedding as the defendant testifies she added to that of the plaintiff, it was ample to keep them warm during the time they cohabited together: that is, from the latter part of May till the early part of September. According to the defendant’s own testimony, the plaintiff provided flour and groceries. To these articles she added meat, lard and vegetables from the store she had on hand at the time of the marriage. It can not therefore be concluded that there was any occasion or reason why either herself or children should have suffered the pangs of hunger.
It seems that, the plaintiff’s house was only a small cottage with three rooms, but that he had in process of construction a much more pretentious and commodious mansion house. But the defendant abandoned the plaintiff’s cottage 'before his mansion was ready for her reception. It would seem that there ought not to have been any serious fault found with
As to the quantity and Mnd of raiment the plaintiff provided for defendant the evidence is silent. She states, as a conclusion of hers, that it was insufficient, but no facts are stated from which we can form any conclusion of our own as to that. We are unwilling to condemn the plaintiff’s conduct in this regard without something more than is disclosed by the evidence before us. There is no evidence that the plaintiff was guilty of such cruel or barbarous treatment of defendant or her children as to endanger the life of either.
It does appear from the testimony of defendant that the plaintiff, on one occasion, when he was “out of sorts,” as she expressed it, told her that she did not know she was coming to a poor house, and that she replied that she did not, but that if she had she would have stayed at her own home. He told defendant that her children were “onery,” “no count,” liars, unworthy of confidence and who “could not earn their salt.” The utterances were perhaps personal indignities, but hardly such as to render her condition intolerable. There does not seem to have been any repetition of them when the plaintiff was not “out of sorts.” Both parties were somewhat advanced in years and it will not do to say that pevish utterances of either of them, of the kind just referred to, while suffering from some ailment, or not in usual health, afford grounds for separation. Persons who enter the conjugal state must, as has been expressed, “bear and forbear.” Every slight exhibition of ill temper or every unpleasant utterance must not be seized upon as a ground for the severance of the marriage tie. Before a party is granted a divorce, one of the statutory grounds therefor should be alleged and very, very satisfactoryy established by credible evidence. In the interest of society, courts should not, as they are often asked to do, grant divorces for “trifles as light as air.” In this case there is no allegation
It seems to us that the defendant, according to her own evidence, absented herself from the plaintiff without any reasonable cause therefor. It may be well doubted whether the defendant, in her cross-petition has alleged any statutory cause for a divorce, but if she has we do not think the same has teen sustained by the evidence .
We are not satisfied with the decree of the trial court in dismissing both petition and cross-petition, and we shall therefore reverse the judgment and remand the cause for rehearing.