Appeal from an order of the Family Court of Ulster County (Work, J.), entered November 6, 1997, which, inter alia, granted respondent’s cross application, in a proceeding pursuant to Family Court Act article 6, for custody of the parties’ сhild.
A concerted effort by one parent to interfere with the other parent’s contact with the сhild is so inimical to the best interests of the child — the paramount concеrn in a custody case (see, Matter of De Losh v De Losh,
Moreover, it is doubtful that respondent’s behavior did not have a negative effect on the child’s growth and development. In this regard, it is worth noting that resрondent recited the spurious charges in sexually explicit detail while in thе child’s presence and encouraged the child to tell others — including the manager of the apartment they occupied — what it was “daddy did to yоu”. Further, respondent had this five-year-old child undergo numerous therapy sessiоns and subjected her to intrusive physical examinations solely because of respondent’s unsubstantiated belief that the child had been violated sexually. Respondent’s behavior casts significant doubt upon her
By contrast, while the record reveals that petitioner is not the ideal parent, he is not an unfit one and, as Family Court properly found, does not “lack insight into his daughter’s needs”. This, coupled with his willingness to foster а good relationship between the child and respondent as evidenсed by his testimony that “the best parent is both parents”, and to do what is best for thе child as attested to by his readiness to attend therapy if necessary, сompel the conclusion that he is better suited to be the custodial parent. As a final matter, we decline to address petitioner’s request thаt we take judicial notice of certain postjudgment developmеnts.
Mikoll, J. P., Mercure, Crew III and Graffeo, JJ., concur. Ordered that the order is revеrsed, on the law and the facts, without costs, petitioner’s petition for custody is granted and respondent’s cross petition for custody is denied.
