A jury found defendant guilty of mistreating three-year-old Sandy as charged under § 559.340, 1 but failed to agree upon the punishment to be inflicted. Therefore, the Circuit Court of Jasper County assessed and declared defendant’s punishment to be six months in the county jail and rendered judgment accordingly. Rule 27.03. Defendant appealed claiming the trial court erred in denying his motions for judgment of acquittal 2 (Rule 26.10) and in giving Instruction 3 (directing a verdict) because there was no substantial evidence that he had the care and control of the child. He also claims the court committed error by admitting into evidence over his objections color photographs of the girl which pictured the results of the alleged beating and in refusing his converse charge, Instruction 10.
Inter alia, § 559.340 states: “If any mother or father of any infant child under the age of sixteen years, ... or any other person having the care and control of any such infant, shall unlawfully and purposely assault, beat, wound or injure such infant, whereby its life shall be endangered or its person or health shall have been or shall be likely to be injured, the person so offending shall, upon conviction, be punished by imprisonment in the penitentiary not exceeding three years, or by imprisonment in the county jail not exceeding one year, or by fine not exceeding one thousand dollars or by both such fine and imprisonment.”
Defendant was not the father of the alleged mistreated child, and if it could be assumed (which it cannot) that defendant was “any other person having the care and control” of Sandy, we conclude there was substantial evidence, if viewed in the light most favorable to the State (State v. Wing, Mo„
Before defendant and Susan were wed in June 1970, each had participated in similar unsuccessful ceremonies. Susan’s prior undertaking had produced for her one child, Sandy; defendant’s previous matrimonial adventure resulted in his becoming the father of three sons and a daughter. To the new home Susan brought Sandy, then two years of age, and defendant *465 brought his 10-year-old son, Gary. So as to accommodate a gathering of this size and anticipated additions, defendant, Susan, Sandy and Gary in October 1970 moved into a rural home which “[w]e were buying.” Two months thereafter they were joined by defendant’s other sons who resided with them “except on weekends [when] they [would] go down to their grandparents.” A son was born to Susan and defendant on April 4, 1971, and save for a pregnancy leave lasting from mid-January to the date of the alleged offense, Susan was employed in Carthage during the eleven months the off-again on-again cohabitation endured. Sandy was consigned to a babysitter in Carthage while Susan attended her job. Defendant was also employed. Repeated objections by the State (sustained by the trial court) prevented any insight as to what Susan and defendant did with their separate earnings. Consequently, the record does not disclose the quantum of support defendant may have provided for Sandy.
While the union was yet fresh, some discussion was had concerning defendant’s adoption of Sandy. However, the association soon grew tedious and tumultuous. The eleven months following the marriage witnessed Susan leaving defendant twice and contemplating divorce. Susan considered sending Sandy to her uncle in New York, or, as defendant recalled, Susan additionally thought of giving Sandy into the custody of the child’s natural father or maternal grandmother. Although Susan testified that defendant protested when she wanted to send Sandy to live with a relative, she recounted that defendant was not affectionate toward Sandy and had told Susan he was not adverse to her and Sandy leaving home.
Sandy had not taken to toilet training by the time her mother married defendant and the problem concerned the defendant after the nuptials. Susan and defendant talked frequently of the matter. Defendant said he had discussed taking Sandy to a doctor but the problem had never been presented to a physician because “we just never did get together on taking her.” It was also related by defendant that “we had tried several other ways” to correct the problem besides spanking Sandy — one of the ways was “after we had moved [to the country] we got a little switch, . . . just laid it up where we thought . . . she would think we was going to use it on her to correct her.”
Concerning the charged mistreatment of Sandy: According to Susan she emerged from the bathroom the night of May 17, 1971, and saw defendant standing over Sandy, who was then in bed. She heard defendant ask her then three-year-old daughter why she had soiled her pants. When Sandy replied, “I don’t know,” Susan related that defendant jerked Sandy from her bed by the hair, took her into the bathroom, shut the door, and thereafter for “[n]ot any more than 10 minutes . heard him yelling and her screaming.” The mother did not “ever hear anything like a blow being struck,” but did hear the undersink bathroom “cabinet bang a couple of times.” During this period, Susan made no effort to intercede for Sandy in any fashion. She undertook to explain her inactivity at this point by “just the fact that I didn’t agree with him and spanking her made him violent and I was afraid if I said anything about it at all it would just be worse.” Of Sandy’s appearance when she left the bathroom, Susan said: “Her eyes were starting to swell shut and her face had bruises all over it and her ears and her shoulder [were] bruised. She was a mess.” Defendant denied pulling Sandy from bed by her hair or beating her as Susan indicated he had done. Instead, he said he led the child to the bathroom by the hand, “spanked her with a houseslipper [on] the fanny . . . three or four times [and] talked to her about trying to get her to cooperate [about] wetting and messing her clothes.” Upon examining Sandy the next afternoon, a physician testified he found “she had a large hematoma . . . of her right eyelid, the eyelid was *466 swollen out, completely swollen shut and discolored, red, and she had ecchymosis which are bruise marks, both ears and her back and forehead.” In the doctor’s opinion it would “take a minimum of four” blows to cause the injuries he observed.
Defendant maintains “that as a matter of law” the State did not prove he had “the care and control” of Sandy. One element of his attack is the assertion that the words “care and control” in § 559.340 “could only mean the
lawful
care and control.” (All emphasis herein is ours). The words “lawful” and “legal” are ofttimes synonyms (State v. Heath,
Professor Monrad G. Paulsen wrote in “The Legal Framework for Child Protection,” 66 Columbia Law Review, at pp. 682-683, that “[t]he majority of states name as the potential offender a ‘person having the care or custody,’ or any person with ‘legal control,’ or ‘any parent, adoptive parent or other person who has the permanent or temporary care or custody,’ and thus suggest that only a parent or one standing in loco parentis to the child may be punished. In contrast, many states simply provide that ‘any person’ may be charged with the crime of cruelty to children.” Our statute (§ 559.340) does not fit exactly any of the examples noted by Professor Paulsen. However, the meaning of the clause “or any other person having the care and control of any such infant” in § 559.340, is modified by the context and has relation to the preceding words “moth *467 er or father,” which indicates that “any other person” would include one standing in loco parentis to the child.
In another phase of defendant’s argument he assumes that before he can be classed as “any other person having the care and control” of Sandy and before the trial court could properly instruct the jury on that constituent element of the offense, it behooved the State to prove he stood in loco parentis to Sandy. He argues against the existence of such a relationship by recasting much of the testimony heretofore recited. Nevertheless, even should defendant’s assumption be accepted, the State was not required to conclusively prove the existence of that relationship; it was incumbent upon the State only to produce substantial evidence of the fact, i. e., “ ‘ “evidence from which the triers of the fact reasonably could find the issue in harmony therewith.” ’ State v. Whitaker, Mo.,
Defendant and Susan, with their son and children of other marriages, shared a common table and all lived together under a single roof acquired for the purpose of housing them as a family. Sandy’s natural father provided her with no support. Defendant, as to Sandy, assumed a concern regarding her place of abode by objecting to his wife’s suggestions that the child reside elsewhere, and evidenced a personal interest in her toilet training problems usually possessed only by those standing in the place of a natural parent. There is no question but that defendant considered himself the head of the household. He most assuredly exercised the parental right of discipline over his stepdaughter. Under these circumstances and all others that may indicate to the contrary, we cannot, as a matter of law, declare that defendant did or did not stand in loco parentis to Sandy; whether such a relationship actually existed was for the jury. Lynch v. Rosenthal, Mo.App.,
Four color photographs of Sandy’s face, taken the day after the alleged assault, were admitted into evidence over defendant’s objections. He does not now, at least, claim that Sandy or her injuries are not portrayed in their natural colors or that the pictures do not fairly represent what they purport to show. Instead, he asseverates “their inflammatory and prejudicial effect far outweighed any potential evidentiary or probative value.”
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The admission of photographs rests principally within the sound discretion of the trial court and their admission is proper when helpful to show relevant facts. State v. Crawford, Mo.,
Instruction 3, given by the trial court, charged the jury, in part, “that if you find and believe from all the evidence in this case, beyond a reasonable doubt, that . the Defendant . . . had the care and control of [Sandy], . . ., and that . . . Defendant did willfully and unlawfully, feloniously and purposely assault and beat [Sandy] . . ., then you will find the Defendant guilty ., and unless you so find the facts to be you will acquit the Defendant.” Instruction 10, offered by the defendant and refused by the trial court, reads: “The court instructs the jury that unless you find and believe from the evidence, beyond a reasonable doubt as defined by the other instructions, that the Defendant had the care and control of [Sandy] ., your verdict must be not guilty.” The trial court did not give any other instruction which presented this issue conversely or in an affirmative manner from the defendant’s point of view, and the State does not contend that refused Instruction 10 was incorrect in form.
“[A] converse instruction is not a part of the law of the case on which the court must instruct whether requested or not. Hence, if a defendant wants a converse instruction given, he must formulate and offer a proper one.” State v. Engberg, Mo.,
Notes
. References to statutes, unless noted otherwise, and rules are to RSMo 1969, Y.A.M.S., and Supreme Court Rules, Y.A.M.R.
. By presenting evidence in his own behalf, defendant waived any claim of error as to his motion for acquittal at the close of the State’s case. State v. Hill, Mo.,
