[¶ 1] Deanne Stai-Johnson, formerly Johnson, appeals the judicial referee’s order denying her request to move out of state with the child over whom she has primary residential responsibility. We affirm, concluding the judicial referee’s find
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[¶ 2] Deanne Stai-Johnson and Mitchell Johnson were married in 1998. The parties had two children during their marriage, R.S.J. and J.M.J. Johnson was in the military and the parties resided in various locations, before moving to Fargo in 2009. Stai-Johnson and Johnson divorced in 2013. Stai-Johnson was awárd-ed primary residential responsibility of the younger child, J.M.J., and Johnson was awarded primary residential responsibility of the older child, R.S.J. On February 11, 2014, Stai-Johnson filed a motion requesting permission to move out of state, with J.M.J., to Kelliher, Minnesota. In an affidavit in support of the motion, Stai-John-son alleged she sought to be closer to family, wanted to obtain employment and further her education in Bemidji, Minneso-ta, and the schools in Kelliher would benefit J.M.J. Johnson opposed her motion to relocate.
[¶ 3] At the hearing on the motion to relocate, Stai-Johnson, Johnson, and an extended family member of Stai-Johnson testified. Stai-Johnson testified she could obtain better jobs in Bemidji, if relocation was permitted. Stai-Johnson testified one of the jobs she applied for in Bemidji offers free college credit at Bemidji State University, which would allow her to obtain a masters degree in business administration. Stai-Johnson also testified the school J.M.J. would attend in Kelliher is a good quality school that would be more affordable, as J.M.J. currently attends a private school. Additionally, Stai-Johnson testified another benefit to the move would be that she would have the added support of her extended family members, who live in Kelliher, and both teach at and attend the school J.M.J. would attend. Finally, Stai-Johnson testified the Kelliher area offers numerous outdoor activities for J.M.J. Johnson testified that J.M.J. already participates in the same outdoor activities that Stai-Johnson asserted are available in Kelliher, in Fargo with his father and brother. Johnson testified the schools in the Fargo area are of a good quality and offer various advanced placement courses. Johnson testified as to his concerns regarding his reduced parenting time with J.M.J., if relocation occurs. Johnson testified J.M.J. and R.S.J. have a close relationship and attend each other’s activities. However, Johnson testified he was concerned J.M.J. and R.S.J. may not see each other as often, if relocation was allowed, because R.S.J. and Stai-Johnson have a strained relationship.
[¶ 4] The judicial referee denied Stai-Johnson’s motion requesting permission to move out of state, concluding the move was not in the children’s best interests. Particularly, the judicial referee found the school system and extracurricular activities in Kelliher did not offer a greater advantage to J.M.J., Stai-Johnson’s commute to work and school would require her to be away from J.M.J. for an extended period of time each day, J.M.J. would lose parenting time with Johnson, and R.S.J. and J.M.J. would have diminished time, proximity, and personal contact together if relocation was allowed. Stai-Johnson appealed, arguing the judicial referee failed to properly analyze the Stout-Hawkinson factors in denying her motion to move out of state.
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[¶ 5] A district court’s decision whether the move is in the best interests of the child is a finding of fact, which will not be reversed on appeal unless it is clearly erroneous.
Gilbert v. Gilbert,
[¶ 6] Under N.D.C.C. § 14-09-07(1), “[a] parent with primary residential responsibility for a child may not change the primary residence of the child to another state except upon order of the court or with the consent of the other parent, if the other parent has been given parenting time by the decree.” “The burden is on the custodial parent to prove, by a preponderance of the evidence, that the move is in the child’s best interests.”
Graner v. Graner,
“In every relocation dispute, the court must try to accommodate the competing interests of the custodial parent who desires to seek a better life for herself and the children in a different geographical area; the child’s interest in maintaining a meaningful relationship with the noncustodial parent; the noncustodial parent’s interest in maintaining a meaningful relationship with the child; and finally, the state’s interest in protecting the best interests of the child.”
Schmidt v. Bakke,
1. The prospective advantages of the move in improving the custodial parent’s and child’s quality of life,
2. The integrity of the custodial parent’s motive for relocation, considering whether it is to defeat or deter visitation by the custodial parent,
3. The integrity of the noncustodial parent’s motives for opposing the move,
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4. The potential negative impact on the relationship between the noncustodial parent and the child, including whether there is a realistic opportunity for visitation which can provide an adequate basis for preserving and fostering the noncustodial parent’s relationship with the child if relocation is allowed, and the likelihood that each parent will comply with such alternate visitation.
Dvorak v. Dvorak,
[¶ 7] In this case, Stai-Johnson has primary residential responsibility of J.M.J. and Johnson did not consent to the change of J.MJ.’s primary residence. As a result, it was necessary for Stai-Johnson to obtain a court order permitting the change of residence.
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N.D.C.C. § 14-09-07(1). The judicial referee applied the
Stout-Hawkinson
factors and found the move to Minnesota was not in the children’s best interests. Stai-Johnson argues the judicial referee’s findings regarding factors one and four were clearly erroneous. Neither Stai-Johnson, nor Johnson, dispute the judicial referee’s findings under factors two and three, which pertain to the integrity of the custodial parent’s motive for
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[¶ 8] Stai-Johnson argues the judicial referee erroneously applied the first
Stout-Hawkinson
factor, which pertains to the prospective advantages of the move in improving the custodial parent’s and child’s quality of life.
Hawkinson,
[¶ 9] Under the first
Stout-Hawkinson
factor, the district court must balance the advantages of the move, while recognising the importance of maintaining continuity and stability.
Schmidt,
[T]he custodial parent’s proposed employment at the relocation site, whether the custodial parent’s and child’s health and well-being are benefitted, whether the custodial parent has remarried and requests to move to live with the new spouse, whether the custodial parent will have more time to spend with the child, whether there are family members who will provide a support network, the child’s reasonable preference, and educational opportunities.
Graner,
[¶ 10] The judicial referee found Stai-Johnson has extended family and numerous friends near Kelliher, who she asserts will improve her quality of life and can assist her with her parenting responsibility. The judicial referee also found Stai-Johnson was not seeking employment in Fargo, but asserts she can be employed in Bemidji. However, the judicial referee noted Stai-Johnson would need to commute to and from Bemidji for work and school, which could require her to be out of the home from 7 a.m. to 6 p.m. each day. Recognizing family and friends would be available to help care for J.M.J., the judicial referee found “this is not an advantage to J.M.J. over [Stai-Johnson’s] current or past availability to parent.” Further, the judicial referee found Stai-Johnson had not shown the school system and extracurricular activities available in Kelliher offered a greater advantage to J.M.J. over his current location. The judicial referee also found the record had not established the housing in Kelliher would be an advantage over the available housing in Fargo, J.M.J. did not express a preference, and the move was not related to any marriage plans for Stai-Johnson.
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[¶ 12] Stai-Johnson argues the judicial referee’s application of the fourth
Stout-Hawkinson
factor is clearly erroneous. The fourth factor pertains to the potential negative impact on the relationship between the noncustodial parent and whether there is a realistic opportunity for visitation.
Hawkinson,
[¶ 13] In analyzing the fourth factor, a district court considers “the negative impact of the move on the noncustodial parent’s relationship with the children and the ability to restructure visitation to foster and preserve the relationship.”
Graner,
[¶ 14] The judicial referee found Johnson spends considerable time engaging in routine parenting and extracurricular activities with both J.M.J. and R.S.J. Further, the judicial referee found a very close bond exists between Johnson and J.M.J. The judicial referee’s findings and order for amended judgment provides:
It is difficult to imagine a schedule that would allow [Johnson] to regain the time lost on Fridays and Mondays if the [Stai-Johnson] request to relocate is granted. For instance, if more of the summer is spent with the [Johnson], this diminishes the participation by J.M.J. in the numerous outdoor and family activities listed by the [Stai-Johnson] as one of the benefits of the relocation.
Although the parties struggle with communication and cooperation, the judicial referee found there was no reason to believe either party would not comply with any parenting schedule put in place, if the
[¶ 15] The judicial referee also considered the effects the proposed move would have on the relationship between J.M.J. and R.S.J. In
Schmidt,
we recognized “the effect of the separation of siblings is a consideration in the trial court’s analysis of the best interests of the child and whether to grant a motion to relocate a child out of this state.”
Ill
[¶ 16] On this record, the judicial referee properly applied the
Stout-Hawkinson
factors and gave the effect of diminished contact between separated siblings proper consideration. We are not left with a definite and firm conviction the judicial referee made a mistake.
See Stout,
