22 Kan. 699 | Kan. | 1879
The opinion of the court was delivered by
This was an action for divorce, and the first question is, whether the testimony which is not contradictory makes out “gross neglect of duty” within the meaning of those terms as used in the divorce statute. The case is thus: On Apr-il 30, 1878, plaintiff, at the suggestion of defendant, left their home in Lawrence, to visit her sister in eastern Massachusetts. The defendant purchased her a ticket and gave her sixty dollars, promising to send her more from time to time. She wrote for money the first time in August, and he replied, again promising money, but sending none. This was repeated several times. And he has since in no manner contributed t'o her support. In fact, when he suggested the visit, he intended a separation, and that she should never return. She remained with her sister until the last of November, when she returned to Lawrence. During her entire absence, her health was poor, and in September and October she was confined to her bed and under the charge of a physician. On her return to Lawrence, being advised that her husband did not wish her to come to his Home, she went to a neighbor’s, where she continued to live until the commencement of this action. Upon an interview with her husband, he declined to permit her to return to his house, and has-continued to so decline. He has means, and is able to support her, while she has no property other than a piano. The testimony is silent as to her present health, or her ability to support herself by her own labor. The action was commenced March 1, 1879.
Upon these facts, did the court err in finding that there had been no gross neglect of duty within the scope of the divorce act? We think not. The expression, “gross neglect of duty,” is indefinite, and it is difficult to lay down any general rule'by which every case can be determined to be within or without its limits. Each case must be examined by itself.
Again, the term “gross” cannot be equivalent to the word “total.” It is not the total, the entire neglect of all marital duty, which is intended by this expression. That is covered by another term, “abandonment.” But abandonment, which is a neglect or omission of all marital duty, must continue for a year. That being named as one of the grounds of divorce, and the duration of such abandonment prescribed, nothing less than the time prescribed will suffice. An abandonment for one month or ten, although it involves a total neglect of all marital duty, is not gross neglect of duty within the statute. Something more than mere neglect, although-it is a neglect of all duty, is requisite. If neglect alone is shown, it must’be a total neglect, and continue for a year.
Authorities are few, yet we find these which throw some light upon the question. The statute of Massachusetts authorized a divorce “when the husband, being of sufficient ability, grossly or wantonly and cruelly refuses or neglects to provide suitable maintenance for her.” In the case of Peabody v. Peabody, 104 Mass. 195, it was held that the mere neglect of a husband, with no circumstances of aggravation, to provide maintenance for his wife and children for fifteen years, during which she supported the children from her own earnings, is not such gross or wanton and cruel neglect as will sustain a libel for divorce. In Holt v. Holt, 117 Mass. 202, the evidence was, that the husband left the wife without cause, and remained away for ten months without providing
This in many respects resembles the case at bar, though in some features is stronger in favor of divorce, and against the conduct of the husband. See also, Brown v. Brown, 22 Mich. 242. Now the testimony in this case shows abandonment, but abandonment without circumstances of indignity, aggravation or cruelty. The defendant sent his wife ostensibly on a visit to her sister, paid her expenses, and gave her a small sum for temporary support. It would seem to have been an abandonment with as little of indignity or insult as possible. She was not turned out among strangers, or with nothing. No act of cruelty, no word of insult, no circumstance of aggravation. Conceding the wrong in the abandonment, that seems to have been the extent of the wrong. Her subsequent sickness does not appear to have been an anticipated one. She was not sent away in expectation of confinement, or with a babe, or in a condition of present suffering and weakness. For aught that appears, in perfect health, and with mutual ability to labor and support themselves, they parted, he being the party seeking and causing the separation. In- other words, in the matter of abandonment he was the wrong-doer. But that abandonment not having lasted for a year, we cannot hold that the court erred in not calling it .gross neglect of duty.
The other question presented arises out of the refusal of the court to give leave to file a supplemental petition. On May 10, the testimony having been all taken before a referee and reported to the court, application was made for leave to file a supplemental petition, alleging abandonment for one year. The application was refused. Was this error, and such error as
We make one further suggestion in closing this opinion, and that is, that as a rule haste in divorces is not wise. Courts should not be eager to advance or grant them. They
The judgment will be affirmed.