178 Iowa 673 | Iowa | 1916
Plaintiff and his wife were married in 1889, and lived'together about 25 years. During that period, they made their home in several different states, and moved from one home to another many different times. Plaintiff was on occasion a clerk in a store, a rural mail carrier, and at times
It is the claim of plaintiff that, taking advantage of the opportunity thus afforded him, defendant supplanted him in the affections of his wife and alienated her from him. The defendant denies the wrongful conduct charged by plaintiff, and alleges in substance that, during all of plaintiff’s married life, he neglected his wife, was guilty of adultery and other scandalous offences against her, was a gambler and spendthrift, and thereby caused her to withdraw her affections from him and compelled her to refuse to live longer with him. Upon these issues, there was a jury trial, resulting in a verdict and judgment for plaintiff in the sum of $6,500.
Several grounds are assigned for a reversal, but we shall coniine our attention to such only as seem to be determinative of the appeal.
“Our affections commenced to cool about 1913. Never had any trouble with my wife and family until she turned me out of the home about six months ago.”
In view of the issues joined and the testimony admitted on behalf of plaintiff, we think this exclusion of the testimony offered by the defendant concerning the domestic relations of plaintiff and wife, and of her statements concerning the same made before the alleged alienation, was erroneous. That evidence of this nature is competent is well settled, although here and there may be found an inconsistent precedent. To entitle plaintiff to recover, he is required to establish, by a preponderance of evidence, not only that he has lost the
“Any unhappy relations existing between the plaintiff and wife, not caused by the conduct of the defendant, may affect the question of damages, and were properly submitted to the jury; but they are in no sense a justification or palliation of the.defendant’s conduct. They are not allowed to affect the damages because the acts of the defendant are less reprehensible, but because the condition of the husband is such that the injury wMch such acts occasion is less than otherwise it might have been.” Iiadley v. Heywood, 121 Mass. 236.
‘ ‘ The fact, however, that the plaintiff and his wife lived unhappily together before the defendant’ appeared, and even were much estranged, would not constitute a bar to the plain*679 tiff’s action, but would go ... in mitigation of damages.” Prettyman v. Williamson (Del.), 39 Atl. 731, 734.
“Circumstances which show that plaintiff possessed no .comforts of a domestic character are proper to be given in evidence in mitigation of damages. If the plaintiff and his wife lived unhappily before the improper advances of the defendant such evidence is pertinent. The defendant cannot be chargeable with destroying plaintiff’s domestic comfort when he never enjoyed such comfort. If the plaintiff was in the habit of improper intimacy with other women his sense of moral propriety could not be much offended by the loss of virtue in his wife. The guilt of the defendant is not therefore diminished but the plaintiff has suffered less damage. The merits of plaintiff but not the demerits of defendant are less; bóth however are considered by the jury in forming their verdict, and all circumstances which diminish the one or enhance the other.are proper subjects for their consideration.” Smith v. Masten, 15 Wend. (N. Y.) 270.
Complaints by the wife, before the alleged wrongful acts of the defendant, of ill treatment received at the hands of the plaintiff (her husband), are admissible in evidence,' and their exclusion by the trial court is reversible error. Palmer v. Crook, 7 Gray (Mass.) 418, 419.
In the cited case, the Massachusetts court says:
“If the defendant invaded domestic peace, destroyed conjugal felicity, and . . . seduced the wife’s affections from a kind and tender husband, he inflicted a much more grievous wrong, and incurred a far heavier penalty in damages, than he would have done if love, harmony and affectionate intercourse had been previously impaired or lost, through the misconduct and cruel treatment of the husband. The state of the wife’s mind, and feelings towards the husband before the alleged infidelity is therefore directly in issue, as bearing upon the question of damages, and it may be shown, in the usual mode in which proof of such a fact is made in courts of law, by evidence of declarations and state*680 ments of the wife, indicating the condition of her affections towards her husband during their cohabitation and prior to the alleged seduction. Such is the rule, whenever it is necessary to show the mental feelings of an individual.”
So, also, it is said by the Vermont court:
“In actions for criminal conversation, it is relevant to inquire into the terms on which the husband and wife lived together before her connection with the defendant.” Fratini v. Caslani (Vt.), 29 Atl. 252.
See also Luick v. Arends (N. Dak.), 132 N. W. 353, 364; Cross v. Grant, 62 N. H. 675; Horner v. Yance (Wis.), 67 N. W. 720; Perry v. Lovejoy, 49 Mich. 529; Edgell v. Francis (Mich.), 33 N. W. 501.
Our own cases appear to be entirely consistent with the doctrine of the foregoing precedents. In Bailey v. Bailey, 94 Iowa 598, 604, it was held error to exclude proof offered by defendant of conduct on the.part of the plaintiff wife which would have the natural tendency to lessen or alienate from her the affections of her husband. In Bailey v. Kennedy, 148 Iowa 715, 720, we applied the principle, saying:
“It is urged in argument by appellant that his previous unhappy relations with his wife constitute no bar to the present action, and this may be conceded .as a legal proposition. But these unhappy relations are a very important consideration when the mere loss of his wife’s affection is put forward by the plaintiff as a circumstance sufficient to warrant the inference that such loss was caused by the conduct of the defendant, even though such conduct was not criminal nor in itself wrongful. ’ ’
See, also, Pooley v. Dutton, 165 Iowa 745, 750.
Speaking to the same point, Judge Cooley says:
*680 “The extent of the injury in any ease must depend in great measure upon the previous relations of the parties. If these were cordial and affectionate, and such as are expected to exist when a suitable marriage has been formed under a proper sense of the obligations and responsibilities that belong
The foregoing citations are by no means exhaustive of the list of authorities to the same general effect. The rule recognized by them is too well established to be successfully questioned, and is grounded in reason and justice. It follows that the exclusion of the testimony of the witnesses offered by defendant concerning the relations existing between plaintiff and his wife prior to the alleged interference of the defendant, was erroneous.
■ “Did you have any conversation at any time during that period with your sister with regard to her feelings toward her husband during any of that period of time?”
He was also asked whether he saw or knew of anything between Smith and his wife indicating that they were not on affectionate terms. Defendant objected to the competency and materiality of these questions, but the objections were overruled, and the witness proceeded to repeat statements
The errors pointed out are material, and require a reversal of the judgment below.
II. Appellant argues that the damages assessed are excessive, and we are strongly impressed with the conviction that such is the case, and the seemingly extraordinary character of the award is not without weight in emphasizing the conclusion above expressed that a new trial is demanded in the interests of justice. In view of another trial, it is better that we do not discuss those features of the record leading to this conclusion.
Other errors assigned are for the most part without merit. The remainder are of a character not likely to arise on another hearing.
The judgment of the district court is reversed, and the cause remanded for a new trial. Reversed and Remanded.