33 Pa. Super. 325 | Pa. Super. Ct. | 1907
Opinion by
This is an appeal from a decree of divorce a vinculo matrimonii. The cause alleged in the libel is cruel and barbarous
The preponderance of testimony supports the allegation that for a period of two years, or thereabouts, prior to the institution of this proceeding, the respondent was addicted to the use of intoxicating liquors; that upon several occasions she carried it to excess, and upon two or three occasions became grossly intoxicated.
The allegation that she was neglectful of her children (a boy aged about three years and a girl aged about sixteen months, at the institution of this proceeding) is sustained by the preponderance of testimony so far as the allegation relates to their bodily cleanliness and the cleanliness of their apparel; but a finding that she illtreated them otherwise, or was lacking in affection for them, is not warranted upon a fair consideration of all the evidence. Indeed, some of the testimony as to her peevish and quarrelsome acts shows that some of the conduct of which complaint is made grew out of the respondent’s over-solicitude about the health of her infant child.
The fact that for a year, perhaps two years, before the in
As to refusal to prepare meals for the libelant, the testimony of the parties is conflicting, he alleging it and she denying it; but the testimony of a servant, who lived with them for about seven weeks immediately preceding the institution of the suit, is so far corroborative of the libelant’s testimony as to warrant a finding that during the latter half of the period, in reply to his inquiries at breakfast whether she would have dinner for. him when he came home, she would answer no, and that “ he did not need to come home for his supper, for there would not be any.” It does not clearly appear in the testimony of this witness how often this occurred during the short period above referred to, and it is worthy of note .that neither the nurse, who on two or three occasions had attended upon the respondent, nor any of the former servants, testified to her refusal to prepare meals or to have them prepared during the time they were employed. The testimony, taken as a whole, while sustaining the allegation that she did so refuse on occasion, does not clearly and satisfactorily show persistent and continued neglect of marital duty in this particular.
The testimony of disinterested witnesses fairly warrants the conclusion that the respondent scolded and found fault with the libelant frequently; that her “ language was quarrelsome and nagging,” as one of the witnesses described it; that at times she had fits of temper in which she addressed him in violent and abusive language, and applied to him opprobrious epithets. It is to be observed, however, that in some of the instances referred to by these witnesses her scolding and quarrelsome conduct is explained, if not wholly excused, by the fact that she was suffering from a nervous disorder attendant upon menstrual sickness, and in other instances by the nervous condition she was in about the time of her confinement. In other instances it is explained, but not excused, by the fact that she was under the influence of intoxicating liquor. It is to be observed further
There is no evidence that she ever inflicted physical violence upon the libelant, while the evidence does show that he inflicted such violence upon her upon the occasions above referred to; and if the respondent is to be believed, these were not the only instances. No witness other than the libelant testifies that she ever threatened him by word or act with personal violence, except as about to be stated. The nurse, who attended upon her at and after her confinement in the fall of 1894, testified that she saw nothing particularly wrong during the period of nineteen days that she was there until the day before she left. A dispute then arose between them as to the treatment of their boy, then less than two years old. The child cried because he wanted to sleep with his mother, and the father — property, no doubt — would not permit it. This angered her, and in the course of the dispute she picked a cup to throw at her husband, but was prevented by the nurse. The testimony as to her subsequent conduct the same night bears out what we have said with regard to her nervous disorder rather than aggravates the act charged against her. The respondent testified as to another occasion as follows: “ I fired two small cups down the steps at him one night; he made me so angry for the way, the names he called me, and accusing me of going around with men, which I have never done, and he was coming up after me and I fired them down.”
With these two exceptions, the allegation that the respondent made threats of personal violence against the libelant depends entirety upon his testimony, that on one occasion she said “ if she was a man she would kill me and hang for me; ” that on another occasion, evidently after these proceedings were instituted, she said “ if I would not stop them she would get George Stephenson to lick me; ” that when the libelant threatened her with this suit she answered that before she would get through with him he would not have any store or anything else; and that once, after a quarrel, she called after him, “You scoundrel, I will fix you.” The foregoing is a fair
The libelant testifies that in consequence of her conduct he is. a “ physical wreck.” This assertion depends upon his testimony alone ; no physician was called to testify as to his condition of health or to express an opinion as to his nervous condition. It is to be noticed further that the parties lived in the same house, and more or less frequently slept in the same bed, down to the time of the filing of the libel, and continued to live in the same house for some time afterward. This tends, in some degree at least, to dispel belief that he had a reasonable apprehension of personal violence or was subjected to such treatment as endangered his life or health and rendered cohabitation unsafe.
Without discussing the evidence as to the specific allegations of the libel in greater detail, we remark generally, in conclusion, that if all of the testimony of the libelant is to be accepted as verity, and all of the testimony of the respondent in conflict therewith is to be rejected as unworthy of belief, it would be
The decree is reversed and the libel dismissed at the costs of the appellee.