—In a custody proceeding pursuant to Family Court Act article 6, the father appeals from an order of the Family Court, Queens County (Lubow, J.), dated May 19, 1995, which, after a hearing, granted permanent custody of the parties’ child to the mother.
Ordered that the order is reversed, on the law, without costs or disbursements, and the proceeding is dismissed.
We recognize that the Family Court’s determination should be accorded great deference on appeal since it had the opportunity to assess the witnesses’ demeanor and credibility. Nevertheless, the authority of this Court is as broad as that of the Family Court in custody matters (see, Matter of Louise E. S. v W. Stephen S,
A change of custody should be made only if the totality of the circumstances warrants a change that is in the best interests of the child (see, Matter of Sullivan v Sullivan,
The Family Court in this case failed to give sufficient weight to the facts that the child, who was almost four years old at the time of the hearing, had resided with his father his entire life and that the father had been his primary caretaker even
We conclude that the evidence establishes that the child is well cared for by his father, with whom he has a close relationship, and that the mother is not able to provide a better home environment or better care for the child. Under these circumstances, we find that custody should remain with the father. Thompson, J. P., Copertino and Friedmann, JJ., concur.
Goldstein, J., dissents and votes to affirm the order appealed from, with the following memorandum, with which Hart, J., concurs: I cannot concur with the majority that there is no basis in the record for the determination of the Family Court that the best interests of the child would be served by awarding custody to his mother.
It is well settled that "priority is afforded the first determination of custody in the belief the stability this policy will assure in the child’s life is in the child’s best interests” (Eschbach v Eschbach,
The majority, in reversing the Family Court’s determination, states, "Both forensic experts recommended that the child remain in the father’s custody.” This statement is not accurate. While one expert favored preserving the status quo, the other expert did not make any recommendation about which parent should have custody. The second expert did conclude, however, without reservations, that the mother exhibits excellent parental qualities and that she is fully capable of assuming custody of the child. While the second expert also concluded that the father is capable of providing adequate care for the child and conceivably could retain custody of him, as the Family Court noted, this recommendation is a rather lukewarm endorsement of the father. In any case, the Family Court is not bound as a matter of law by the recommendations of the forensic experts (see, Matter of Prete v Prete,
At the custody hearing, the father acknowledged that, after he and the mother separated in October 1992, he and the child moved to his grandmother’s home in New Jersey. In January 1993, the father and the child moved to an apartment with the father’s girlfriend. During the pendency of this custody proceeding, the father and the child moved to a home that the father’s girlfriend purchased in her name only in Lake Ronkonkoma, Long Island. The Family Court noted that Lake Ronkonkoma is a sizable commuting distance from where the mother lives.
During the pendency of this proceeding and for significant periods prior thereto, the father was not self-supporting. At the time of the hearing, the father was dependent upon the mother’s child support payments. Although the father and his girlfriend plan to marry, the girlfriend acknowledged at the hearing they cannot set a date to do so. The Family Court found this state of affairs particularly disturbing since the stability of the child’s living arrangements are dependent upon the father’s girlfriend, leaving the child’s future very tentative.
The mother, on the other hand, was entirely self-sufficient prior to and during the present proceeding and served as the family’s sole source of support during a substantial portion of the parties’ marriage. At the time of the hearing, she was living with her fiance and planned to marry him as soon as the parties’ matrimonial action is resolved. Thus, the Family Court concluded, with a sound and substantial basis in the record, that an award of custody to the mother carries with it greater assurances of stability than an award of custody to the father.
With respect to the father’s use of the child as a pawn against the mother, the mother testified that she commenced the present proceeding when the father refused her visitation unless she came to a financial agreement with him. Although the father denied that he did such a thing, the Family Court, who had the opportunity to see and hear the witnesses, chose to credit the mother’s testimony and to discredit the testimony of the father, whom the court found was "smug, hostile and
During the present proceeding, the father claimed that the mother’s fiance sexually abused the child. The father took the child to a pediatrician for an examination, and the pediatrician found that there was no physical evidence to substantiate the father’s complaint. Nevertheless, a complaint was filed with the child welfare authorities, who found the charge to be unfounded. This false allegation of child abuse is another example of the father’s efforts to interfere with the relationship between the child and his mother (see, Matter of Gago v Acevedo,
Accordingly, the Family Court’s determination that the best interests of the child would be served by changing custody of the child to the mother has a sound and substantial basis in the record and should not be disturbed (see, Matter of Wilson v Wilson,
