4 Paige Ch. 516 | New York Court of Chancery | 1834
Whether the settlement which was made between the complainant and her husband was a judicious and reasonable one, and one which would have been beneficial to her if she had thought proper to adhere to its terms and to comply with its conditions, is a question which it is not necessary for me to decide upon the present applica- , tion. It is evident, however, from the affidavits produced on the part of the defendant, that no fraud or imposition was
But it is impossible for a feme covert to make any valid agreement with her husband to live separate from him, in violation of the marriage contract and of the duties which she owes to society, except under the sanction of the court; and in a case where the conduct of her husband has been such as to entitle her to a decree for a separation. The law of the land does not authorize or sanction a voluntary agreement for separation between husband and wife. It merely tolerates such agreements when made in such a manner that they can be enforced by or against a third person acting in behalf of the wife. In the ecclesiastical courts of England, where a jurisdiction exists to decree a restitution of conjugal rights between married persons, a deed of separation is no bar to a suit instituted for that purpose ; as the indissolubility of the marriage contract renders it impossible for the parties lawfully to release each other from the reciprocal duties which the relation of husband and wife implies. (Westmeath v. Westmeath, 2 Hagg. Eccl. Rep. App. 115.) Neither is a deed of separation a bar to a divorce. Sir William Scott, in delivering the judgment in the case of Mortimer v. Mortimer, (2 Hagg. Consist. Rep. 318,) says the court considers a private separation an illegal contract. It implies a renunciation of stipulated duties; a dereliction of those mutual offices which the parties are not at liberty to desert; an assumption of a false character in both parties, contrary to the real status persones, and to the obligations which both of them have contracted, in the sight of God and man, to live together until death; and on which obligations the solemnities both of civil society and of religion have stamped a binding authority, from which the
Although the agreement for a separation was not binding upon the wife, and could not be pleaded in bar to a suit against her husband, it was undoubtedly competent for her, with the consent of her next friend, to agree to a discontinu-' anee of the suit. I should therefore have considered the present suit as actually discontinued, and should have directed an order to be entered accordingly, without prejudice to her right to proceed anew, had not her counsel insisted upon the objection that the agreement to discontinue the suit was not in writing, as required by the 121st rule. That objection is well taken, as there was no agreement in writing to discontinue the suit subscribed by the complainant, or her next friend, or by their solicitor or counsel. And the compromise of the cause of action, by the agreement for a separation, being invalid, that furnishes no reason for considering the suit as at an end.