¶ 1. Wife appeals the family court’s decision refusing
to allow her to amend her divorce complaint to seek maintenance. We conclude that the family court applied the wrong standard in determining whether to consider her request for maintenance in light of the stipulated settlement that the parties had filed. Accordingly, while we affirm the divorce decree, we reverse the family court’s August 5, 2004 decision and remand the matter for the court to reconsider wife’s maintenance request and whether to accept or reject the parties’ stipulation in whole or in part.
¶ 2. The parties were married in 1981 and separated in 2003. They have three children, born in October 1982, May 1986, and February 1993. After the parties separated, they negotiated a settlement between themselves with the help of a mediator and then a lawyer, who assisted both parties in finalizing a stipulation drafted by husband. The lawyer advised the parties to consult independent counsel. Husband did, but wife did not. On October 20, 2008, the parties signed a document entitled “Stipulation for Temporary and Final Order and Decree of Divorce.” The document contains twenty- *4 five paragraphs that deal with, among other things, parental rights and responsibilities, child support, marital property, and marital debt. The agreement is silent with respect to maintenance.
¶ 3. On October 27, 2003, one week after the document was signed, wife filed the parties’ stipulation along with her divorce complaint. She did not check the box on the complaint form that would have indicated she was seeking maintenance. Approximately five months later, before the final divorce hearing, an attorney entered an appearance on behalf of wife and filed a motion to amend the complaint to allow wife to seek maintenance. Husband opposed the motion, arguing that the court should not permit wife to present evidence on the issue of spousal maintenance, and, in the alternative, that maintenance should not be awarded because the stipulation was not inequitable. Over two days in late May 2004, the court held a hearing on wife’s motion, and both parties testified.
¶ 4. At the hearing, wife’s attorney stated that wife was not asking the court to set aside the whole stipulation. Nevertheless, when the court expressed its belief that opening up the issue of maintenance would effectively require it to consider all financial aspects of the parties’ divorce, wife’s attorney still insisted that wife wanted maintenance, even if it meant that the stipulation would have to be set aside. On direct examination, wife stated that she knew she had a right to maintenance, but did not ask for it when the parties negotiated the stipulation because of feelings of guilt about leaving her family. Husband testified that wife told him she did not expect him to pay her anything. In a post-hearing memorandum in support of her motion to amend, wife argued that the stipulation should be interpreted to allow her to request maintenance, and that, in the alternative, there was a mutual mistake regarding the issue of maintenance. The principal thrust of her first argument was that, although the parties’ stipulation was a binding contract, the absence of any provision on maintenance did not permit the court to assume that the parties had an agreement regarding maintenance. She also contended, however, that the family court had an independent obligation to assure that the stipulation was equitable.
¶ 5. Following the hearing, in an August 2004 order, the family court denied wife’s motion to amend. In arriving at its decision, the court noted that wife’s attorney had explicitly indicated that wife was not seeking to set aside the agreement on the grounds that its terms were unfair or unconscionable, but rather was arguing only that: (1) because the agreement was silent on the issue of maintenance, the *5 court had the authority to impose maintenance; and (2) the court could void the agreement based on mutual mistake. With respect to wife’s mutual mistake argument, the court found that wife knew she had a right to maintenance but did not ask for it, and that even if she had mistakenly believed she could seek maintenance at the final divorce hearing notwithstanding the absence of a provision on maintenance in the parties’ stipulation, it was a unilateral mistake on her part. Further, the court found that the parties intended their stipulation to be a final, complete resolution of their divorce and that the stipulation unambiguously omitted any mention of maintenance. Hence, the court refused to allow wife to seek maintenance over and above the terms of the agreement. On August 26, 2004, the court entered a decree of divorce incorporating the parties’ stipulation into the final order. Wife appeals, raising several interrelated arguments.
¶ 6. Wife first argues that, by stating in their stipulation that the terms and conditions of the agreement “may constitute the basis for” a final order and decree of divorce, the parties intended to resolve only those matters explicitly dealt with in the stipulation, but not to the exclusion of other unmentioned matters over which the court had jurisdiction. According to wife, the stipulation’s silence on the issue of maintenance demonstrated that the parties had not come to any agreement on that issue, and therefore the court was free to consider it.
¶ 7. We reject this argument because it is contrary to the family court’s findings and conclusions, which are supported by the evidence. The court found that wife knew she had a right to maintenance, but nevertheless did not ask for it in the stipulation, and that the parties intended the stipulation to be a complete, final agreement on their divorce.
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Both the language of the parties’ stipulation and the circumstances surrounding its execution support the court’s determi
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nation that the stipulation unambiguously excluded maintenance as part of the parties’ intended final divorce settlement. See
Isbrandtsen v. N. Branch Corp.,
¶ 8. The evidence showed that: (1) the parties signed a twenty-five-paragraph agreement entitled “Stipulation for Temporary and Final Order and Decree of Divorce,” which dealt with parental rights and responsibilities, child support, marital property, and marital debt; (2) wife filed the stipulation along with her divorce complaint, in which she did not check the box indicating that she was seeking maintenance; (3) wife testified that she knew she had a right to maintenance but did not ask for any because she felt guilty for having left her family; and (4) husband testified that wife indicated to him that she did not expect him to pay her anything. Given this evidence, the family court did not err in determining that the parties’ stipulation unambiguously represented a comprehensive agreement on their divorce. Cf.
Meier v. Meier,
¶ 9. Further, wife’s reliance on the language “may constitute the basis for” in the stipulation is misplaced. Use of the word “may” merely recognized the family court’s ultimate authority to resolve matters concerning the parties’ divorce and had nothing to do with whether the parties intended their agreement to be final and comprehensive.
¶ 10. Next, wife argues that the family court was obligated to determine whether the parties’ stipulation was fair and equitable before incorporating it into its final divorce order. Along these lines, wife also argues that the court should have assured itself that the provisions of the stipulation were within the general parameters of other cases involving similarly situated individuals. According to wife, the instant stipulation provides her with far less than what other litigants have received in comparable situations. Wife contends that if the court had made adequate findings, it would have concluded that the parties’ stipulation was unfair and inequitable. Husband responds that wife waived this argument by expressly disavowing it below and by failing to present evidence to back it up.
¶ 11. Before addressing the substance of wife’s argument, we reject husband’s contention that wife waived it. To be sure, wife stated at the hearing on her motion to amend that she was not asking the *7 family court to set aside the parties’ entire stipulation or claiming that the stipulation was unconscionable. She also acknowledged in her follow-up memorandum of law that the final stipulation was a binding contract between the parties. Nevertheless, when the family court warned her at the hearing that her request for maintenance would most likely require it to open up all aspects of the financial matters contained in the parties’ stipulation, she acknowledged that possibility. Further, she argued in her memorandum of law that the family court had an obligation, before the final judgment issued, to consider her request for maintenance, regardless of whether its absence in the stipulation was by mistake or design. In making this argument, wife noted that a separation agreement is fundamentally different from a regular contract because it concerns a relationship that is sanctioned, promoted, and protected by the state. Thus, according to wife, the court had an obligation to consider her request for maintenance as allowed under 15 V.S.A. § 752.
¶ 12. Moreover, wife cited Vermont case law for the proposition that the family court is not bound by the parties’ stipulation with respect to maintenance, and husband conceded this point in his memorandum of law, acknowledging that it was for the court to determine whether any inequity would result from enforcement of the agreement. For his part, husband briefly explained why he believed the agreement was equitable, and wife set forth reasons in her memorandum why she believed the agreement was not equitable. Presented with these arguments, the trial court wrestled with questions concerning the extent to which it was free to review the parties’ stipulation and consider wife’s request for maintenance. Under the circumstances, we find no waiver of wife’s argument that the family court had an obligation to determine whether the parties’ agreement was equitable before incorporating it into the final divorce order. See
Bull v. Pinkham Eng’g Assocs.,
¶ 13. We now turn to the substance of that argument. We start by examining our case law on this subject, which is open to various interpretations. On several occasions, including in a recent case, this Court has cited
Hall v.
Hall,
¶ 14. Yet, on at least one occasion, we have also questioned the scope of our holding in
Hall.
In
Strope v. Strope,
¶ 15. In
Strope,
although the wife indicated in response to direct questioning from the court that she was satisfied with the parties’ stipulation, the trial court increased the wife’s maintenance payments after expressing its dissatisfaction with the stipulation. Noting that the stipulation was uncontested, this Court stated that the trial court could not reject the agreement merely because it was dissatisfied with it, but rather had to state a compelling reason for rejecting it.
Id.
at 216,
¶ 16. Since
Sirope,
this Court has continued to send mixed messages as to the standard for reviewing stipulations made in anticipation of divorce. See
Boisclair,
¶ 17. Regarding policy considerations, on the one hand, we have assumed that agreements reached by the parties are preferable to those imposed by a stranger to the marriage — the court.
Kanaan v. Kanaan,
¶ 18. Significantly, we have emphasized a strict contractual standard for reviewing divorce stipulations most often in situations where the parties’ stipulation was uncontested at trial. E.g.,
Damone v. Damone,
¶ 19. In contrast, in the instant case, wife challenged the parties’ stipulation before the family court approved it, held a final divorce hearing, or incorporated it into a final divorce order. Although wife primarily wanted the court to consider her maintenance request without disturbing the stipulation, the court recognized the impossibility of doing so, and wife still wanted to go forward with her request for maintenance. Under these circumstances, we conclude that the family court erred by refusing to consider wife’s maintenance request because of her failure to prove duress, unconscionable advantage, or another basis for overturning a contract. Rather, the *11 court should have given the parties an opportunity to present evidence on the fairness of their stipulation. Based on the evidence presented by the parties, the court had the discretion to reject the stipulation on grounds that it was inequitable in light of the relevant statutory factors.
¶ 20. Once a stipulation is incorporated into a final order, concerns regarding finality require that the stipulation be susceptible to attack only on grounds sufficient to overturn a judgment. See
Bucholt,
¶ 21. Before then, however, if one or both parties object to a previous agreement made in anticipation of divorce, the policy considerations that favor deference to the parties’ “voluntary” agreement are less forceful. Cf.
Leighton v. Leighton,
¶ 22. Accordingly, we hold that in a situation such as the instant case, when parties have executed a stipulation in anticipation of divorce regarding maintenance or the division of marital property, but one or both of the parties challenge the stipulation before the *12 family court has held a final hearing or incorporated the stipulation into a final divorce order, the court may reject the stipulation even if the challenging party fails to demonstrate grounds sufficient to overturn a contract. Of course, it is imperative that the court provide adequate findings as to why it has chosen to reject or accept the stipulation. To the extent that prior case law is contrary to this holding, that case law is overruled.
¶ 23. In determining whether to reject the stipulation, the family court should consider all of the circumstances surrounding execution of the stipulation. The family court is not obligated to reject a stipulation merely because the agreement does not divide the marital property or provide maintenance precisely in the manner or the amount that it would have had the agreement not existed. See
In re Marriage of Ask,
¶ 24. Our holding is based on the simple truth that an agreement in anticipation of divorce is not the same as any ordinary contract. Public policy favors parties settling their own disputes in a divorce, but, as noted, the family court has a statutorily authorized role to play in divorce proceedings to assure a fair and equitable dissolution of the state-sanctioned institution of marriage. See
Croote-Fluno v. Fluno,
¶ 25. Wife claims on appeal that the absence of maintenance in this case is manifestly inequitable, given the length of the marriage, her role as primary care giver during the marriage, and the wide disparity between the parties in income and earning capacity. See
Delozier v. Delozier,
¶ 26. On remand, the family court need not consider husband’s suggestion that wife should be precluded from objecting to the parties’ stipulation because she ratified it by accepting half of husband’s pension funds and by having husband refinance the mortgage on the marital home to relieve her of any further debt obligations associated with the property. Rather than negating the family court’s authority to reject the agreement, any prior implementation of the agreement by the parties merely requires the court, should it reject the agreement, to consider the financial consequences of the parties’ actions in equitably distributing the parties’ assets. See
Rudin,
The parties’ divorce decree is affirmed, but the family court’s August 5, 2004. decision is reversed, and the matter is remanded for the court to reconsider wife’s maintenance request and whether to accept or reject the parties’ stipulation in whole or in part.
Notes
We also find unavailing wife’s contention that although the court’s decision makes it clear what was decided, one cannot discern from the decision what facts were relied on because the court made only limited findings. Wife did not request findings, see V.R.C.P. 52(a) (trial court shall make findings upon request of party), and, in any event, the court plainly indicated how it reached its decision. See
Maurer v. Maurer,
In considering the family court’s statutorily authorized role in resolving marital disputes, we do not find it significant that 15 V.S.A. § 751(a) provides that the court “shall” settle the property rights of the parties upon motion of either party, while 15 V.S.A. § 752 provides that the court “may” order either spouse to pay maintenance. The fact that the family court has the discretion to award maintenance does not *10 diminish its role in resolving the parties’ financial matters, which may require a maintenance award.
