57 N.J. Eq. 577 | New York Court of Chancery | 1899
The bill in this case is filed by the complainant wife to compel her husband, the defendant, to support her. An order was made shortly after the bill was filed, directing the payment of alimony until the husband should in a proper manner give the complainant a suitable home in accordance with his legal obligation, &c. He refused to pay any alimony, claiming that he has been at all' times ready and anxious to have her live with him in a suitable home, and on this issue much the greater part of the testimony was taken. After each side had thus exposed his or her whole case to the other, it was agreed that the testimony already taken should be read as if received, and the case heard, on final hearing. An answer was then filed by the defendant, and very little more testimony was taken at the hearing.
The relief sought is under section 20 of the Divorce act. Gen. Stat. p. 1270. By virtue of this act, support may be decreed when it appears that the husband has both abandoned the wife and refused to support her.
There is no question whatever in this case that the husband has for years refused to support his wife and child. He admits it and claims to justify his refusal by insisting that he did not abandon his wife, but that she separated herself from him without cause. The attention of the litigants has been given solely to the maintenance or overthrow of the claim that the husband did, in the consideration of a court of equity, abandon his wife.
When the husband so deals with the wife that she is compelled to leave him because of his cruel treatment, their separation will be deemed, in the view of this court, an abandonment by him. Maas v. Maas, 7 Stew. Eq. 113. And even if she without justification leave him, but seeks to return to him, and -lie refuses to receive her, this is such abandonment by him as to justify the-enforcement of the statute, although the husband does give her partial support. Cory v. Cory, 3 Stock. 402; Anshutz v. Anshutz, 1 C. E. Gr. 165.
To ascertain the relations of the parties in this case a summary review of the pleadings and evidence in the cause is necessary.
The defendant is a glassblower, in receipt of large weekly wages, and owns a house and lot in the city of Salem, but ever :since October, 1892, when he struck his wife in the face and she
The defendant, by his answer, states the quarrel, when he struck her, to have resulted from, his wife rebuking him for reproving the servant for delay in getting his supper, and that he struck her because she aggravatingly dared him to do so. He admits that he has refused to provide for her or her child unless they come to live with him, and denies that he is under any obligation to provide for them elsewhere, but states that he is willing and able to provide for them at his own house. He states that since the time when she went to her brother in 1892, she has frequently met him on the streets and taken long walks to secluded parts of the suburbs of the town with him, and has frequently permitted him to have sexual intercourse with her, and has come to his house and passed the night in the same bed with him; and he states that she, at, his solicitation, has promised to come and stay with him, but has broken her word, stating that her parents were opposed to her coming back and living with the defendant; that, disappointed and enraged at her duplicity, he finally wrote her a letter in which he stated,he would never live with her again, which letter, he states, was not an exponent of his real feeling, as he has always been ready to have his wife return to him, never desiring her to leave his house, and now has a good home for her to live in, which he desires she shall share with him.
That the husband struck the wife in the fiice in anger is admitted by him, and evidence as to the blow is given by the wife and her brother. The violence of the husband appears to have been the culmination of harsh treatment which was habitually used toward the wife, even when she was sick and weak, and it produced a continuing condition of fear of her husband. After their separation, because of this treatment, the wife kept her permanent home with her parents or her brother; she occasionally visited her husband’s house, but only for very short periods,
He claims to explain and justify his refusal to support his wife and child by asserting that he has been desirous that she should live with him and always had his house open to her, but she refused to come to his house, and he was not willing to support her elsewhere. The husband’s testimony alone attempts to show that the issue between these parties turned upon the question whether the wife should live in his house, or as to the place where they should live together. Their difference and separation was occasioned by the husband’s cruel conduct. There is no proof whatever that he afterwards sought to regain his wife’s confidence, save his unsupported assertions, which do not accord with his admitted actions. From the time of the separation, because of his violence, the efforts for a reunion were made on the part of the wife — she sought him out, she allowed to him a husband’s privileges up to the year 1895, but does not appear-to have regained his affections.
The testimony not only of the wife but of the husband himself shows that his treatment of his wife was harsh and cruel, such as might inspire in her at times of sickness and of weakness (which in her case were quite frequent) a fear of actual physical violence. He never expressed any regret for his unmanly blow. In response to her frequent demands for support, he as frequently refused her, and seemed to be entirely willing
His letter of May 18th, 1896, sent just before the bill was-filed in this case, is expository of the true relations of the parties. They had separated in 1892, because of his cruelty to his wife. Though weak in health, and having the sole care of their child, and obliged to live upon the bounty of her family, she had endeavored up to 1895 to bring about a renewal of kind feelings, but she failed.
In May, 1896, their child, Florence, became sick. The testimony of the defendant narrates the circumstances under which he and his wife had an interview which led to the letters of that month. The defendant swears that, at the wife’s request, he called twice to see their sick child, who, with the wife, was living at her father’s house. He testifies that she “ used me all right the first time. She asked me to come again to tea in the evening.” He refused to come to tea, but came in the evening. The complainant doubtless deemed this to be a favorable time to appeal to his better nature. As he was leaving, she approached him, asking for a reconciliation. His own account of his conduct is—
“ I took my hand and pushed her away from me, and told her that this was no time to ask for a reconciliation; that people were saying some hard things about her in town; that as soon as Florence got well, her and I would have a talk.”
He then left. the house. By this mention of “ hard things ” said about the complainant, he referred to an accusation of unfaithful conduct on her part. He admits that the only foundation for this cruel charge was the casual statement of a man named Vanneman, that he had seen the complainant riding along the street in a carriage with another man. It may be said once and for all that there is no shadow of proof of any misconduct on the part of the wife. She appears to have been a true and faithful wife at all times. He further testifies that shortly after
I think there can be no question that the attitude of the defendant at this time was that of a husband who had not only for years refused to support his wife, but who had, in the most explicit and insulting terms, declared his abandonment of her, and that she was entirely justified in filing her bill in this cause under the principles declared in the cases above cited.
The defendant, in his answer, seeks to explain away the effect of the above-quoted letter by alleging that he wrote it because disappointed at the failure of his efforts to induce the wife to return and while enraged at her duplicity and cruelty to him; that it was written in anger and was not expressive of his real feelings towards her. There is not a word of proof, even in his own testimony, which attempts to sustain this explanation of this brutal letter, written by a husband to a wife just after she
The filing of this bill made it apparent to the defendant that he was not, by this proceeding, to be enabled to escape from his obligation to support his wife by means of a divorce, but that its purpose was to compel him by law to maintain her as his wife without freeing him from his marriage contract.
Shortly after this bill was filed, not for divorce but to compel support, the professions and declarations of the defendant immediately and radically changed. This man, who for years had treated his wife with contempt and refused to support either her or his child by her, who had struck her in the face, who within three months had tendered himself ready to aid her in proceedings for divorce with proofs of what he had seen of his own misconduct, now makes formal tender of his desire that she should come home as mistress of his house. He uses language, also, which is utterly unlike his previous writing, and which, as expressed, exactly meets his legal duty and plainly indicates (though he denies it) that he is writing and speaking under the suggestion of his counsel as to what is necessary for him to do to avoid a compulsory order for alimony. He admits that, under advice, he has kept a copy of his formal written offer, so that it is difficult-to believe him when he testifies that it was not written under like advice. This is the outward and visible profession which the defendant makes, but what sincerity there is in those offers and his real feelings towards the complainant, is fairly indicated by the fact that he yet justifies his previous ill treatment; that he still does nothing for the support of his wife and his child; that, except a short conversation in a lawyer’s office since this suit was brought, he has not spoken to his
Of what sort of a house would she be mistress should she accept his offer? She must live with a man who but a few months before had made to her, in his own handwriting, a moct insulting proposal to furnish proof of his treachery to his marriage vows, who had treated her-with constant disdain and finally with such actual cruelty that she is yet afraid to live with him, and who has never in any way expressed the slightest regret for his evil conduct — indeed yet proves the existence of his own contempt for her and its continuance by persistently refusing to speak to her.
She testifies that she is afraid to go — that she fears that she will receive the same treatment to which she was formerly subjected. So far as words are concerned, when it was made apparent to the husband that it was intended to force him by law to support his wife and child, there is a profession of willingness to perform that duty. But his refusal to speak to his wife and to treat her with that consideration which might make her acceptance of his formal proposition an endurable association with her husband, show that his conduct is insincere and deceitful, as his feeling towards her is unkind, at the very time he is making these professions of his willingness and desire that she should return to him. It is quite evident that his offer to receive her into his home as the mistress of his house is a mere pretence to avoid the making of a mandatory order upon him to maintain her.
I am compelled to believe that these declarations of willingness to perform his marital duties, on the part of the defendant, are of the same class as those commented upon in the case of Elliott v. Elliott, 3 Dick. Ch. Rep. 238, as follows: “While the law regards a sincere and honest desire, on the part of the hus
I am myself unable to accept the testimony of the husband and his offers to receive his wife, as sincerely made, with intention to accord to her her proper place. They appear to me-(given out as they are, after this suit was commenced, and without any manifestations on his part accompanying them that his proposition is sincere and expressive of a true purpose) to be made simply to avoid the imperative effect of an order for maintenance in this case.
The proofs show that the defendant is- the owner of a house- and lot, and that he has the capacity to earn large wages — $20' per week or more — during a large portion of the year.
I will advise a decree that an allowance of $8 per week be-made for the support and maintenance of the wife and their child until the further order of the court; that the defendant give-security in the sum of $500 for such support and maintenance,, and that a counsel fee of $40 in all be allowed the counsel for the complainant, and that the defendant pay the costs of suit.