Murray v. Murray

255 Mass. 19 | Mass. | 1926

Sanderson, J.

This is a petition for separate support in which the petitioner alleges that her husband was ugly and disagreeable; that he left her in November, 1924, without just cause and has made no contributions to her support since that date. The trial judge found that the petitioner was living apart from her husband for justifiable cause and made an order for her support. The evidence is not reported.

The judge found that the parties had been married about thirty years, and trouble between them came to a head in the summer and fall of 1924; that the petitioner withdrew from cohabitation with her husband, locked herself in a separate room, withdrew from the savings bank a deposit of over $500 (started in 1908 in the husband’s name with the right in the wife to draw it), and deposited the same in a new account in her own name; that he objected to their married children and to his wife’s son by a former marriage living with them; that he went away and through his attorney notified his wife that he had a room in Charlestown and requested her to come and live with him. He testified that he was desirous of living with her. The specific findings upon which the judge found the respondent guilty of such cruelty as to justify the wife in declining to accede to his request that she now come to live with him in his apartment were, that “for some seven years before the separation the attitude of the husband toward his wife and family was wholly unreasonable. The word ‘grouch’ is often used colloquially in matters of this sort without much meaning or weight. In this case it expresses the chronic attitude and fixed habit of the husband. It was suggested in defence that he was by nature very taciturn. That does not excuse his conduct. A merely silent man may be the best sort of a husband and father. This man’s refusal to have anything to say to his family was deliberately sullen and bitter to such an extent as now to cause a suspicion of mental defect. He says ‘his nerves were all gone,’ but no suggestion of irresponsibility was made in defence, and no finding to that effect is made.” The judge found that nothing in the wife’s conduct justified his attitude toward her.

Ordinarily the decision of the trial court based upon evidence not reported is conclusive, but in this case the decision is specifically based on the facts found, and the question is presented whether those facts justify the wife in living apart from her husband.

Misconduct, not amounting to such cruel and abusive treatment as under G. L. c. 208, § 1, is required to entitle a wife to a divorce, might justify her in living apart from him and enable her to maintain a petition for separate maintenance under G. L. c. 209, § 32. Turner v. Turner, 234 Mass. 37. Lyster v. Lyster, 111 Mass. 327.

The controlling principle in cases of this kind is stated in Goldberg v. Goldberg, 237 Mass. 279, 280, in the following language: “A wife is not justified in living apart from her husband and claiming separate support from him when the husband is without blame and the separation is not the result of ill treatment, misconduct, or failure of marital duty on his part. There is nothing to indicate that by returning to his home she would be subjected to cruel treatment or abuse, and it could not be found on the agreed facts that by Hving with her husband her health would be injured or her physical or mental condition impaired. It does not follow that her husband would be guilty of conduct which would 'cause her injury, nor was there such a reasonable fear of danger to her physical health or safety from continuing to live with him, as to support a decree for separate maintenance •. . . to support a decree in her favor there must be some evidence of marital wrong. ... It was admitted that the husband was guilty of no such wrong. . . . 'The contract [of marriage] is for life, and cannot be repudiated or terminated at the pleasure of the parties, but can only be dissolved by the State itself. It follows that, after fulfilment of the contract, marriage is a social institution, or status, in which, because the foundations of the family and the domestic relations rest upon it, the Commonwealth has a deep interest to see that its integrity is not put in jeopardy, but maintained.’ Coe v. Hill, 201 Mass. 15, 21.”

In the case at bar no marital wrong was committed and no áct done which caused or was intended to cause the wife injury, or reasonable fear of danger to her physical health or safety. The facts found do not justify the conclusion that the wife was living apart from her husband for justifiable cause. It follows that the decree must be reversed and a decree entered dismissing the petition.

Ordered accordingly.