191 Misc. 53 | N.Y. Fam. Ct. | 1948
There is presented a difficult and distressing marital problem which is not within the power of any court to solve adequately. For, among other complications, there is here involved the mathematical impossibility of making an order for support commensurate with the reasonable combined needs of all the members of a broken family group accustomed to a comfortable standard of living before the separation. As stated by Justice Panken in Domb v. Domb (176 Misc. 409, 410, 411): “It is quite conceivable that an order may be made for the support of dependents which is not adequate because of the inability of the person chargeable to meet an adequate order. The ability of the respondent, as well as the need of a dependent, may govern the amount of the order.”
The parties intermarried on June 17,1942, and are the parents of a child “ Martha ” (born July 15, 1943).
It was for each a second marriage. Petitioner’s first marriage had been annulled, and respondent’s first marriage was terminated by divorce.
Petitioner had also a child by her first husband, “Catherine ” (born August 30, 1934). Respondent knew of “ Catherine’s ” existence at the time of the marriage to petitioner, and she resided continuously with the parties in the marital home until their separation. Accordingly, respondent is chargeable with that stepchild’s support (N. Y. City Dom. Rel. Ct. Act, § 92, subd. [5] and § 101, subd. 5); however, only until her seventeenth birthday anniversary, if and while she would otherwise be a public charge, and to the limited extent of indemnifying the community against the burden of her support.
But for his own child (“ Martha ”) respondent is chargeable with support not merely at that hare subsistence level of public relief budgets but in an amount measured by the child’s needs
On August 15,1947, Justice JEkrisi entered a temporary order directing respondent to deposit with the Support Bureau $17 a week, beginning that day, and also to pay the rent ($48) and the utilities for the current month. He also ordered a physical examination of petitioner, which was had at Fordham Hospital and resulted in a diagnosis of “ hyperthyroidism with menopausal syndrome.”
At the close of the second of two full hearings, on September 16, 1947, decision was reserved and the temporary order continued. This opinion has been deferred until today, partly because of pressure of other court business hut partly also in the hope that, if allowed time to cool off and to reflect on the disadvantages of a. broken home, the parties might effect a reconciliation or at least reach an agreement for a support order (under Dom. Rel. Ct. Act, § 118) or an out-of-court general adjustment. Unfortunately, that now appears to have been wishful thinking. It is therefore necessary to make a disposition.
There can be no doubt that petitioner is addicted to alcohol; it is reported that she was under the influence of liquor even during one of her attendances at this court. However, that is a disability seemingly related to her early menopause and thyroid disturbances; there was shown no more legal justification for respondent’s having walked out on his afflicted wife and the children than if she had been stricken with mental illness or other distressing disease.
“ 479. Drunkenness alone as a ground. Taken by itself, the fact that a spouse is addicted to alcohol to such degree as to he intoxicated even habitually, does not give rise to a cause of action for separation by the other spouse (Straub v. Straub, 208 App. Div. 663, 204 N. Y. S. 61). The drunkenness may lead to discord, quarrels, dissatisfaction and misery, hut nevertheless it is insufficient to form the basis for the action. It is a weakness of character, or in modern psychiatrical interpretation, an illness requiring medical treatment, which the other spouse must accept together with other personal characteristics.
Accordingly, upon the whole record the court hereby finds that petitioner is entitled to support for herself as well as respondent’s child (“ Martha ”) (under Dom. Rel. Ct. Act, § 92, subd. [1]), which empowers this court “ To order support of a wife or child or both, irrespective of whether either is likely to become a public charge, as justice requires having due regard to the circumstances of the respective parties.”
The sole remaining question is the amount which respondent should be required to contribute at this time toward the support of his wife, child, and stepchild,- each of whom is without resources and wholly dependent on him.
As above stated, respondent’s present financial ability does not make possible an order sufficient for all the reasonable needs of those three dependents, even though the amount of today’s order may require respondent to pull in his own belt as the . price of his living separately from them.
His gross earnings as employee of “ X ” Company from January 1,1947, to July 26,1947, were $2,194.17 (i.e., an average of $70.79 per week). His gross earnings for the week ending August 2, 1947, were $91.80; for each of the weeks respectively ending August 2,1947, and August 9,1947, $71.47; for the week ending September 13, 1947, $68 a week; not infrequently, $72; and occasionally, even more.
, Prom those gross earnings there are certain deductions, not all of which, however, are allowable in arriving at the proper net-earnings base for today’s order.
Allowable deductions are the withholding tax ($4.08, on gross wages of $68); Social Security tax (1 per cent); union dues (50 cents), Associated Hospitalization ($1.13); sick benefit dues (52 cents); approximately $1.25 for insurance of the automobile which he uses partly for business. But there cannot be allowed the deduction of $5 a week towards saving and loan account nor 75 cents for War Savings Bonds. , •
Respondent has complied with the temporary order except perhaps for the deposit due January 2, 1948, and the payment of the December, 1947, rent ($48). The final order will be substantially the equivalent amount; for it includes provision for rent and contemplates that petitioner will take cáre of that item and respondent not be called upon to remit direct to the landlord any rent after and for the month of December, 1947.
For the foregoing reasons the court finds that respondent is chargeable with support of petitioner wife and’his own child “ Martha ” according to respondent’s means and ón a separate maintenance basis but for the stepchild “ Catherine ” only on a public charge basis; and he is therefore hereby ordered and directed to pay to this court for their support the sum of $29 a week, each and every week, beginning January 9, 1948, until further order of the court; and, in addition, the temporary order installment of $17 due January 2, 1948, and also, direct to the-landlord, petitioner’s December, 1947, rent ($48), if not already so paid before notice of this decision.
Today’s order is, of course, without prejudice to respondent’s rights in any subsequent plenary action in the Supreme Court (Loomis v. Loomis, 288 N. Y. 222) or in a habeas corpus proceeding for the custody of “ Martha ”.
The Bronx Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children is hereby requested to make an investigation of the conditions under which the two children are living and to file an appropriate neglect petition in the Children’s Court Division if the facts warrant.
Petitioner is also referred to the Catholic Big Sisters for guidance as to her alcoholism, budgeting, and the care of the children.
Notice shall be given to the parties pursuant to the subjoined direction.