[¶ 1] Katherine Larson appeals from a district court disorderly conduct restraining order issued against her. We reverse, concluding the cоurt abused its discretion in issuing the order.
I
[¶ 2] Larson and James Mitzel were in a romantic relationship from June 2015 to January 2016. After the relationship ended, Larson obtained an order for protection in Minnesota, alleging Mitzel had physically and sexually assaulted her in January 2016.
[¶ 3] In February 2016 Mitzel petitioned the district court for a disorderly conduct restraining order against Larson, alleging she had harassed him and his wife through email, text messages, and social media. The court issued a temporary thirty-day restraining order and scheduled a hearing for March 3, 2016. The hearing was continued until March 17, 2016, and after the hearing, the court issued a one-year disorderly conduct restraining order against Larson. The order prohibitеd Larson from contacting Mitzel and excluded her from his home.
II
[¶ 4] Larson argues the district court did not have personal jurisdiction over her because a sheriff did not personally serve her the temporary restraining order under N.D.C.C. § 12.1-31.2-01(5)(b). She also argues the parties did not agree to continue the hearing from March 3, 2016, to March 17, 2016.
[¶ 5] A party may waive a personal jurisdiction argument by voluntarily submitting to the personal jurisdiction оf the court. Investors Title Ins. Co. v. Herzig,
The Court: All right. And Ms. Larson is here in court with her attorney, Ms. Gehrig.... This is the time and place for a hearing on whether to mаke a protection restraining order permanent. A temporary order has been issued. Now is the time for—we did ask for a continuanсe now; is that correct?
Ms. Gehrig: Yes, your Honor.
Larson waived her personal jurisdiction arguments by appearing at the hearing without objecting to service of the temporary restraining order or the continuance of the hearing.
[¶ 6] Larson argues the district court abused its discretion in issuing the disordеrly conduct restraining order against her. Larson also argues the court failed to make specific findings of fact supporting its decision.
[¶ 7] On review of a district court’s decision on a disorderly conduct restraining order:
This Court will not reverse a district court’s decision to grant a restraining order or to conduct a hearing absent an abuse of discretion. The district court abuses its discretion when it acts in an arbitrary, unreаsonable, or unconscionable manner, when it misinterprets or misapplies the law, or when its decision is not the product of a rational mental process leading to a reasoned determination.
Combs v. Lund,
[¶ 8] Rule 52(a), N.D.R.Civ.P., addresses when a district court must make findings of fact, which we have also said applies to disorderly conduct restraining orders. See Combs,
[¶ 9] Section 12.1-31.2-01(1), N.D.C.C., defines disorderly conduct as “intrusive or unwаnted acts, words, or gestures that are intended to adversely affect the safety, security, or privacy of another person.” “Because of the stigma and grave consequences to the respondent associated with a disorderly conduct restraining order, we have repeatedly stressed that a person who petitions for an order must allege specific facts or threats.” Cusey v. Nagel,
[¶ 10] Mitzel’s petition аnd testimony alleged Larson harassed his wife through Facebook and email. However, N.D.C.C. § 12.1-31.2-01 does not authorize the petitioner to seek a restraining order based upon disorderly conduct directed at another person. Cusey,
[¶ 11] Mitzel alleges Larson harassed him through text messages, and the record includes a lengthy text message conversation between them. In general, each party accused the other of ruining their life, and each party called the other derogatory names. Some of the messages indicate Mit-zel requested Larson to stop communicating; however, he kept responding to her messages and the two-way conversation continued. He admitted at thе hearing he responded to Larson’s text messages and the conversation went back and forth. Other than generally stating he feared for his wife and children, he did not testify specifically how the text messages from Larson affected his safety, security, or privacy.
[¶ 13] We conclude the district court abused its discretion in issuing the disorderly conduct restraining order against Lаrson.
IV
[¶ 14] We have considered Larson’s remaining arguments and conclude they are unnecessary to our decision. We reverse the one-year disorderly conduct restraining order against Larson.
[¶ 16] The Honorable Jerod E. Tufte was not a member of the Court when this case was heard and did not participate in this decision. Surrogate Judge Dale V. Sandstrom, sitting.
