This case was instituted in the circuit court of the City of St. Louis, by the filing of a petition for declaratory judgment and as amended for support, in which it was alleged that respondent Margaret Daniels McNulty is the mother of Genevieve McNulty. It further alleged that appellant is the father of Genevieve McNulty, and in her prayer for relief prayed that the court enter its judgment and decree declaring appellant to be the father of Genevieve McNulty, ordering money for the support of Genevieve McNulty, ordering appellant, Henri A. Heitman to make payment for the support of Genevieve McNulty retroactively, and ordering appellant to pay to respondent Margaret Daniels McNulty a reasonable sum for attorney fees and for her costs.
The appellant does not challenge the sufficiency of evidence upon which the trial court found the appellant to be the natural father of Genevieve McNulty. However, he challenges that portion of the court’s decree which ordered the appellant to reimburse the respondent for past support for their child, the order of present support of the child and the payment of respondent’s attorney’s fees.
Appellant’s first assignment of error is that the trial court erred by entering a judgment against appellant in favor of respondent to reimburse the respondent for expenses that respondent incurred in sup *171 porting appellant’s and respondent’s illegitimate child. Appellant claims there is no authority in Missouri for the proposition that the natural mother of an illegitimate child may recover against the natural father for past expenses the mother incurred in supporting the child. We disagree.
At common law the father of an illegitimate child had no duty to support his illegitimate offspring. H. Clark, Law of Domestic Relations § 5.1 (W.1968). The illegitimate child had to look to its mother for succor. Id. at 155 n. 6. However by 1576 the father of an illegitimate child could be made to support his illegitimate offspring under the Elizabethan Poor Law by instituting a suit known as a bastardy proceeding. Id. at 162. Although the bastardy proceeding was part of English jurisprudence when the common law was received in this country, it was not recognized in Missouri because the Elizabethan Poor Law which created the bastardy proceeding was local to England and did not extend to the colonies.
Easley v. Gordon,
In R_
v.
R_the Missouri Supreme Court construed §§ 452.150, 452.160, RSMo 1959 and § 559.353, RSMo Supp.1967 to afford illegitimate children a right of support equal to that enjoyed by legitimate children under the compulsion of two U.S. Supreme Court
cases
— Levy
v. Louisiana,
In Levy the court held that Louisiana could not deny illegitimate children the right to sue for their mother’s wrongful death (1) when the illegitimate children were dependent on their mother, (2) when in her death they suffered wrong in the sense that any dependents would have suffered on the death of their mother and (3) when Louisiana permitted legitimate children to maintain wrongful death actions and even allowed illegitimate children to recover under Louisiana’s workmen’s compensation law in the event of the death of their parents. The court reasoned that since the legitimacy or illegitimacy of the children’s births bore no rational relation to the injury suffered, it was invidious to discriminate against them when no action, conduct or demeanor on their part was possibly relevant to the harm their mother suffered.
In Glona the court held that it was also impermissible for Louisiana to bar the mother of an illegitimate child from recovering for the death of her illegitimate son because there was no rational basis between the state’s interest in promoting legitimate family relationships and barring recoveries for such claims since it is far fetched to assume that not allowing such claims would promote legitimate family relationships. 2 «
The right of a mother of an illegitimate to recover for expenses she has incurred in the support of her illegitimate child against the child’s father has been recognized in Missouri.
Mueller v. Jones,
*172 Respondent, as the mother of appellant’s illegitimate daughter, was under a duty to support that child. H. Clark, Law of Domestic Relations at 155 n. 6. Since respondent had a duty to support appellant’s illegitimate daughter, she did not furnish the support gratuitously. It would be incongruous to grant illegitimates a right of support from their parents equal to that of legitimate children but deny to mothers of illegitimates a claim against the fathers of their illegitimate children when mothers of legitimate children have a claim of support against the fathers of their legitimate children. We therefore hold that appellant is required to pay the claim of respondent.
Appellant’s second contention is that the court erred by awarding plaintiff $68,680 as reimbursement for expenses incurred in the care and support of their natural daughter because the award was barred by laches and the statute of limitations.
Appellant’s claim raises legal and equitable issues. At common law the father of minor legitimate children had a duty to support them in accordance with his means.
Smith v. Smith,
supra. Yet not every legal right afforded an adequate legal ° remedy. At common law, in the absence of a special statute, the mother would have to amass bills on behalf of the child before she could recover against the father as he could not be made to pay for expenses not yet incurred.
Lodahl v. Papenberg,
Despite the fact that there is one form of action in Missouri — the civil action — and that suits are no longer labeled actions at law or in equity, it is still important to distinguish between law and equity in matters of substance and remedy as the underlying concepts have been largely retained.
Hall v. Hall,
Because of its origins as a balm for the undue rigidity and inadequacy of the common law, equity will not grant relief where the law grants an adequate remedy.
State ex rel. General Dynamics Corp. v. Laten,
Respondent opted a legal remedy. She supported her daughter for approximately 18 years before she filed suit to recover for the expenses she had already incurred in the support of her daughter. The appellant pleaded laches. Since laches is an equitable defense and is available only when an • equitable remedy is sought, it
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could not operate to bar her claim,
Bevier
v.
Graves,
However if laches could have operated to bar respondent’s claim, appellant still would not have prevailed. To establish laches the defendant must show that the unreasonable delay operates to the prejudice of the other party.
State ex rel. McIntosh v. Rainey,
Appellant’s assertion that the claim is barred by the statute of limitations must also fail. While laches is similar to statutory limitation there is the substantial difference between them. Limitations is concerned with the fact of delay; laches with the effect of delay. The traditional view is that statutes of limitation may act to bar legal remedies only.
Virginia C. Mining, Milling & Smelting Co. v. Clayton,
However to take advantage of the statute of limitations as an affirmative defense, it must be pleaded and established. Rule 55.08. If the statute is not pleaded, it is waived.
Smith v. Lewis Co. Abstract & Investment Co.,
Appellant also attacks the judgment of $63,680 on the grounds that it is not supported by competent and substantial evidence. He claims that the testimony relating to food, clothing, housing, transportation, drugs and pharmaceuticals was based upon conjecture and speculation and that even if the testimony were competent, the judgment was erroneous because it was not shown that respondent did in fact incur those expenses.
The record shows that respondent presented many cancelled checks and receipts, and her testimony consisted of yearly estimates of how much she spent on her daughter’s food, clothing, housing, medical, drug and transportation as well as on miscellaneous expenses. She further testified that she and the child resided with her father and he helped maintain and support the child for the first six years. In all respondent sought to establish a sum of about $91,000.
From the record it must be presumed that the trial court excluded the monetary support given to respondent for the child by respondent’s father ($17,700) and took into account the ($3,000) appellant had given the respondent in prior years. For the court awarded the respondent $63,680 which was well within the evidence. Our court in
Blair v. Blair,
Appellant further contends that the trial court erred by requiring him to pay respondent $40 per week for the support of their daughter because there was no evidence as to the child’s future support requirements and inadequate evidence of appellant’s ability to meet such payments.
Before a court may award an amount sufficient to meet a child’s needs according to the child’s station in life there must be sufficient evidence adduced as to
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the cost of providing such needs. While it is impossible to determine this sum with absolute accuracy, there must be sufficient evidence so that the trial court may intelligently arrive at a sum which would approximate the amount necessary to meet the needs of the child.
Nelson v. Nelson,
By the same token in fashioning a decree for child support the trial court should consider the father’s capacity to pay. The court should consider the present income of the father as well as his assets and liabilities and any other factors relevant to his ability to provide support.
Fugate v. Fugate,
At trial respondent testified as to the cost of raising her daughter and as to her daughter’s station in life. Respondent submitted detailed exhibits as well as bills and cancelled checks for amounts expended on her daughter. From the evidence as developed at trial, the lower court was able to intelligently appraise the child’s needs.
Respondent also submitted into evidence interrogatories taken from the appellant which explored appellant’s income, business interests, personal assets, age and health. In all, 33 interrogatories were propounded, many of them with subparts. From the evidence the trial court was able to intelligently determine appellant’s ability to pay.
Appellant’s final claim is that the court erred by ordering the appellant to pay respondent’s attorney’s fees in the sum of $5,000 because there is no statutory authority to grant attorney’s fees in such a case and because appellant was under no contractual obligation to pay them. Ordinarily, attorney’s fees may not be recovered in the absence of a statute or contract authorizing their recovery.
Williams v. Gulf Coast Collection Agency Co.,
The respondent contends that attorney’s fees have been allowed in paternity suits,
Stegemann v. Fauk,
Accordingly, judgment is reversed and cause remanded to the trial court to determine the proper allowance of attorney’s fees in accordance with this opinion, and in all other matters the judgment is affirmed.
Notes
. The holding of
Easley v. Gordon
has since been overruled by R_ v. R_,
. Since
Levy
and
Glona
the Court has held that a state may not allow illegitimate children to inherit only from their mothers while allowing legitimate children to inherit from both their mothers and fathers because such a regime does not promote the state’s interest in promoting legitimate family relationships. While the Court declined to give strict scrutiny to classifications based on illegitimacy, it stated the scrutiny to be used is not a toothless one.
Trimble v. Gordon,
. If she seeks the latter, this may not be a wise course of action because the statute of limitations may operate to bar her action.
Allen v. Allen,
. W. B. M. v. G. G. M. authorizes attorney’s fees in an action for the support of an illegitimate minor. § 452.355, RSMo 1978 allows the recovery of attorney’s fees in suits for support for legitimate children. See § 452.340, RSMo 1978. However under R_v. R_, it would seem that § 452.355, RSMo 1978 may also allow recovery of attorney’s fees in suits for child support—whether the child is legitimate or not.
