Matter of Sweeney v. SweeneyMatter of Sweeney v. Sweeney
Petitioner (hereinafter the mother) and respondent Matthew Daub (hereinafter the father) are the parents of Brianna (born
It is well settled that a parent has a claim of custody of his or her child that is superior to that of all others, absent surrender, abandonment, persistent neglect, unfitness, disruption of custody over a prolonged period of time or the existence of other extraordinary circumstances (see Matter of Battisti v Battisti, 121 AD3d 1196, 1196-1197 [2014]; Matter of Marcus CC. v Erica BB., 107 AD3d 1243, 1244 [2013], appeal dismissed 22 NY3d 911 [2013]; Matter of Ferguson v Skelly, 80 AD3d 903, 904 [2011], lv denied 16 NY3d 710 [2011]). The nonparent bears the burden of demonstrating the existence of such extraordinary circumstances (see Matter of Aylward v Bailey, 91 AD3d 1135, 1136 [2012]), which may include proof that the parent has neglected “to maintain substantial, repeated and continuous contact with” the children or make plans for their future (Matter of Mildred PP. v Samantha QQ., 110 AD3d 1160, 1161 [2013] [internal quotation marks and citation omitted]; accord Matter of Carpenter v Puglese, 94 AD3d 1367, 1368 [2012]; Matter of Ferguson v Skelly, 80 AD3d at 905).
Sweeney‘s testimony revealed that, in her two years of caring for Brianna, it was not uncommon for the mother to oversleep and arrive in an untimely manner when she was scheduled to spend time with the child. Moreover, the evidence adduced at the hearing demonstrated that the mother had not taken an active interest in Brianna‘s daily life, including instances where the mother neglected to respond appropriately to the child‘s medical needs or become engaged in her educational and social pursuits. Similarly, Daub-Stearns averred that, after Kayden moved in with her family, he was diagnosed and treated for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder that required the creation of an individualized educational program. The mother, however, refused to acknowledge or take efforts to understand Kayden‘s special needs.
Moreover, Family Court properly determined that the children‘s best interests would be served by their continued placement with their guardians. While the separation of the children was not ideal, the court was satisfied that the children were able to see each other during monthly visits, and both children have clearly benefitted from their respective home environments where their unique needs were being addressed. Thus, we cannot say that the court abused its discretion in concluding that a modification of the existing custody arrangement would be contrary to the children‘s best interests (see Matter of Battisti v Battisti, 121 AD3d at 1196-1197; Matter of Marcus CC. v Erica BB., 107 AD3d at 1247; Matter of Golden v Golden, 91 AD3d 1042, 1044-1045 [2012]).
McCarthy, J.P., Egan Jr. and Clark, JJ., concur. Ordered that the order is affirmed, without costs.