Lynn v. Lynn

| Pa. | Jul 1, 1857

The opinion of the court was delivered by

Lowrie, J.

Here is another claim that ought to be charged to the account of family relationship. A mother made a visit to her son in a distant state, remained there some months, and died there. Now the son sues her administrator for her boarding. That the law implies no contract in such a case is plain enough, and' here there is no evidence of an express contract. She had told one witness that she intended to pay what was right for her boarding, but there is nothing like evidence of a contract in that. If the son was not willing to receive his mother without charge, he might have told her so, and dismissed her in a filial way, or made his bargain for receiving her. The cause was rightly tried;. for, though the court allowed the jury to infer an express contract on this insufficient evidence, yet they did not do it.

Causes of this character are among the most odious that courts have to deal with. Yery commonly they are brought in. order to obtain from a parent’s estate, by way of debt, a larger share than other heirs, as a sort of discrimination for supposed larger merits. But the law cannot make up for such differences, and it does not aim at impossibilities. In the administration of family affairs, and in the expenditures of time and care and money on the several children, there are necessarily very great differences, and the results are very different; but the law cannot equalize them. It would produce the most deplorable strife and litigation in families in attempting it; and then it would certainly fail. Better that the largest estate should be entirely destroyed than that the attempt should be made in a single case.

Some might think that the most worthless and badly trained child ought to have the most, because he has not been trained as he ought to have been. Others might think that the best ought to have all, because he would know how to take care of it. Parents are not accountable to their children for the exercise of their judgment in making discriminations.

Before a son sues his mother for work or boarding, he ought to think of the long years of anxiety and trouble she has endured for him. And before the law encourages such suits, it must calculate on the discord it may occasion, and on the constant mistrust that it will require between parents and children, lest visits of kindness shall be made the basis of pecuniary charges on one side or the other. Most children think it a great favour to have such visits from their parents; and if a money account is to be kept of them, many juries might think that it is the parent and not the child that is entitled to the reward.

Judgment affirmed.