Lead Opinion
[¶ 1] Paul Lechler appeals from district court orders denying his motion to change the primary residential responsibility for his son and daughter to himself and grant
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[¶ 2] In September 2003, the parties were divorced under the terms of a settlement agreement that awarded Barbara Lechler primary residential responsibility for the couple’s two children subject to reasonable visitation by Paul Lechler. In May 2006, the district court granted her motion to permit her to change the residence of the children from Beach to Baker, Montana. The order also modified the visitation provisions of the divorce decree. Paul Lechler opposed the motion, but did not appeal the court’s final decision.
[¶ 3] In August 2009, Paul Lechler moved to change the primary residential responsibility for the children from Barbara Lechler to himself, and she responded with a motion to hold him in contempt for failing to return the children to her after summer visitation and for enrolling them in the Beach school system. He alleged in an affidavit that his son, age 16 at the time, and daughter, age 12 at the time, preferred to live with him at his farm near Beach, that Barbara Lechler had committed domestic violence during an altercation with the son when she took away his cell phone, and that the best interests of the children would be better served if they resided with him.
[¶ 4] Before the hearing on the motions, the court notified the parties that “[ujnless the Court otherwise orders, evidence either in support of or in opposition to the motion must be presented by affidavit,” and that the affidavits would not be considered “unless, at the time of the evi-dentiary hearing, the party offering the affidavit makes the affiant available for cross[-]examination.” The parties did not object to this condition, but Paul Lechler told the court in a supplemental affidavit:
I am not comfortable with submitting affidavits of our children subjecting them to a court appearance. However, since the Court has more experience in this area than me, if the Court wishes to visit with our children and instructs me to make the children available to the Court, I will do so.
[¶ 5] During the evidentiary hearing, Barbara Lechler objected to the district court’s interviewing the children in chambers. The parties were cross-examined regarding the claims made in their affidavits, but the court did not interview the children in chambers about their residential preferences because the parties would not “stipulate that I meet with them in chambers separately and just have a talk with them.” The court denied Paul Le-chler’s motion, finding that he failed to establish a material change of circumstances to justify changing primary residential responsibility for the children. The court also denied Barbara Lechler’s motion for contempt and ordered the parties “to immediately work on the custody getting back to Ms. Lechler.” After Paul Lechler failed to return the children to Barbara Lechler, the court issued an order for the return of the children to her care by 4 p.m. on October 20, 2009.
[¶ 6] The district court had jurisdiction under N.D. Const, art. VI, § 8, and N.D.C.C. § 27-05-06. Paul Lechler’s appeal is timely under N.D.R.App.P. 4(a). This Court has jurisdiction under N.D. Const, art. VI, §§ 2 and 6, and N.D.C.C. § 28-27-01.
[¶ 7] Paul Lechler argues the district court erred in failing to grant his motion to change the primary residential responsibility for the children.
[¶ 8] Motions to modify primary residential responsibility after two years from entry of a previous order are governed by N.D.C.C. § 14-09-06.6(6), which provides:
The court may modify the primary residential responsibility after the two-year period following the date of entry of an order establishing primary residential responsibility if the court finds:
a. On the basis of facts that have arisen since the prior order or which were unknown to the court at the time of the prior order, a material change has occurred in the circumstances of the child or the parties; and
b. The modification is necessary to serve the best interest of the child.
[¶ 9] The party seeking to change primary residential responsibility has the burden of proving there has been a material change in circumstances and a change in primary residential responsibility is necessary to serve the child’s best interests. Frueh v. Frueh,
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[¶ 10] Paul Lechler argues the district court erred in refusing to allow the children to state their residential preferences to the judge in chambers and out of the presence of the parties.
[¶ 11] We review a district court’s decision to allow children to testify about their residential preferences under the abuse of discretion standard. Clark v. Clark,
[¶ 12] The district court’s amended notice of hearing informed the parties that evidence “must be presented by affi
[¶ 13] Rule 48(a), NJD.R.Civ.P., provides that “[i]n every trial, the testimony of witnesses must be taken orally or by non-oral means in open court, unless otherwise provided by statute or these rules.” (Emphasis added.) There are no statutes or rules addressing in chamber interviews of children by district court judges for purposes of learning their residential preferences. Nevertheless, the practice is sanctioned by this Court’s caselaw, at least in situations in which the parties do not object to the procedure. See, e.g., Frueh,
[¶ 14] In Muraskin v. Muraskin,
[¶ 15] We conclude the district court did not abuse its discretion in refusing to conduct an in chamber interview with the children to hear their residential preferences.
B
[¶ 16] Paul Lechler argues there was evidence of domestic violence between Barbara Lechler and his son sufficient to establish a material change of circumstances to justify a change of primary residential responsibility.
[¶ 17] A material change of circumstances can occur if a child’s present environment may endanger the child’s physical or emotional health or impair the child’s emotional development. Niemann v. Niemann,
[¶ 18] Paul Lechler relies on an altercation between the mother and the son over the son’s use of a cell phone as evidence of domestic violence. The only competent evidence about the incident was provided by Barbara Lechler at trial and in her affidavit:
I was fixing supper when [the son] was finished, he walked in and I asked him to do his cereal dishes that he used the past few days. [The son] asked to go to [the] Post Office to get the mail. I told him he could go after the dishes were done. [The son] became belligerent and told me in a very nasty tone that, “You will be receiving a letter!”, and wanted to know if I was scared. He was headed for the back door and was looking for the key to the Post Office Box. I didn’t want him going anywhere or doing anything else until he had washed his dishes as I had asked. He reached for his cell phone and I grabbed it away from him. He tried to take it away from me and we struggled for a few seconds. I retained control of the phone and [the son] went downstairs and packed a bag of clothes and told [the daughter] to do the same. I went into my living room and called my sister to inform her to what was happening. [The daughter] came out of her room with a bag of clothes and walked by me with a very confused look on her face. I didn’t want another physical confrontation with my son (he is six foot, eight inches tall) so I let them go. The kids walked to the pickup and drove away.
[¶ 19] Parents have the right to use reasonable force to discipline their children. Dinius v. Dinius,
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[¶ 20] Paul Lechler argues the district court erred in denying his motion without considering all of the evidence, including pre-divorce conduct and activities, because the initial determination of primary residential responsibility was based on the parties’ stipulation.
[¶ 21] This Court has said, “ ‘If the previous custody placement was based upon the parties’ stipulation and not by consideration of the evidence and court made findings, the trial court must consider all relevant evidence, including pre-di-vorce conduct and activities, in making a considered and appropriate custody decision in the best interests of the children.’ ” Kelly v. Kelly,
[¶ 22] In some cases, pre-divorce conduct may be considered in determining whether a material change of circumstances has occurred, see Mock v. Mock,
[¶ 23] We conclude Paul Lechler has failed to establish the district court erred in not considering the parties’ pre-divorce conduct.
D
[¶ 24] Paul Lechler argues the district court failed to make sufficient findings of fact in denying his motion.
[¶ 25] The district court issued a six-page decision, and the findings in the decision are adequate for this Court to discern the factual basis for the court’s determination. See Dunn,
[¶ 26] Having reviewed the record, we conclude the district court’s finding that there has been no material change of circumstances to support changing the primary residential responsibility for the children is not clearly erroneous.
Ill
[¶ 27] The orders are affirmed.
Concurrence Opinion
concurring in the result.
[¶ 29] I concur in the result based on my concurrence in the result in Kelly v. Kelly,
[¶ 30] MARY MUEHLEN MARING
