Lead Opinion
¶ 1. Mother appeals the Rutland Family Court order awarding her primary rights and responsibilities of the parties’ minor child until March 1, 2010, at which time the rights
¶ 2. The relevant facts may be briefly stated. The parties were never married. They met in 2004, conceived a child, and subsequently moved in together in father’s Vermont residence in March 2005. Their child was born on August 16, 2005. The parties lived together on a somewhat steady basis until February 2006 when the relationship dissolved and mother took the child from their Vermont home and moved to New Hampshire.
¶ 3. Thereafter, father filed a complaint for parentage in the Rutland Family Court, which resulted in a temporary order for parental rights and contact. For purposes of the temporary order, the parties agreed that the child would remain with mother in New Hampshire and have contact with father every other weekend and on one weekday per week.
¶ 4. In seeking a final order before the family court, father requested additional contact with the child until the start of kindergarten and primary rights and responsibilities for the child thereafter. Specifically, father testified that he would support mother having custody of the child until the child started kindergarten as long as he could have contact with the child every other week from Wednesday through Sunday with one additional weekday contact on every off-week. Father testified that when the child started kindergarten and he obtained primary custody, he would support contact with the mother as frequently as every weekend and every school vacation. In opposition, mother requested that she be granted permanent primary rights and responsibilities over the child, but with a temporarily expanded contact schedule for father until the child began kindergarten. Mother proposed that contact thereafter be reduced to accommodate the child’s school schedule. The parties’ proposals overlapped in that they both suggested that mother retain custody until the child started kindergarten and proposed identical contact schedules for father
¶ 5. In its final order, the family court awarded primary rights and responsibilities to mother until the start of kindergarten, subject to contact with father every other week from Wednesday through Sunday with one additional weekday contact during every off-week. The court also awarded primary rights and responsibilities to father from a date six months prior to the child’s matriculation at kindergarten — March 1, 2010 — through the remainder of the child’s minority.
¶ 6. On appeal, mother challenges the order on the grounds that the provision automatically shifting primary rights and responsibilities to father is unlawful — specifically because the automatic switch: (a) is scheduled to happen in the future and is therefore unsupported by findings, based on speculation as to what the circumstances will be at that time, and fails to consider the child’s best interests; (b) violates the principles of res judicata because the court is essentially reversing its own judgment without any new facts; and (c) impermissibly circumvents the court’s need to establish jurisdiction to modify the order. Mother also argues that the court disregarded the parties’ agreement that the child remain with mother until age six — instead awarding custody of the child to father some five months before his fifth
¶ 7. The issue of whether an automatic custody change provision is lawful is a pure question of law which we review de novo. See Heffernan v. Harbeson,
¶ 8. We discussed automatic changes of custody in deBeaumont v. Goodrich,
¶ 9. At the outset, we note that deBeaumont is in line with the law of our sister states. An overwhelming majority of courts that have considered the question take the view that automatic change provisions in custody orders are impermissible.
¶ 10. Moreover, our reasoning in deBeaumont — that changes in custody must be based on real-time determinations of a child’s best interests — remains persuasive. The variables are simply too unfixed to determine at the time of a final divorce decree what the circumstances of the parties will be at the time a future contingency occurs. Cf. Scott,
¶ 11. Father urges us to distinguish this case from deBeaumont on the grounds that, unlike in deBeaumont where neither the fact nor the timing of the condition’s occurrence was certain, in this case, the child’s matriculation at kindergarten is an anticipated event that occurs on a date certain. Setting aside the fact that the parties actually dispute the date on which the child will begin kindergarten, see supra, ¶ 5 n.l, the distinction father asks us to make is without a difference, and makes no difference to a child. See Herstine,
¶ 13. A blanket rejection of automatic custody change provisions is also consistent with the policy against forcing shared custody onto parents who are at war with each other. The Legislature has provided that “[w]hen the parents cannot agree to divide or share parental rights and responsibilities, the court shall award parental rights and responsibilities primarily or solely to one parent.” 15 V.S.A. § 665(a). We have recognized that a court risks placing a child in the middle of constant disputes by forcing unwilling parents to share parental rights and make joint decisions. Cabot,
¶ 14. Again, the weight of authority supports our view. Courts that reject automatic custody change provisions do so
¶ 15. We also wish to clarify that it makes no difference whether the court’s award of primary rights and responsibilities to mother, and then to father, was apparently premised on father’s concession to the arrangement.
¶ 16. Finally, we need only briefly discuss mother’s contention that because father failed to cross-appeal that portion of the custody award granting mother primary rights and responsibilities until March 1, 2010, the award is res judicata and that that portion of the custody award may not be revisited on appeal or on remand. The natural extension of this argument is that we should affirm the award and remand with directions to reconsider parental rights and responsibilities thereafter. Mother’s argument is without merit. The doctrine of res judicata “bars litigation of a claim or defense if there exists a final judgment in former litigation in which the parties, subject matter, and causes of action are identical or substantially identical.” Kellner v. Kellner,
¶ 17. We find it unnecessary to reach the remainder of the parties’ arguments in light of our decision. We reverse the family court’s order, but continue the custody and parental contact provision as specified in the final order until such time as that court can revisit its decision. On remand, the family court shall reevaluate the custody order in its entirety in light of the opinions expressed herein.
Reversed and remanded.
Notes
The parties dispute whether the child will start kindergarten in the fall of 2010, when he is five years old, or 2011, when he is six. Because of our resolution of the case, we find it unnecessary to resolve this issue.
Those courts hail from: Alabama: Cleveland v. Cleveland,
The trial court's decision lacks any specific explanation as to why mother was granted parental rights and responsibilities given its analysis under § 665.
Dissenting Opinion
¶ 18. dissenting. The majority’s holding in this case sends two unfortunate messages to litigants and family courts in future parental rights proceedings. First, a parent who attempts to cooperate in a custody transition may lose his or her custody rights because of the cooperation, and therefore parents must contest custody at every stage of the proceeding to preserve their rights. Second, the trial court’s discretion to determine the best interests of the child is limited to decisions involving the immediate short-term needs of the child and cannot include changes to respond to future anticipated needs, and therefore courts should expect more litigation of parental rights and parent-child contact as children grow. I think this decision will be a major impediment to needed flexibility in fashioning child custody and visitation awards, and we will regret that we imposed these limitations.
¶ 19. In this case, father elected not to contest mother’s request to retain primary rights and responsibilities until their child is old enough to attend kindergarten. Instead, he proposed an alternative that would give him liberal contact in the short term and primary rights and responsibilities in the long term. The trial court concluded that father’s proposal was in the best interests of the child, but the majority now rejects the order as unlawful. Not only does the majority’s rejection of the court’s decision penalize father for his effort to be amicable and cooperative, it also removes the trial court’s broad discretion in the area of child custody. Because I believe the trial court acted within its discretion in fashioning a parental rights and responsibilities order that was in the best interests of the child, I dissent.
¶ 20. I begin with the substance of the court’s order. The family court concluded that it was in the child’s best interests to have a meaningful relationship with both parents and accomplished this by awarding mother parental rights with liberal contact for father and then granting father parental rights once the child begins school. The court based its decision on extensive findings, including an analysis of the statutory best interest factors. 15 V.S.A. § 665. The court found that the parties’ child is well adjusted and has an excellent relationship with both of his parents. On most factors, the court found that the parents were equally able to parent and nurture their son. The court found, however, that two factors in particular favored father. On the parties’ relative abilities to meet the child’s present and future developmental needs, the court found that “[t]he one significant factor which
¶21. While the majority briefly recounts the facts, I believe it is important to underscore that the trial court’s findings are supported by extensive evidence. Beginning even before the child was born, mother sought to limit father’s parental rights to his son. The court found that mother refused to have father’s name put on the birth certificate. In addition, mother left the state on three occasions, once when she was eight months pregnant, once in September 2005, and finally in February 2006 when she left permanently. The trial court found that mother desired to negate father’s parental rights by moving the child out of Vermont. When mother left for the final time on February 9, 2006, she did not tell father where she was going or that she was leaving with their child. The court found that mother’s actions were “calculated to minimize [father’s] ability to have meaningful and comfortable contact with his son.” Even after father filed for parentage, mother continued to be uncooperative in allowing father to see his son. Mother at first refused to acknowledge father’s paternity, but eventually mother stipulated that father was the child’s biological father. The parties agreed on a temporary order for parental rights and contact, which granted mother primary parental rights and responsibilities and gave father contact every other weekend, starting at 7:00 p.m. on Friday evening. The agreement also allowed father to have a weekday visit from 3:00 to 7:00 p.m. When father sought to have the weekday visit on Fridays to allow him to pick up his son at a more reasonable hour and arrive home in time to have dinner and go to bed, mother refused.
¶ 23. At trial, father testified that he was in general agreement with the evaluator’s recommendation and did not contest mother continuing parental rights in the short-term as long as he was granted contact with the child from Wednesday evening through Sunday evening every other week, and primary rights and responsibilities once the child starts kindergarten. Father proposed that mother could have contact every weekend. Father explained that his work schedule would allow him to be home in the morning before school, take the child to school and to pick him up at the end of the day. In answer to why he was not contesting mother initially continuing parental rights, father stated:
this is a tough thing, this is not easy, and I want as little hard feelings to come out of this hearing as possible, so if I need to give a little bit now to, to help maintain the peace, I think, I think that should be done. I want us to get along.
¶ 24. Mother testified that she agreed with the evaluator’s recommendation to gradually increase father’s time with son. Mother opposed father’s proposal to transfer custody once the child begins school because she felt it would involve too much travel time for the child to visit her every weekend. Mother, however, did not object to father’s request based on an assertion that such an order would violate the law. In fact, mother requested that the court look forward and incorporate how parental rights and parent-child contact should change as the child gets older and starts school.
¶25. Given these facts, the court concluded that it was in the child’s best interests to design a transitional parental rights order. The court found that once the child starts kindergarten the current contact schedule would be impractical because the parties live too far apart to shuttle the child to and from the same school.
¶ 26. First and foremost, this is a classic application of the adage: “let no good deed go unpunished.” As the family court reported, “Mother argues that changing custody before [the child] starts kindergarten would be a “violent dislocation’ that is not in [the child’s] best interest.” Father responded to mother’s “violent dislocation” argument by proposing a compromise that left the child in the mother’s primary custody until the child started kindergarten. While the court was not necessarily bound by father’s concession, it properly honored it as a voluntary settlement offer. See Harris v. Harris,
¶ 27. The majority ignores mother’s lack of preservation and the invited error, and blindsides father for proposing the compromise in the first instance. As I have observed before, it is in the child’s worst interests to be subjected to continuous litigation over custody, which is the real result here. Cloutier v. Blowers,
¶28. Putting aside the unique circumstances of this case that make the majority’s application of a new rule inappropriate, I also believe that for general reasons the majority’s bright-line rule should not be adopted. The majority argues that the disputed provision delaying the transfer of custody is unlawful because it is “contrary to precedent and contravene[s] policies behind the child custody statutes.” Ante, ¶ 7. I have looked at our precedents and the “policies behind the child custody statutes,” id., and find no requirement for such a bright-line rule. Indeed, I believe that the new rule is inconsistent with the policies behind the child custody statutes and our precedent for four specific reasons. The most important of these reasons, as discussed below, is the fourth, but I have put it last because the others reasons are important and would alone cause me to reject the majority decision.
¶29. First, we must acknowledge that our primary rule has been to give trial courts broad discretion in fashioning parental rights and responsibilities orders. The majority’s blanket prohibition detrimentally removes necessary discretion from the family court, and is contrary to our cases that have unequivocally afforded the family court broad discretion in assigning parental rights and responsibilities. See Rogers v. Parrish,
¶ 30. Second, we must recognize that we have previously upheld orders that change parent-child contact at a future date or when a child enters school with no hint that such an order is illegal. See Heffernan v. Harbeson,
¶ 31. Third, in general, we have allowed creative custody orders even though their elements are not specifically authorized by statute. For example, in Kasper, this Court held that the trial court had discretion to award physical responsibilities to the father and legal rights and responsibilities to the mother.
¶ 32. Fourth, the application of the majority’s restrictive rule is inconsistent with our settled law on modification of custody orders. That law, which allows modification only upon a showing of an unanticipated change of circumstances, prevents the majority’s announced purpose of its rule — to prevent speculation on a child’s future needs — from being fulfilled. As the majority states, “[t]he variables are simply too unfixed to determine at the time of a final divorce decree what the circumstances of the parties will be at the time a future contingency occurs.” Ante, ¶ 10. It goes on to reason that “[a]s a result, the family court cannot resolve prospectively whether an automatic change in custody will be in the best interests of the child at the time of the triggering event.” Id. That rationale would make sense if the court could reevaluate custody at the time of the triggering event, in this case the child’s entry into school, but it is inapplicable, and seriously misguided, if the court cannot make that reevaluation. Our custody modification law prevents that reevaluation.
¶ 33. The governing statute provides that a court may modify a custody order “upon a showing of real, substantial and unanticipated change of circumstances.” 15 V.S.A. § 668. Most relevant to this appeal is the requirement that the change be “unanticipated.” A change is unanticipated if it was “not expected at the time of divorce.” Hoover v. Hoover,
¶ 35. Thus, the majority’s reason for imposing its rigid rule is a fiction. Whatever custody determination is reached on remand, it will commence before the child attends school and continue after the child attends school without change. Directly contrary to the majority’s rationale, it will be based on a prediction of “what the circumstances of the parties will be at the time a future contingency [starting school] occurs.” Ante, ¶ 10. In effect, the trial court will by default be making exactly the prediction the majority bars the trial court from making. Assuming the family court sees the circumstances the same way after remand, the difference between the order that has been reversed and the new order is that the new one will not be in the child’s best interests, either in the short run before the child enters school, or in the long run thereafter.
¶ 36. Putting aside the policy reasons why I believe that the majority’s decision is wrong, I also disagree with the majority’s argument that its rule is compelled by our case law, specifically the decision in deBeaumont v. Goodrich,
¶ 37. I disagree that this case involves the kind of automatic change provision deBeaumont referenced. This transfer is not an open-ended clause allowing an automatic transfer upon an indefinite event, such as the custodial parent’s relocation. Instead, the transfer is to occur at a date certain because of a known and anticipated change in the child’s life. Moreover, the order is premised on the undisputed fact that once the child starts school the child will necessarily not be able to split time between the parents in the manner the parties are currently doing. Although the trial court found that this change would affect the child, there could be no reexamination of custody at that time because the triggering event is anticipated. This is in contrast to deBeaumont where the event was unanticipated and could trigger a change of circumstances sufficient to warrant modification.
¶ 38. Similarly, I do not believe this case is governed by the long list of eases from other states that the majority cites for the proposition that “automatic change provisions in custody orders are impermissible.” Ante, ¶ 9. Most of the cases cited are relocation cases, like deBeaumont, in which the trial court mandates that if the custodial parent moves out of a certain area, then custody will automatically transfer to the other parent. See, e.g., Hovater v. Hovater,
¶ 39. The concern of these cases is that it is pure speculation to surmise how future unknown events will alter a child’s situation and, therefore, it is impossible to know what a child’s future best interests will be. See Hovater,
¶ 40. I acknowledge that there are also a few cases wherein courts have nullified provisions that involve a transfer on a given date or when the child reaches a certain age, but the ability to modify a custody order in the future may be different in these jurisdictions.
¶ 41. The necessity of an individualized assessment is illustrated here. The family court judge struggled with the conflicting pressures of meeting the child’s needs in the short and long terms in fashioning its order. The court balanced the hardship caused to the child by transferring custody to father “versus the strong potential for stability from age six to eighteen.” The court arrived at its decision after considering the child’s best interests both now and in the future. The majority argues that future transfers of custody always build instability and disruption into a child’s life. In this case, however, the trial court found exactly the opposite, and the finding is supported by the evidence. The court found that the child has a good relationship with both parents and adjusts well to transitions between his parents’ households. In addition, the court fashioned a gradual transition schedule to minimize instability.
¶ 42. I disagree with the majority’s criticism of this gradual transition schedule. The majority asserts that the parental rights and responsibility order is prohibited by 15 V.S.A. § 665(a) because it requires parents to cooperate during the transitional period. The majority further contends that requiring such cooperation is akin to a situation in which parents are forced to share parental rights, which is not allowed under the statute. I fail to understand
¶ 43. I have commented in the past on the tendency of this Court to pay lip service to a discretionary standard of review in contested custody cases, but to actually engage in de novo review. See Cloutier,
¶44. Whether we would have reached the same result as the family court is not the point. Kasper,
Mother argues that in denying father’s request she was simply abiding by the exact terms of the temporary order and that her refusal to deviate from the agreement should not be held against her. While I agree with mother that she was not obligated to grant father’s request, I also conclude that mother’s refusal to cooperate was relevant to the trial court’s determination of whether mother is able
As explained, our law sets a high bar for modification of custody, requiring a threshold showing of a “real, substantial and unanticipated change of circumstances.” 15 V.S.A. § 668. The threshold requirement for modification in other jurisdictions is not as stringent. For example, in Alabama, modification does not depend on demonstrating that the change was unanticipated. Instead, “the party seeking to modify a prior custody decree bears the burden of proving that the change in custody materially promotes the welfare and best interest of the child in a manner sufficient to more than offset the effects caused by the uprooting of the child from his present custodian.” Reuter v. Neese,
