Wife appeals from a decree of dissolution challenging only a provision of the decree relating to the temporary custody of the minor child.
The parties had a marriage of short duration. There was one child born of the marriage, Jonathan. At the time of the hearing he was 8 months old. He was born premature and spent several weeks in the hospital. He underwent surgery in March, 1983 and may need another operation. According to his mother he was allergic to certain clothing, fabrics and food and required a special diet and clothing.
Husband, at the time of the hearing was a private in the army stationed in Tennessee. In April, 1984, he was due to be transferred to an army post in West Germany.
After hearing the evidence, the trial court dissolved the marriage, set aside separate property to the parties, awarded the marital property, awarded custody of Jonathan to wife with an award of child support, and awarded temporary custody of Jonathan to husband from 10:00 a.m. Saturday to 5:00 p.m. Sunday on alternate weekends. The court further decreed that “[o]n weekends when [husband] is unable to be in St. Louis County temporary custo
We note that the grandmother was not a party to this proceeding and neither filed a motion to intervene, testified or presented any evidence. Husband made no request that his mother exercise his rights in his absence. On appeal, wife contends that the provision of the decree allowing the husband’s mother to exercise husband’s temporary custody rights was error.
Section 452.400.3, RSMo.Supp.1983, provides:
The court may grant reasonable visitation rights to either the maternal or paternal grandparents of the child and issue any necessary orders to enforce the decree. A maternal or paternal grandparent shall have the right to intervene in any dissolution action solely on the issue of visitation rights; the grandparents shall also have the right to file a motion to modify the original decree to seek visitation rights when visitation rights have been denied to them. The court shall determine if the visitation by the grandparent would be in the child’s best interest or if it would endanger the child’s physical health or impair his emotional development.
In Hamilton v. Hamilton,
In a proceeding under Section 452.-400.3, grandparents must intervene, request visitation and present evidence so that the trial court may determine whether visitation by the grandparent would be in the child’s best interest or if it would endanger the child’s physical health or impair his emotional development. While there was no evidence that grandmother was an unfit custodian, there was scant evidence presented as to the suitability of grandmother or her home to support a visitation award. Moreover she was not a party and had made no request for visitation.
Notes
. In April, 1984, husband was, in fact, transferred to Germany. In July, 1984, husband filed a motion to stay the proceedings in this court pending his return, pursuant to the Soldiers and Sailors Civil Relief Act, 50 U.S.C.A.App. § 521. This provides for a stay of proceedings in any court unless, "in the opinion of the court, the ability of the plaintiff to prosecute the action or the defendant to conduct his defense is not materially affected by reason of his military service.” At the time the motion was filed, the record on appeal was complete and all briefs were filed. Husband’s presence for oral argument was unnecessary. We have concluded the ability of husband to prosecute this appeal, as would be true in most every appeal, was not materially affected by his military service. Briner v. Briner,
. Our research has revealed the case of Neustaedter v. Neustaedter,
