40 Wash. 125 | Wash. | 1905
This proceeding was brought in the lower court to modify a decree of divorce relating to the custody of two minor children of the parties. Upon the hearing,
The facts; as shown by the record, are in substance as follows: On October 2, 1900, the superior court of Walla Walla county granted a decree of divorce to the appellant, divorcing her from the respondent on the ground of cruelty. At that time, the two little boys, the fruits of the marriage, were seven, and eight and one-half, years old, respectively. In the decree the court made the following order:
“And it is now here further considered and ordered by the court that the plaintiff have, and she is hereby awarded, the custody, guardianship, and management of Edmund Clarence Miller, who was born on the 14th day of April, 1892, and Eerdinand Victor Miller, who was born on the 10th day of September, 1893, the minor children of said plaintiff and defendant, until they respectively attain the age of ten years, or until the making of an order in the meantime relative thereto, and that the said defendant have, and is hereby awarded, the custody, guardianship; and management of such children thereafter until the further order of the court in the premises.”
The decree also required the respondent to pay to the apipellant $20 per month for the support of the children until they should arrive at the age of ten years. Soon after the date of this decree of divorce, the appellant took the children to Seattle, where she had property interests, and where she has since resided with them. The respondent also made his headquarters in Seattle, a considerable part of the time thereafter. On May 11, 1902, the respondent was again married. He now has one child, an infant daughter, by his second wife. On May 29, 1903, the appellant was married to a man by the name of Kane. She has no children by her second marriage. The older boy became ten years
After the boys became ten years of age, they were left with the mother. The father refused to make any provision for them after that time. The father, however, testified on the hearing in this proceeding that he demanded the custody of the older boy about the time he became ten. years of age, but that his demand was refused. He took no steps, however, to secure the custody of either of the boys after that time, until this hearing. The evidence shows conclusively, that the mother is a proper person to have their care and custody; that she is amply able to support and educate the boys; that she has kept them in school in Sen attle continuously, where they have been good students and well behaved; that she has clothed them well¿ and carefully looked after their comforts; that they have been regular attendants at Sunday school — in short, the training and care and comforts of the boys have been all that a devoted mother could give them. They are strongly attached to their mother and stepfather, both of whom reciprocate the attachment.
At the time of this hearing, in March, 1905, the boys were aged eleven and a half, and nearly thirteen, respectively. They are apparently bright and thoughtful boys, and both stated upon the witness stand that they desired to be with their mother. They also stated that their mother had taught them to think well of their father, and that they did so. The respondent is a civil engineer by profession. His work takes him from place to place, so that up to the time of this hearing he had no fixed permanent abode. The evidence shows that he is competent and suitable to have their care and control. His present wife, when asked if she would be willing to' give the boys the same, care and attention that she would her own child, answered: “Yes, I should be very happy to take them and give them all the-care I can. The boys are so old now that they would be mostly under their father's control.” Upon these facts, which we think cover
“It is hereby by the court ordered that the defendant have the custody, management, and control of said minor children until the 25th day of August, 1905, unless otherwise ordered by the court, and that the defendant on said date deliver to the plaintiff at her residence in the city of Seattle, county of Eing, the said children, if she be then ready to receive them. It is further ordered by the court that the plaintiff have the care, custody, and control of said minor children from the 25th day of August, 1905, until the 1st day of February, 1908, . . . and that defendant have the custody, management, and control of said children from that date until the further order of the court.”
The order then provided that the defendant give a bond in the sum of $5,000, conditioned that he would comply with each order of the court made, and to he made, herein. The effect of this order was to- modify the original decree to the extent of giving the mother the custody of the children from August 25, 1905, to February 1, 1906. The modification made no other change in respect to the custody of the children except that it required a bond from the husband.
In determining the custody of these minor children, the primary object to he attained is their welfare. To this object, the claim and personal desires of the parents, and even the wishes of the children, must yield, especially if such desires or wishes are opposed to- that object. 14 Cyc. 805, and eases cited; 9 Am. & Eng. Ency. Law (2d ed.), 867, 868; 2 Bishop, Marriage, Div. & Sepa., § 1161; Kentzler v. Kentzler, 3 Wash. 166, 28 Pac. 370, 28 Am. St. 21; Umlauf v. Umlauf, 128 Ill. 378, 21 N. E. 600.
With this rule in mind, and conceding that both the father and the mother are situated equally, so far as their ability to care for the children, and so- far as their love and deisires for the company of the children are concerned, we still think, under the circumstances surrounding this case, that
On the other hand, the abode of the father is not fixed and permanent. He must go from place to place in the pursuit of his occupation. If the hoys follow with their father, their school advantages must necessarily suffer. They are at an age now when neglect or disadvantage in the matter of their education must be a serious consideration. The order appealed from removes these boys from their school in the midst of the school year. The stepmother has one child of her own, which naturally, in its infancy and subsequent years, must receive its mother’s first care and consideration. She could not be to these boys what their own natural mother will be. It is true> the stepfather, even though he loves and cares for the boys, cannot be to them as their own father; but naturally the company, comfort, and advice of the mother is of greater value for good than'that of the father. All other things being equal, this fact is a potent one to turn the scale in favor of the mother. When we consider the other advantages, above referred to> in favor of the mother, and in addition thereto the desires of the boys themselves, who are old enough to know their own minds in the matter, and whose wishes may be consulted where the rights and capabilities of the parties are evenly balanced (14 Cyc. 808f, and cases cited), we have no doubt, and do not hesitate to say, that the welfare of these boys places them with the mother.
Conceding, however, that the original order was final and that the rule, as stated does apply, there has been in this case a material change in the condition and fitness of the parties and requirements for the welfare of the children, since October, 1900, when the decree was rendered. The conditions of both father and mother have been changed. Both have remarried since the original. decree. The mother has, under the evidence, improved her condition, in that she is better able to provide for the boys now than formerly; her home life is more secure and stable, and more congenial. The father’s condition is also improved, beaus© he now has a wife to look after the home life of the boys. The evidence, however, discloses the fact that his home is not congenial to the boys, and this fact fully offsets whatever there is in his improved condition. We think the advantage in the condition and fitness in this ease is almost wholly in favor of the mother. Por these reasons; and others which we have not found it necessary to discuss, we are satisfied that the original order in reference to* the care and custody of the boys should be modified so as to' award them to the mother indefinitely.
The cause is therefore remanded to the lower court, with directions to award the care and custody of the children named to the mother from and after August 25, 1905, with
Crow, Root, Rudkin, Fullerton, Hadley, and Dunbar, JJ., concur.
