157 Iowa 467 | Iowa | 1912
— Some time prior to the year 1893 Electa J. Pond, an unmarried woman, built a one-room shanty on a quarter section of land in O’Brien county, intending to perfect her title to it under the homestead laws of the United States. About the same time John B. Boyington, with a similar intention, erected a, similar shanty on another tract of land not far distant in the same county. Each claim was contested. Boyington, who had occupied his shanty but two or three nights, moved it onto the land claimed by Miss Pond, and annexed it to her shanty in such form that together the two constituted one residence
In social matters the apparent relations of these parties remained throughout somewhat ambiguous. Boyington took Miss Pond on a few occasions to places of public resort such as lectures, dances, and church sociables, and, when they were thus seen together, the conduct of Boyington seemed to be such as to indicate a desire on his part to be agreeable to Miss Pond. But they practically never made or received visits, and the only persons who appeared to have ever eaten meals with them were hired helpers and people who came on business errands. To those who came to the house occasionally without knowing anything about the nature of the relations of these parties to each other they seemed to act as husband and wife might, but no one testifies to their addressing each other as husband or wife, or in any way definitely indicating that relation. Boyington called Miss Pond, “Electa,” and she called him “John” or “Boyington.” On two occasions, 'explaining to strangers the presence of Miss Pond in the- house, he said “this is my woman,” and the stranger in each instance, inferring the words to indicate that they were husband and wife, addressed her as Mrs. Boyington without protest on her part. But she was not thus addressed by neighbors and business people who were familiar with the situation. When addressed as Miss Pond, she never made any effort to deny the imputation that she was not married. Not long before her death, Boyington spoke of her to a woman who came to help about the house as “Miss Electa Pond,” and that woman raised a question as to their relations without receiving any assurance that they considered themselves to be husband and wife. Another witness testified that as a-lawyer he was consulted by the parties jointly, not long before the death of decedent, as to a proposed disposition of their property by which the survivor should have all; but on this occasion Boyington introduced the woman to this
It is contended for appellant that the division in general repute as to the relations of these parties was duo to a mislmderstanding as to what was meant by marriage; those who thought that the parties were not married believing that a ceremonial marriage was necessary. But the record does not adequately sustain this contention. It appears without substantial controversy that there was a well-founded belief in the community that these parties were living together in illicit relations; that is, although cohabiting, they were not husband and wife.
The term “cohabiting as husband and wife” is ambiguous. It may mean cohabitation under the assumption of the relation of husband and wife, or it may as well mean, without regard to any such actual relation, in the manner of cohabitation as between husband and wife. As already indicated, the fact of cohabition alone, no matter how continuous, is not sufficient in itself to give rise to the presumption of marriage. There is an attempt, also, to explain the failure to enter into a formal marriage by reference to the fact that Miss Pond could not, as she was advised, perfect her homestead claim in her own name or otherwise if she became a married woman before obtaining complete title to the land. In other, words, it is the contention of the appellant that, while marriage in fact existed between him and Miss Pond while she occupied the
The purpose and intention of Boyington in his relations with Miss Pond were of the greatest importance as bearing on the fact of a marriage. No doubt as a witness he would have been incompetent to testify to any transactions or communications with the deceased amounting to a mutual agreement to marry, but he was not incompetent to testify as to his own purposes and intentions and the circumstances under which their cohabitation was begun and continued, yet as a witness he failed to give any explanation whatever of their ambiguous relations. He tes
To our minds the evidence introduced in behalf of the appellant, disregarding entirely the evidence offered for
The decree is, therefore, — Affirmed.