Johnston v. Johnston

89 Wis. 416 | Wis. | 1895

PiNNEY, J.

It appears from the evidence that the parties were married in 1885, and in April of'that year went to the house of the petitioner’s father, Nathan Johnston, to live; that the respondent left that place and took the children with her to her father’s in Oshkosh, in February, 1887, where' she kept them a few weeks, and then took them to Milwaukee and kept them there until December of the same year, and then she and her husband took them back to his father’s, where they remained most of the time until October 13,1893, when the respondent took them from the school they were attending to her father’s in Oshkosh, and had kept them there ever since; that her father was able and willing to provide her and the children a home. The parties had separated and were not living together. Evidence was given tending to show that the respondent finally left the home of her husband’s father for the reason that he told her he had rented his farm and would not keep her any longer with her children; that her husband had never provided her with any home or support, nor bought her or the children any clothing; that after the children' had been taken from Milwaukee to the home of the husband’s father, the respondent remained in Milwaukee, the children visiting her frequently, and finally, in November, 1891, she went back to live with them at her husband’s father’s, doing the housework, and he boarded and clothed her and her children for a considerable time; that he was willing to provide for them, and was a man of means, a widower about sixty years of age; that a short time before the respondent took the children from the school articles were executed between the petitioner and his father, by which the children were apprenticed to him to learn stenography, and were to be provided for by him until the expiration of the respective terms of each of them, when they were to receive $500 each; that he agreed to leave them $1,500 each by his will; that he then lived with his sister, Mrs. Pugh, a competent person to care for the' children.

The petitioner testified, among other things, that he had no idea how much he earned; that he had been railroading in Michigan, Minnesota, and'Wisconsin, and earned from $55 to $75 a month,, but sent none of his earnings to his wife or children, and never furnished them any' great amount of money. The evidence tended to show that he was not a man of any means, was not industrious, but was dissipated, and consorted and held improper relations with persons of doubtful, if not evil, life and fame; that be was guilty of infidelity to Ms wife, such as would have warranted tbe granting to ber of an absolute divorce. Under tbe pressure of evidence at tbe trial be admitted in tbe circuit court that be was not a fit and proper person to have tbe care, custody, and control of bis children, but it was claimed that tbe respondent was not a fit and proper person; that she was of violent temper, and coarse in conversation, and bad repeatedly used profane and abusive language- to ber husband in tbe presence of their children, but this she denied. Tbe evidence, however, tended to show that on some particular occasions, under circumstances of great provocation and when exasperated by tbe evil conduct of her husband, she bad used violent and profane language to him; but in all other respects it appeared that she was of unblemished character and industrious life, and considerable evidence was given tending to show that she was a fit and proper person to have tbe care and custody of ber children. There was evidence tending to show that tbe respondent’s mother was a person of coarse and vulgar speech and conduct, whose presence and example might exert an unfavorable influence upon tbe children if they were permitted to remain at tbe home of tbe respondent’s father.

Tbe trial judge bad an opportunity to observe tbe demeanor and deportment of tbe parties in court, and beard them testify, as well as tbe several witnesses they produced. He bad peculiarly favorable opportunities for arriving at a correct conclusion in tbe premises, with which this court cannot be favored. Tbe husband and wife are living separately, and be, having made tbe humiliating confession in tbe trial court that be is not a proper person to have tbe care and custody of tbe children, contents himself in this controversy with assailing tbe fitness and competency of them mother, and seeks to deprive ber of their society and of tbe right to care for and minister to their wants and properly educate them. In all such controversies, the welfare of the children is the primary consideration which must control the judgment of the court. We could not interfere upon this writ to reverse the decision of the circuit court, unless it appears to be very clearly and decidedly against the weight of evidence. We feel bound to say, however, that we think the conclusion at which the circuit court ar-idved is abundantly sustained by the evidence.

Although prima faaie the father is entitled to the care and custody of his infant children, yet if he is an unfit person the court will award the custody to the mother if she is not an unfit and incompetent person; but, if it be for the welfare of the childi’en that they be committed to the care of another, the court, in the exercise of sound discretion, may award their custody accordingly. Sheers v. Stein, 75 Wis. 51; Schiltz v. Roenitz, 86 Wis. 37; In re Goodenough, 19 Wis. 277; Mercein v. People ex rel. Barry, 25 Wend. 72, 101, 102. Strong natural affection of a devoted mother living an industrious and reputable life, though she be in straitened circumstances, is a very sufficient assurance that she will tenderly care for and properly nurture and educate her children. It sounds ill in the mouth of the father to urge that the wife is possessed of slender means, when but for his fault they might have been more favorably situated, or to say that she was at times passionate and profane of speech under exasperating provocations of shameful misconduct on his part. His father is a man of ample means, evidently attached to the children, and has done much for their care and support in the past, and would doubtless continue to do so in the future; but the mother is not to be deprived of their care and custody, or the children of the companionship and maternal affection of their mother, because some wealthy relative is willing to take them and give them better advantages in life than those to which they were born. Nor can we allow controlling weight, under the circumstances, to the charges made in respect to their maternal grandmother; for it sometimes happens that there are objectionable persons in families of high character and great respectability. It is not the office of the writ of habeas corpus, in a case like this, to take from an industrious, devoted, and affectionate mother her infant children, when she is able to properly care for them according to the station in life to which they were born, and their father is unfit to have their care and custody, and give them over to the custody and control of relatives, however competent and well-intentioned, or ample their resources. The judgment of the circuit court was, we think, in accordance with a proper and wise exercise of judicial discretion.

By the Court.— The judgment of the circuit court is affirmed.