ON PETITION FOR REHEARING
In his petition for rehearing Thomas asks us to reconsider the rule recited in our original opinion,
An analysis of the fact situations involved in the relevant cases is necessary. In
Whitman v. Whitman,
(1980) Ind.App.,
However, the Indiana authorities are not unanimously in support of such an inflexible rule. Opposed to the above cases is
Franklin v. Franklin,
(1976) 169 Ind.App.
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537,
“Our decision here does not preclude, for all time and in all possible circumstances, the application of equitable considerations to give credit for support paid in a form, manner, or at times insignificantly different from that ordered with great specificity.”
No Indiana case has been cited where the credit claimed was denied when it grew out of circumstances in which the obligated parent assumed the physical custody and full support of the child on an extended, permanent basis.
Whitman, supra,
contains an analysis of decisions in other jurisdictions which demonstrates a split of authority. Some states have allowed credit to the obligated parent under certain, narrow circumstances, i. e., where the obligated parent had assumed custody or had made direct payments as required by the compulsion of circumstances, equitable considerations required credit for these expenditures to the extent that they constituted a substantial compliance with the spirit of the decree.
Steckler v. Steckler,
(1956) Mo.App.,
We are of the opinion that the seemingly inflexible rule recited in Whitman, supra, may be softened somewhat by equitable considerations. We are in complete agreement with the decision Whitman, supra, and the other cases on their facts. We further support the rationale and the effort to promote stability. However, we will not affirm the application of the inflexible rule in all cases and under all circumstances. Suppose, for an extreme example, the custodial parent delivers infant children to the obligated parent and, unfettered by the obligations and expense of child rearing, pursues his or her own carefree lifestyle. Meanwhile, the obligated parent, unwisely without modification of the decree, raises the children to maturity at his or her own expense, only to be faced, at the end of that time, with a demand by the custodial parent for tens of thousands of dollars in arrearag-es. Permitting recovery under such circumstances would shock the conscience of the average person. Yet, such a result is within the logical extension of a rigid application of the rule.
The cases where the rule has been applied, as shown by the analysis above, can be divided into two general categories. Those cases in the first category involve expenditures made during short visits and summer vacations, gifts, direct payments in cash, and the like, which are characterized as nonconforming payments. The necessity for, and existence of, such nonconforming payments is not easily susceptible of proof, and is a source of much post-divorce strife. Usually the amount of the payment is not substantial. Ind.Code 31-1-11.5-13 (Supp. 1980) authorizes the court to order, and most decrees in fact provide, that all support payments be made to the clerk’s office as immutable proof, and for this reason the courts reject any claim for credit other than payments in the prescribed manner. Such a system promotes stability.
Those cases in the second category involve indivisible support orders for several dependent children and unilateral attempts by obligated parents to reduce the support pro rata as the children become emancipated. Ordinarily, in those circumstances, the original support order was inadequate in the first place, but was all the obligated parent could reasonably pay. The court, by denying the pro rata reduction, makes available to fewer children the amount of *670 support originally ordered, thus easing, to some extent, the custodial parent’s straitened economic circumstances. Any order reducing the support must follow the court’s thorough consideration of whether the support order is excessive for the remaining children.
We are of the opinion that a narrow exception to the rule may exist in a case where the obligated parent, by agreement with the custodial parent, has taken the child or children into his or her home, has assumed custody of them, has provided them with food, clothing, shelter, medical attention, and school supplies, and has exercised parental control over their activities and education for such an extended period of time that a permanent change of custody is demonstrated. In such a case the court may, in its sound discretion, allow credit against the accrued support for the reason that the obligated parent has merely furnished support in a different manner under circumstances easily susceptible of proof. Such a result would be equitable, and would not conflict with the holdings of the reported cases.
The petition for rehearing is denied.
