81 Mo. App. 567 | Mo. Ct. App. | 1899
The plaintiff seeks a divorce on the three statutory grounds, willful desertion and habitual drunkenness for one year, and indignities rendering her condition intolerable. Upon the hearing the court dismissed the bill without prejudice. Plaintiff appealed.
The evidence shows that the parties were married in Illinois in 1875, and after living there until the birth of one child, tjhat they moved to Kankakee, Kansas, where the husband began to fall into the habits of intoxication; that they lived there ten years, and then moved to Horton, Kansas, where they remained seven or eight years, during most of which time the huSband continued to drink to excess and failed to provide for his family, rendering it necessary for the wife to keep boarders, take in sewing, and do washing and ironing for the support of herself and children,, which resulted in the breaking down of her health, so that she became bedridden for about six months of the last year of their residence in Horton; that her physician advised her, in order to be cured, that she must have a change of climate; that for this purpose, her husband having no money, she borrowed a sufficient sum from her mother and other relatives to take her to Illinois to reside with her uncle, who was a physician, where she remained seven or eight months and came back to St. Louis, and has resided there for more than a year before the institution of this suit; that her husband in the meantime came to St. Louis, his wife refusing to live with him there on account of his intemperance and failure to contribute to her support. With reference to the habits of the husband in respect to drink before he moved to St. Louis, the mother of plaintiff testified as follows:
. “Q. You are the mother of Mrs. Ishler? A. Yes, sir.
*570 “Q. Did you ever live in Kankakee, Kansas, when Mr. and Mrs. Ishler lived there? A. Yes, sir.
“Q. How long did you live there? A. About eighteen years.
“Q. Well you may state to the court what, if anything, was Mr. Ishler’s habit with regard to being drunk or sober while he lived at Kankakee, Kansas? A. Well, he would get drunk when he got whiskey to get drunk on.
“The Court: How often would thalt be ? A. Whenever he had any money.
“The Court: How often would that be? A. Why, whenever he had any money.
“The Court: I know, but how often would he have money to buy it with? A. Well, not very often.
“Q. How many times in a month? *A. About every day or two in the month.”
This witness further testified that the husband did not support his family thereafter, and as his wife became ill at Horton, Kansas, witness loaned her the money to go to Illinois, which trip was made under the directions of the family physician, the husband saying he had no money. As to the habits of the husband in this respect when the wife went to Illinois, and while he was in St. Louis, the sister of plaintiff testified as follows:
“Q. Now you spoke about his boarding with you; where were you living at the time he boarded with you? A. He boarded with me when I lived at 3913 Cote Brilliante.
“Q. What was he doing, working at the trade? A. Yes, sir.
“Q. What was his habits with regard to being drunk or sober while he was there? A. Well, he was drunk most of the time.
“The Court: How long did he board with you? A. I think about seven months; he boarded with me two different times about six or seven months.
*571 “Q. What was he doing? A. Working at the carpenter trade.
“Q. When was he drunk, when he came home at night ? A. Tes, sir.
“Q. He would fill up before he came home? A. Yes, sir.
“Q. Then he would go next day and do a day’s work? A. Yes, sir.
“Q. And come back again at night drunk? A. Yes, sir.
“Q. At those times he did not know what he was doing ? A. No, sir; there was times he didn’t know what he was doing.
“The Court: How often was that? A. Very often.
“Q. How often? A. Well, I couldn’t tell how often, but often, he couldn’t talk if he wanted to, didn’t know what he was doing.
“Q. At night? A. Yes, sir.”
Eurther as to the habits of the husband in St. Louis the niece testified, to wit:
“Q. What was his condition while in St. Louis in regard to being drunk or sober? A. He was drunk most of the time. He was always under the influence, sometimes he didn’t stagger.
“Q. Was he drinking while he was here? A. Yes, sir, most of the time.
“Q. Was he working while he was here ? A. Yes, sir, most of the time.”’
Eurther on this point the married daughter of the plaintiff testified that in 1898 she and her husband occupied the same house with her father; that they provided food and he ■rented the house, but failed to pay the rent; that he ate with them, “was intoxicated most of the time,” and “spent nearly all of his earnings for liquor.”
According to the foregoing evidence it was the custom