5 Iowa 204 | Iowa | 1857
-The questions presented by counsel for the respective parties, for our determination, are substantially as follows:
1. Is the charge of adultery sustained by the proof?
2. If not, is complainant entitled to a divorce, for the reason that she and respondent cannot live in peace and happiness together, and that their welfare requires a separation ?
3. If a divorce shall be decreed for this last cause, shall it be a vi/ieulo or a mena et thora ? And
4. If she is entitled to a divorce for either cause, and in either form, is the decree for alimony as made by the court below, correct ?
These questions we shall proceed to respond tot as near in the order presented, as may be necessary to the proper disposition of the cause.
In determining the first question, it may not be improper to refer, very briefly, to some of the rules of evidence which should govern its examination. And all the cases agree in holding that, this being peculiarly a crime of darkness and secresy, it is not necessary to prove the direct fact of adultery, for, if so, there is not one case in a thousand, in which the proof would be attainable. In almost every instance, therefore, the criminal intercourse is established, or may be infered, from circumstances — which circumstances, however, should lead to it by a fair inference, as a necessary consequence. What circumstances will lead to such a conclusion, it is impossible to lay down universally, for they are infinitely diversified, and have more or less weight, dependent upon the peculiar character of each case. The rule laid down by Lord Stowell, and subsequently uniformly recognized on this subject is, u that the circumstances must be such, as would lead the guarded discretion of a reasonable and just man to the conclusion, for it is
Applying these general considerations or rules, to the
"We are then led to inquire whether the second ground relied upon by complainant, is sustained by the proof, to wit: that she and respondent cannot live in peace and happiness together, and that their welfare, requires a separation. The code (ss. 1482) provides that a divorce from the bonds of matrimony may be decreed, when these things are made fully apparent to the court. And in considering this provision, we remark, in the first place, that it must be made
Another thing is observable, from the language used in this section, and that is, that these things must be made fully apparent to the court. They are not left to be determined or judged of by the parties, but by the court. And the chancellor is not to dissolve the relation, upon the mere clamor of the parties, nor upon his mere supposition that they cannot live together in peace and happiness, but it must be made fully apparent — he must be fully satisfied, that what is charged, in this respect, is true. Under the statute, the power given to the court is not the exercise of a discretion arbitrary in its character; but it must be exercised in a sound and legal manner. This law contemplates and requires a cause, or a state of case, justifying a divorce, and the court is called upon to judge whether the proof made, under such a charge, is such as forfeits the marriage contract. And, as was well said in Ritter v. Ritter, 5 Blackf., 81, the judgment of the court “ must not be governed by caprice or prejudice, or wild and visionary notions, with regard to the marriage institution, but should be so directed as to conduce to domestic harmony, and the peace and morality of society.” And see Motley v. Motley, 31 Maine, 490. ¥e also understand that this section-of the Code, does not have reference to the temporary peace and happiness of the parties, nor to their temporary welfare, but it was designed, by the legislature, that the chancellor should have regard to their permanent — their general peace, happiness, and welfare. He is to take into consideration their respective ages, temperament, and dispositions — their agreements and disagreements, in past life —the age and condition of their children — the situation of their property; and, in a word, all the circumstances, and every fact within his reach, in arriving at his conclusion. If it shall appear that their estrangement is temporary— that their peace and happiness has been momentarily disturbed, by some sudden ebulition of passion — that time will heal every wound thus made, — duty to the parties, as
"What we mean by this, is not that there may not be injury to the feelings of the children, occasioned by the unhappy difficulty, and consequent separation between their parents, but that they are no longer of such tender years, as to necessarily need the joint care and attention of father and mother — the restraining influence of the family and home. In the next place, we are satisfied that in this case, the disagreement or difficulty is not of recent origin, but that it commenced before the parties left Ohio, and has grown with great rapidity since their residence in this state. And here we may state, that while the wife
The length of this opinion forbids, that we should do more than briefly refer to some additional reasons, which induce us to believe that these parties cannot live together in peace and happiness. Prominent among these, is the fact, that since their separation they have made two ineffectual efforts to reconcile their difficulties. We cannot but believe that each party made this effort, with the
In this case, we can see no good reason why it is essential to the welfare of the parties, that they should be held in this union — a union which it is very manifest is alike unpleasant, indeed, almost loathsome, to each of them. "We feel satisfied, that if this divorce should be denied, they will never live together; or, if they did, it would be to each a life of continual and increasing disgust and unhappiness. Their welfare certainly would not be promoted, therefore, by such refusal. If they stand separated, however, by a judicial decree — each left free to act for himselt or herself— we incline to the opinion that their mutual welfare, (and this is what we are to regard), will be thereby promoted and secured.
It being thus concluded, that the complainant is entitled - to a divorce, the third question presented by counsel is, whether it shall be a divorce from the bonds of matrimony, or from bed and board. It will be remembered that this bill was filed January 2d, 1855, and the amendment thereto on the 25th of the same month. By the code, which was in force when this bill was filed, the complainant, for this cause, was entitled to a divorce a wmoulo vmtnrwionvL. On the 24th of January, 1855, however, an act was passed amending the law in relation to divorce and alimony, which provides “ that hereafter, no divorce otherwise than from bed and board, shall be granted, except for the following
The act of January 24th, did not take effect until the 1st of July, 1855, and until that time had no operative force. It was, therefore, inoperative until long after the amendment was made, by complainant, to her original bill. In this case, we are not called upon to determine what would have been the effect of the repealing act, if it had been in force at the time of the filing of the bill. The suit was commenced prior to the repeal, and the complainant’s whole cause of action fully preferred, before the repealing act took effect. And it is saved, we think, by the code, section 26, which provides that - the repeal of a statute, shall not effect auy proceeding commenced under, or by virtue, of a statute repealed. If this proviso does not extend to, and include a case of this character, then, we think, it would be utterly meaningless, and without force. The suggestion, that the act of the 24th January, 1855, repealed this section, as well as certain portions of chapter 86 of the code, is entirely untenable. This section is a part of the chapter which gives to us general rules for the construction of statutes, and the repealing law does not refer or relate to it iu any manner, nor does it propose to give any rule upon that subject. We conclude, therefore, that complainant’s case is unaffected by the repeal, and that she is entitled to an absolute divorce.
We finally inquire, whether there is any good reason for distm-bing the decree below, on the subject of alimony. And, while we entertain no doubt but that it is entirely competent for the court, under section 1485 of the code,
If the husband’s means consists of lands and personal property, then it might be oppressive to require him to pay money, and eminently to her interest, to give her a specific part of his estate. If, on the other hand, it appears that he has a large cash capital, which he can readily command' — that it is to his interest, as well as that of his children, who will probably inherit the same — that his landed estate should remain undivided, then money, and not property, it would seem, should be given to her. And, again, if one or more children, of tender age, should be entrusted to her care and custody, there would be a propriety in decreeing to her a place for a home, or real estate, upon which she might erect a home for herself and family. And thus, numerous considerations would enter into the inquiry — each case depending, to a great extent, upon its own peculiar circumstances. In every case, however, the decree should be so framed and made, as to have a due regard to the rights and interests of each party, and of the children who may be dependant upon them.
In the case before us, there does not seem to us to be a necessity for giving to the wife any portion of the husband’s lands. It is evident, from the proof, that he has a large amount of money, and personal property, and that to decree a sum in money will not work oppressively, or create the necessity for the disposition of his real estate. In addition to this, he avers a willingness to pay in money rather than in property, if a divorce shall be decreed. While such averred willingness should not be controlling, it is, nevertheless, entitled to weight, as showing that the interest of one party to this unhappy difficulty, will not be prejudiced by such an order. It is also to be remembered,
If the alimony decreed to the wife, is to be in money, what shall be the amount thereof? The report of the master, shows that the total value of the property of respondent, at the time of the decree below, after deducting debts, was about $16,000. In this amount, was included one demand then in litigation, of about $500, and matters of a character which could scarcely be accounted or estimated at the sums stated in the report. The court below decreed to her about $4,150 in money, and some town lots, valued at $850. In addition to this, respondent must pay all the costs of this proceeding, amounting to not less than from four to five hundred dollars. Under all the circumstances, and after giving to this part of the case, the most careful thought, we conclude that the decree below, should stand undisturbed, so far as it decrees the amounts
The decree of the District Court will, therefore, be affirmed, except in the particular above stated, and the cause remanded, with instructions to that court, to modify the former decree in this respect, with the further order also, that respondent may at any time, by paying the aggregate amount of the sums remaining unpaid, fully discharge the several semi-annual payments therein provided for.
Decree accordingly.