IN THE INTEREST OF A.J., Minor Child, C.C., Mother, Petitioner-Appellant, J.J., Father, Respondent-Appellee.
No. 25-0517
IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
October 29, 2025
SCHUMACHER, Judge.
A mother appeals the district court‘s denial of her petition to terminate a father‘s parental rights to their child under
REVERSED AND REMANDED.
Andrea M. Flanagan (argued) of Flanagan Law Group, PLLC, Des Moines, for appellant.
Joseph G. Martin (argued), Cedar Falls, for appellee.
Dusty L. Clements of Clements Law & Mediation, Newton, attorney and guardian ad litem for minor child.
Heard at oral argument by Greer, P.J., and Schumacher and Ahlers, JJ.
A mother appeals the district court‘s denial of her petition to terminate a father‘s parental rights to their child under
I. Background Facts and Proceedings
The parents began a relationship in 2019, and their child A.J. was born in March 2021. The parents lived together with A.J., along with the father‘s older child from a previous relationship.1 The parents separated in June or July of that year, at which time the mother and A.J. moved to the maternal grandparents’ house in a neighboring town. The mother and A.J. occasionally visited the father over the next few months.
In December, the father was arrested for operating while intoxicated (third or subsequent offense), child endangerment,2 driving while barred, and possession of a controlled substance (third offense). At that time, the father was on parole following his release from incarceration for operating while intoxicated
In February 2022, the father was arrested for a domestic abuse incident involving M.J.‘s mother and M.J. While those charges were dismissed, the father was required to serve time for his parole violation and other matters. The father was released from prison in August 2023.
Meanwhile, in June 2023, while in prison, the father initiated two actions against the mother. The mother was served notice of only one of those actions; it sought, in part, to establish paternity testing for A.J. The father dismissed that action in September 2024.3
In May 2024, the mother filed a petition to terminate the father‘s parental rights to A.J., alleging the father had abandoned the child pursuant to
The parties agreed that the father had not seen A.J. since December 2021, when the child would have been approximately nine months old. They further agreed the father text messaged the mother on several occasions in early January 2022 regarding M.J.4 The father testified he tried to contact the mother “[b]y the jail phone and letters” about M.J. and A.J. on other occasions but she did
The mother testified she had been in a relationship with her boyfriend Skyler for two years, and they had a one-year-old child together. The mother disputed that the father sent cards or letters from prison. She acknowledged that she eventually blocked him “[b]ecause of his harassment.” The mother testified that the father repeatedly contacted her in attempts to initiate sex but never asked about A.J. The mother also stated that she was in contact with several of the father‘s family members until “recently“; the father knew other “options” to contact her if he wanted to; and she would have responded to his contact “[i]f it was about [A.J.]” The mother maintained that the child believed that Skylar was her father and it was in the child‘s best interests for the father‘s parental rights to be terminated. The mother testified that she received no financial support for the child from the father since the parties’ separation.
The guardian ad litem recommended that the father‘s parental rights be terminated, opining in part:
Although, the father appears to have turned his life around and is now doing well in life and caring for his other child, the fact is [A.J.] doesn‘t know him and he hasn‘t had contact with her until [sic] she was a few months old. The most telling moment during the undersigned‘s involvement in this case was when she asked [A.J.] to
name her parents, and she said her dad was Skylar. Skylar is who she knows to be her father. He is the father who provides her with the financial, emotional and physical support that she requires. The undersigned believes that if [A.J.] was reintroduced to [the father] at this point it would be detrimental to her and would not be in her best interest. Although [the father] was incarcerated until August of 2023, his actions obviously caused that incarceration and more telling is the fact that since August of 2023, he did not make any efforts to file a custody action or contact [the mother] to reengage with [A.J.] Although the father maintains that he didn‘t know where they were at, the mother has remained in the same small town and appears to have been easy to locate. It is the undersigned‘s opinion that [the father] needed to take immediate action once he was released from prison to reestablish a relationship and be a part of his daughter‘s life.
Following the hearing, the district court entered an order concluding the statutory grounds for termination had not been met. Although the court observed “[i]t is undisputed that [the father] has not visited with or spoken to [A.J.] since she was nine months old (December 14, 2021)” and “[t]here is no father-daughter bond between [them] at this time,” the court found that the mother “block[ed] all forms of contact from [the father] and he did not have an alternate means of contact [with A.J.] except through [the mother].” The court further determined termination was not in the child‘s best interests, stating “termination of rights at this point seems premature. [A.J.] is three years old. There is a lot of time for [the father] to develop a relationship with her.” Accordingly, the court denied the mother‘s petition to terminate the father‘s parental rights. The mother appeals.
II. Standard of Review
We review termination proceedings under
III. Analysis
“Private termination proceedings under
A. Abandonment
unless the parent maintains substantial and continuous or repeated contact with the child as demonstrated by contribution toward support of the child of a reasonable amount, according to the parent‘s means, and as demonstrated by any of the following:
(1) Visiting the child at least monthly when physically and financially able to do so and when not prevented from doing so by the person having lawful custody of the child.
(2) Regular communication with the child or with the person having the care or custody of the child, when physically and financially unable to visit the child or when prevented from visiting the child by the person having lawful custody of the child.
(3) Openly living with the child for a period of six months within the one-year period immediately preceding the termination of parental rights hearing and during that period openly holding himself or herself out to be the parent of the child.
We elect to focus on the financial aspect of the statute. First, we may conclude the father abandoned A.J. due to lack of financial support without reaching his assertions that the mother prevented his contact with the child. A parent‘s lack of financial support is the initial test for abandonment. See In re K.W., No. 14-2115, 2015 WL 6508910, at *3 (Iowa Ct. App. Oct. 28, 2015) (“Under section 600A.8(3)(b), the threshold element of ‘substantial and continuous or repeated contact’ is economic contributions.“). So, if the father abandoned A.J. under the financial-support prong, we need not consider whether the mother prevented contact by the father.
The undisputed evidence shows that the father did not provide financial support for A.J. He alleges he attempted to send money to the mother on one
B. Best Interests
Because a ground for termination has been established, we turn to whether the mother showed by clear and convincing evidence that termination is in A.J.‘s best interests. See In re O.W., No. 24-0862, 2025 WL 52452, at *8 (Iowa Ct. App. Jan. 9, 2025). “Termination may not occur unless it is in the best interests of the child.” J.V., 13 N.W.3d at 607. Although our paramount consideration is the child‘s best interests, we must also give due consideration to the interests of the parents. See
[t]he best interest of a child requires that each biological parent affirmatively assume the duties encompassed by the role of being a parent. In determining whether a parent has affirmatively assumed
the duties of a parent, the court shall consider, but is not limited to consideration of, the fulfillment of financial obligations, demonstration of continued interest in the child, demonstration of a genuine effort to maintain communication with the child, and demonstration of the establishment and maintenance of a place of importance in the child‘s life.
We also borrow from the statutory best-interests framework in
On this question, the mother claims that “[f]rom the time of the parties’ separation in December 2021 through the date of trial, [the father] has failed to demonstrate a genuine interest in maintaining contact with [A.J.]” and “[h]e has not paid any financial support for the benefit of [A.J.]” during that time. Although the father maintains that termination “would cut off A.J. from the potential for support” from him in the future, the fact remains that the father‘s “chosen lifestyle” hindered his ability to have a relationship with A.J. or financially provide for her during most of her young life. See B.H.A., 938 N.W.2d at 234 (observing the father‘s “chosen lifestyle was at the expense of a relationship with [the child]“). We also share the mother‘s concern about the “pattern” of the father‘s criminal behavior and incarcerations, which she believes “will undoubtedly result in further chaos and inconsistency for [A.J.] if [the father‘s] rights are not permanently terminated.” See In re Dameron, 306 N.W.2d 743, 745 (Iowa 1981) (observing “evidence of the parent‘s past performance . . . may be indicative of the quality of the future care
In determining termination of the father‘s parental rights was not in A.J.‘s best interests, the district court relied heavily on the potential that A.J. could “develop a meaningful relationship with [the father]” in the future. While that may be true, “[a]side from speculation that [the father] may develop an active relationship with [A.J.] in years to come, the record is virtually devoid of any meaningful evidence that terminating [his] parental rights would be detrimental to [A.J.] due to any alleged closeness of the relationship.” See B.H.A., 938 N.W.2d at 234.
Further, although the record does not indicate that adoption is in A.J.‘s future, it shows the mother and Skylar have lived together for several years, Skylar is a father figure to A.J., the mother‘s child with Skylar is A.J.‘s half-sibling, and Skylar is a financial provider for the family. See id. (observing although “it is uncertain whether adoption” is in the child‘s future, the family “enjoy[s] family activities” with the mother‘s boyfriend, who “visits almost every day,” and his “role as a parental figure to [the child] has met, if not exceeded, any role assumed by [the father]“). As the guardian ad litem pointed out, A.J. “sees Dad as Skylar.” See id. (viewing the child‘s “unsolicited term of endearment towards [the mother‘s boyfriend] as a healthy indicator of attachment“). And it is undisputed that the child does not know her biological father.
REVERSED AND REMANDED.
