In re Zachary N.
Respondent (hereinafter the mother) is the biological mother of one child, who was born in 1997. The child has lived with petitioners, his paternal grandparents, since 1999 pursuant to an order that granted primary physical custody to petitioners and joint custody to petitioners and the mother. In September
To establish that the mother‘s consent to the adoption was not required, it was petitioners’ burden to show by clear and convincing evidence that the mother had demonstrated an intent to forgo her parental or custodial rights and obligations, as revealed by her failure to visit or communicate with the child or the legal custodian for a six-month period, despite being able to do so (see
The burden thus shifted to the mother “to demonstrate sufficient contact or an inability to engage in such contact” (Matter of Morgaine JJ., 31 AD3d 931, 932 [2006]). The mother conceded that she had no contact with the child for a period of almost seven years, but claimed that petitioner Erika N. (hereinafter the grandmother) had hindered the relationship by restricting her visitation and later refusing her requests for visits. The mother testified that she had tried to arrange visits with the child by telephoning petitioners, but her calls were not returned. She stated that she could not communicate with the child by mail because she did not know petitioners’ mailing address, and that although she knew their street address, no one was at home when she attempted to deliver gifts. She testified that the grandmother refused her offers to provide financial support, and the child‘s father had warned her in 2003 that she would go to jail if she continued to telephone petitioners. The
We accord deference to Family Court‘s determination that petitioners’ testimony was credible and the mother‘s testimony was not (see id. at 932-933). As the court noted, the mother was aware of her ability to file petitions in Family Court for the purpose of protecting her relationship with the child, but did not do so at any time between 1999 and 2007. The proceedings she commenced after petitioners filed their initial application for waiver “appear[ ] to be ‘nothing more than an effort to block the adoption‘” (Matter of Kira OO., 45 AD3d at 935, quoting Matter of Sergio LL., 269 AD2d 699, 701 [2000]), at most a “flicker of interest” insufficient to preclude a finding of abandonment (Matter of Kira OO., 45 AD3d at 935 [internal quotation marks and citations omitted]; see Matter of Amy SS, 64 NY2d 788, 790 [1985]).2
The mother‘s speculative contention that the attorney for the child improperly failed to address the child‘s preferences is not pertinent even if it were supported by the record, as the issue of abandonment relates solely to parental conduct. While the child‘s best interests are ultimately essential to approval of the adoption, they are not pertinent to this threshold inquiry (see Matter of Corey L. v Martin L., 45 NY2d 383, 391 [1978]).3 Family Court correctly found that the mother evinced the requisite intent to forgo her parental rights and obligations for a period including the requisite six months and, indeed, exceeding six years, and that her consent to the adoption was therefore not required.
Ordered that the order is affirmed, without costs.