OPINION
I.P., the mother of four children ages 7 to 14, challenges the trial court’s termination of her parental rights. M.P., her eldest child, joins in disputing the decision respecting her relationship with her mother. Because the trial court’s findings of fact do not address the children’s best interests or critical issues bearing on the children’s best interests, we reverse and remand for further consideration. Although we provide the same remedy for all four children, we observe a contrast between the weighty considerations supporting termination regarding the younger three children and the tenuous rationale for termination regarding M.P.
FACTS
M.P., the oldest of I.P.’s children, reached age 15 two months after the May 1995 termination decision. I.P.’s former husband lost custody of the children in a divorce, fives out-of-state, and is not involved in these proceedings.
The trial court’s termination decision was premised on statutory grounds that (a) I.P. was a palpably unfit parent; 1 (b) I.P. failed to correct the conditions leading to a prior determination that the children were in need of protection or services; 2 and (c) the children were neglected and in foster care. 3 The court’s overall conclusions are premised on findings that (a) the children have special needs; (b) I.P. and/or the children have been involved with county services since 1983 and have received all relevant services the county has to offer, but I.P. is still unable to care for her children; (c) I.P.’s personality disorder will preclude her from being able to care for the children in the foreseeable future; (d) I.P. was aware of her case plan but did not follow its requirements; and (e) the children have been in foster care since 1991.
M.P. rests her appeal singularly on the contention that a child’s best interests can preclude termination of parental rights and that the trial court’s findings of fact do not adequately address her best interests. M.P.’s reasoning begins with the overall observation that the trial court made no finding that termination of IJP.’s parental rights was in the best interests of any of the children and instead only found that it was in the children’s best interests to be put in a stable home. M.P. contends that the termination of her parental rights is precluded because of her personal wishes against the termination, which the trial court acknowledged in its findings of fact, and because M.P. is not a candidate for adoption.
I.P.’s appeal joins in M.P.’s contention regarding the children’s best interests. I.P. also claims that there are other inadequacies in the trial court’s findings of fact.
*74 ISSUE
Did the trial court adequately address the children’s best interests?
ANALYSIS
Explaining again that “[t]here is perhaps no more grave matter that comes before the court than the termination of a parent’s relationship with a child,” the supreme court recently restated its long-held resolve to exercise great caution in termination proceedings and to abide by the legal maxim that
[1]n determining whether termination of parental rights is appropriate, the best interest of the child is the paramount consideration.
In re Welfare of A.D.,
Respondents do not dispute M.P.’s contentions that because a child’s best interests are the paramount consideration in proceedings to terminate parental rights, the trial court is precluded from terminating parental rights where the record does not show that termination is in the child’s best interests and that this is true even if one or more of the statutory prerequisites for termination exist. We conclude that these are correct constructions of the law.
1. Paramount Nature of a Child’s Best Interests
In proceedings to terminate parental rights, if one or more of the statutory prerequisites for terminating parental rights exist, “the best interests of the child must be the paramount consideration.” Minn.Stat. § 260.221, subd. 4 (1994). While this statutory provision was enacted in 1988, the paramount nature of a child’s best interests is a principle that has been part of Minnesota child welfare law for at least 100 years.
See
1988 Minn. Laws ch. 514, § 8 (codification of paramount nature of child’s best interests in termination proceedings); J.J.B.,
In concluding that a child’s best interests can preclude termination of parental rights despite one or more of the statutory prerequisites to terminate parental rights, we are mindful that numerous applications of the best interests doctrine demonstrate its use in enhancing the cause for terminating parental rights. But a “paramount consideration,” so valued by the legislature and a century of appellate jurisprudence, is one that, by definition, is of more weight and importance than other considerations. Indeed, the termination statute itself states that upon finding one or more of the prerequisites for terminating parental rights, the trial court “may” terminate parental rights.
Compare
Minn.Stat. § 645.44, subd. 15 (1994) (“ ‘May’ is permissive”)
with
Minn.Stat. § 645.44, subd. 16 (1994) (“ ‘[sjhall’ is mandatory”). Finally, that a child’s best interests can support a refusal to terminate parental rights is implicit in the supreme court’s historic preference for avoiding the termination of parental rights or otherwise interfering in the parent and child relationship.
See A.D.,
Because a child’s best interests may preclude terminating parental rights where *75 one or more of the statutory prerequisites for termination are present, the trial court’s findings in a termination case must address whether termination is in a child’s best interests and, if so, explain the trial court’s rationale for reaching that conclusion. In the case currently on appeal, the trial court did not make even conclusory findings tying the termination decision with the children’s best interests, and the court did not address underlying best interest considerations put in issue by the parties.
2. M.P.’s Best Interests
a. Choice of child. The trial court terminated I.P.’s parental rights to M.P. two months before M.P. reached age 15. While one of the trial court’s findings acknowledges that M.P. does not want her mother’s parental rights terminated, the trial court does not indicate how this fact figured into its decision to terminate I.P.’s parental rights. M.P. claims that the trial court did not give enough weight to her preference against termination.
The choice of children old enough to express a preference about their custodial arrangement has always received significant weight in examining a child’s best interests.
See, e.g., Gauthier v. Walter,
b. Parent and child relationship. The law has long favored retaining long-term bonded relationships between children and their custodians.
See, e.g., A.D.,
In an attempt to get information with which to address the mutual desires of M.P. and I.P. to preserve their relationship, the trial court asked the social worker about terminating parental rights to the younger two or three children but not the elder one or two. The social worker testified that (a) the children have a strong, though not always positive, relationship with each other; (b) the children to whom parental rights were terminated would view the termination as a failure on their part; (c) the result would be that the children to whom parental rights were terminated would use the children) to whom parental rights were not terminated to communicate with I.P. with more harm being done to the children as a group than there was benefit to the children) to whom parental rights were not terminated. The trial court made no findings that assess these purported aspects of the relationships among I.P. and her children, either in respect to M.P.’s best interests or to plans for the younger children.
c. Benefits of termination. M.P. also claims that termination of I.P.’s parental *76 rights is precluded by the fact that M.P. is not adoptable. Because of her age (15) and preference against adoption, statutory law supports M.P.’s contention. See Minn.Stat. §§ 259.24, subd. 3 (1994) (if a child over age 14 is to be adopted “the child’s written consent * * * shall be necessary”); 645.44, subd. 16 (1994) (“‘[s]hall’ is mandatory”).
By claiming that her adoptability must be considered, M.P. is functionally claiming that any consideration of her best interests must be prospective. It is true that a narrow definition of “best interests” confined solely to the past would distort a fair understanding of the concept. And case law demonstrates that termination of parental rights requires prospective consideration of a child’s best interests.
See, e.g., J.J.B.,
The trial court’s findings do not explicitly consider M.P.’s future or balance the benefits of termination against M.P.’s loss of her relationship with her natural mother. The trial court evidently premises termination of LP.’s parental rights to M.P. on M.P.’s need for permanence and stability, and the apparent assumption that these qualities will be provided by termination. In cases where evidence supports the belief that a parent’s relationship with his or her child is harmful to the child, the judiciary cannot simply assume that termination of parental rights will repair or lessen that problem and, based on that assumption, conclude that termination is in the child’s best interests. Here, terminating I.P.’s parental rights may offer M.P. the worst of both worlds; M.P. will lose contacts with her natural mother but, because she is not adoptable, she still may be left in long-term foster care.
See J.J.B.,
3. Other Children’s Best Interests
Many of I.P.’s arguments regarding the termination of her parental rights to the younger three children are similar to those made by M.P. Because the trial court’s findings on the critical aspects of the younger children’s best interests are as limited as they are for M.P., we make only the following comments in passing.
The younger children’s ages now range from 7 to 13. To the extent that they are old enough and mature enough to express a preference and have done so, these preferences should be considered and weighted accordingly.
See, generally, Maxfield,
We further note that the trial court did not address the county’s failure to put the children in an out-of-home placement with their aunt and that this failure is contrary to the statutory preference for out-of-home placements with relatives. Minn.Stat. § 260.181, subd. 3 (1994). The county argues that the children can be placed with their aunt after termination. While true, the statute requires application of the relative preference whenever the court transfers legal custody of any child, not just transfers occurring after termination. Id. On remand, the trial court must address the county’s refusal to implement the statutory placement preference.
4. Other Issues
Neither I.P. nor M.P. challenge the finding that I.P. is currently unable to care for the children. But the record contains the testimony of I.P.’s therapist that at least a partial reunification could occur in about 18 months. Other testimony states that the children need stability as soon as possible and that there are no relevant county services that have not already been unsuccessful. Indeed, one expert testified that psychologists do not know how to treat I.P.’s personality disorder. Also, while the trial court made findings on I.P.’s conduct, most of the findings do not relate to I.P.’s current conduct.
See In re Welfare of Clausen,
I.P. claims that the county’s reunification efforts were not reasonable and that the county’s development of case plans for reunifying the family was defective. We do not address these arguments. In the case of the former, with the exception of the county’s failure to place the children with their aunt, we see no factual basis for the claim on this record. In the case of the latter, the argument is not fully developed, and we see no facial problem with the development of the case plans.
DECISION
The termination of I.P.’s parental rights is reversed and remanded. On remand, the trial court must address each child’s best interests in a manner consistent with this opinion, and the court has discretion to reopen the record and to modify its prior ruling as necessary in light of its findings of fact on remand. The trial court is also to address the possibility of reunification and I.P.’s conduct up to the time of trial.
Remanded.
Notes
. See Minn.Stat. § 260.221, subd. 1(b)(4) (1994) (parental rights may be terminated if a person "is palpably unfit to be a party to the parent and child relationship”).
. See Minn.Stat. § 260.221, subd. 1(b)(5) (parental rights may be terminated if, after a CHIPS determination, reasonable efforts by the county fail to correct the conditions leading to the CHIPS determination).
. See Minn.Stat. § 260.221, subd. 1(b)(8) (parental rights may be terminated if children are neglected and in foster care).
. Some prior cases state that the imminence of adoption is not a consideration in a termination proceeding.
See, e.g., In re Welfare of P.J.K.,
