12 N.Y.S. 708 | N.Y. Sur. Ct. | 1891
The law applicable to this proceeding is well settled in this state, and it is
I approach the disposition of this preliminary question with much deliberation, and with a full appreciation of the responsibility which rests upon me to do, as nearly as human mind and heart can do, justice between the contestant, who is here asserting her claim as the lawful widow of Robert Ray Hamilton, and the family of that man, who are here denying that she was ever his wife, and that she has any status to appear in this present proceeding.
I have given very careful attention to the testimony given by every witness, and I have listened to and have been aided by the arguments of counsel on both sides, upon the facts and upon the law. Suggestions have been made by them which probably would have escaped my attention but for their presentation, but the law which must be administered in this case is that which is well understood by us all, and in respect to which there is no disagreement between counsel. If this case had been tried before a jury, certain defined issues would have been framed and passed upon by the court, and then presented in writing to the jury for them to say “Yes” or “No,” and upon their answer would depend the determination of the ques
I make no comment upon the testimony given by many of the witnesses of her, and Mann’s declarations upon the subject of their marriage. It will not be argued that those declarations were not inadmissible. They do not of themselves establish a marriage, but they do disclose one of two things: either an honest emotion and sentiment of their hearts at the time they were made, or they disclose a determination on their part to make these declarations for the purpose of protecting themselves against the obloquy in the community by concealing their real relations to each other. For the sake of certainty I shall read briefly from a very late decision from our Court of Appeals the general proposition on this subject, a case which has not been referred to by counsel, but which, no doubt, is familiar to them. The case of Gall v. Gall, 114 N. Y. 109, is the case to which I allude. It is proper to say that this case was decided by a majority vote of the members of the court. We have not the benefit of . the dissenting opinion, if any was written, but the proposition which I propose to read will be found fully supported by every case in this state upon this subject. The reason for the dissent was probably the belief of the minority of the court that the facts in the case did not warrant the application of the princi
What do the facts in this proceeding establish ? Assume, for the sake of argument, that the relation between Mann and the contestant was, in its origin, meretricious, does the evidence satisfy a reasonable mind that it subsequently became matrimonial ? Is it likely that the relation of lover and mistress could continue years beyond the capacity of the man or of the woman to reciprocate such attentions as might be expected between lover and mistress ? Is it likely (and it is with probabilities that we must deal to some extent) that the contestant voluntarily made a false statement to the unimpeached witness, Mrs. Badger) upon the subject of her relations to Mann, when, as she said, he was a total imbecile, when he had ceased in any possible way to be attractive to her as a lover ?
This case proceeds : “ A present agreement between competent parties to take each other for husband and wife constitutes a valid marriage, even if not in the presence of witnesses.” Now, it is claimed by the contestant that there is no proof that there was ever any promise of marriage between these people. I do not recollect any direct evidence of a contract between them or evidence directed to that particular inquiry: “ Did you ever agree between you to become man and wife ? ” If any evidence of that character is in this case, I have not been able to remember it. But the contestant testified that she never did make any contract of that character, and that he never made any such contract with her. If her testimony is to be believed, and that no words of that import were spoken