119 Misc. 638 | New York County Courts | 1922
On or about May 20, 1920, one Frances Sabo gave birth to the infant in question at Buffalo, N. Y. At that time she was living separate and apart from her husband and six other children whom she had deserted at Beaver, Penn., and was in poor financial circumstances. She was attended in her confinement by a reputable physician of many years’ experience, and expressed a wish to him that somebody might adopt the child as she was unable to care for it. The doctor had long been the family physician of the Millers, and knowing that they wanted to adopt a girl, brought the parties together. He is positive in his statement that an adoption was intended when the mother turned the child over to the Millers, the child at that time being about ten days old. Later on when adoption papers were prepared, the mother of the child refused to sign the necessary documents, and so Charles L. Miller petitioned the court for an order allowing him to adopt the child, and notice of the hearing upon said application was given to Frances Sabo. She appeared personally and by attorney, and on the 4th and 11th days of November, 1922, the witnesses produced by both parties were examined at considerable length.
It appears that since the child was taken by the Millers the respondent has seen it but very little, and has contributed practically nothing to its support. The records in the office of the commissioner of charities for Erie county show that Mrs. Sabo, soon after the birth of the child, sought to have some one other than her husband held as the father of the child, but the department upon learning that she was married, refused to institute the proceedings. Since the birth of the child Mrs. Sabo has worked as a waitress in restaurants, and for a period of about six months was housekeeper for a man by the name of Allen at 1763 Broadway, where she was known as Mrs. Allen, but both she and Allen strenuously deny that there was anything improper in their relations. Mrs. Sabo objects to the adoption of the child by the petitioner, and proposes to have it boarded in some other place, not having a home where she could keep it herself.
I am aware that very strong reasons should be given before the court should allow a child to be adopted against the wishes of a natural parent, but as it is “ The duty of the court, in a proceeding involving the custody of a child, to look solely to its welfare and decide accordingly ” (Matter of Wainman v. Richardson, 119 Misc. Rep. 363; Matter of Lee, 220 N. Y. 532, 538), I feel that the adoption should be allowed.
The conduct of the mother in regard to her other children has been so unnatural and selfish that the court is warranted in the conclusion that she is not a proper person to have the care and custody of the infant in question. In addition to this, she has no place to keep the child where it would be as well taken care of as it would be by the Millers, and Mrs. Sabo has not a sufficient income to properly maintain and care for the child.
It is a little hard to understand the reason for Mrs. Sabo’s sudden interest in the child, especially when we consider her utter lack of interest in her other six children, and even if she were well able financially to support and care for the child, and had a desirable home for it, it would then be a very serious question whether her character is such as would warrant the giving of the child into her custody.
In the Wainman case, above referred to, the court denied the father, a reputable person, the custody of the child, on the theory that the welfare of the child would be best served by leaving it in the custody of a maternal aunt. In the present case the Millers, in addition to being the better people to have the custody of the child, are entitled to much consideration because the child, according to the testimony of the doctor, was taken for adoption as the mother could not properly support it, and the mother should not now be permitted after the Millers have cared for the child and become attached to it, to repudiate her promise made when the child was surrendered.
An order may. be entered allowing the adoption of the child by the petitioner upon the execution of proper papers.
Ordered accordingly.
