OPINION OF THE COURT
On March 28, 2007, the petitioner father filed an application for approval of an instrument of surrender, pursuant to Social Services Law § 384, concerning the subject child, Shawanda R, born in 1990. This application had the support of the 16-year-old subject child and the respondent mother. However, the application presented the unique situation where a parent files a petition for judicial surrender when there is no neglect or adoption proceeding pending in any court regarding the subject child. In fact, the only history these parties have had in Family Court has been support proceedings, first in the Child Support Enforcement Term in May 1996 when the petitioner father’s paternity of the subject child was established and support was set.
In her memorandum the attorney for the respondent mother argues for a “best interests analysis,” citing Matter of Bennett v Jeffreys (
A surrender as defined by statute is the commitment of one’s child to the care and custody of the Commissioner of Social Services or an authorized agency for the purpose of adoption. (Social Services Law § 384 [1]; Domestic Relations Law § 109 [7].) When a surrender is requested by a parent of a child who is not in foster care, it is a social services official who must determine whether a surrender would serve the child’s best interests. (18 NYCRR 421.6 [j].) Neither the Administration for Children’s Services nor an authorized agency is a party in this surrender. This matter is not an application for approval of a surrender as defined by statute. Thus, the approval of this “surrender” must be denied.
Once the approval of a judicial surrender has been denied, the court’s jurisdiction generally ends. However, the respondent mother requests that, on consent of all the parties, the petitioner father in the surrender proceeding be allowed to move this court to terminate his paternal rights.
The respondent mother presents the facts of this matter as a basis for seeking court action, and relies on the gravamen of Family Court proceedings, citing the standard “the best interests of the child.” (See Matter of Bennett v Jeffreys,
It is uncontested that the petitioner father has not met his parental obligation to his daughter nor established a parent-child relationship with her. The respondent mother argues the payment for the support of the child by the petitioner father
The respondent mother’s attorney states a careful search of case law did not reveal a case “directly on point,” asking the court “to analogize this case to neglect and adoption cases under the Bennett v Jeffreys analysis.” The respondent mother’s reliance on this case law is misplaced. Matter of James R. (
The only case law dealing with a court’s jurisdiction cited by the respondent mother was Matter of Unborn Baby B. (
Finally, the respondent mother cites Matter of Patricia A.W. (
Neither the letter nor the spirit of the law would allow the petitioner father to move to terminate his own parental rights. This matter cannot be analogized to neglect and adoption proceedings. The State has not determined it should exercise its role as parens patriae and have the court intervene in the family of this child. Such court intervention would mean placing the child in foster care and when attempts at nurturing family relations did not work, terminating parental rights with the goal of adoption. (See Social Services Law § 384-b [1].) The petitioner father does not have standing to initiate the judicial termination of parental rights, nor could this court order its initiation under the circumstances set forth here.
The respondent mother is the party who thinks legally ending the parent-child relationship between this daughter and her father would be in the child’s best interest. The person who would lose his parental rights and obligations is a person who has refused to exercise them. It seems apparent that the petitioner father filed the surrender at least in part to forfeit his support obligation to the subject child. Termination proceedings cannot be used to avoid financial responsibility to a child. (Matter of Aida G. v Carlos P,
For the reasons stated above the proposed application for approval of an instrument of surrender filed by the petitioner father cannot be allowed and is hereby dismissed with prejudice. Thus, the Family Court cannot entertain the petitioner father’s proposed motion for the voluntary termination of parental rights.
Notes
. Thereafter, on September 13, 2006, Kings County Support Magistrate Elizabeth Shamahs found the respondent father wilfully violated the order of support. The Support Magistrate entered a money judgment against the respondent father in favor of the petitioner mother in the amount of $8,244. The Support Magistrate continued the order of support at $36 weekly, payable to the petitioner mother through the Support Collection Unit.
. The Family Court may direct the Law Guardian to initiate a termination of parental rights proceeding if the authorized agency fails to do so within the time fixed by order of the court. (Social Services Law § 384-b [3] [b].)
. The respondent mother did file a petition to enforce a support order on January 31, 2007, but when she did not appear on the adjourn date, the Support Magistrate dismissed the petition, without prejudice.
