This began as an appeal by the petitioner wife, Sally Ann Winegard, and a cross-appeal by the respondent husband, John Robert Winegard, from the economic provisions of a decree of marriage dissolution. Subsequently, by order of this court, Sally was designated appellant for purposes of this appeal for noncompliance with required filing procedures. We modify the award to the petitioner, and as so modified affirm the judgment and decree of the trial court.
This protracted litigation began in February 1973, when Sally Ann Winegard filed her petition for dissolution of a common law marriage which she alleged to exist between her and John Robert Winegard. Af
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ter a hearing in October of 1974, the trial court held that a common law marriage existed. John then twice applied to this court for permission to perfect interlocutory appeals, both of which applications were denied. He also unsuccessfully sought relief in the federal courts. In June, 1975 the trial court granted Sally temporary attorney fees, from which award John appealed .to this court. We affirmed such award in September of 1977 in
In re Marriage of Winegard,
Following extensive discovery by both parties, a final hearing and trial on the question of dissolution and the issues of property rights and alimony was held in December, 1976. The trial court awarded Sally $75,000 as a lump sum allocation of property rights in lieu of any alimony, and ordered John to pay $10,000 toward the petitioner’s attorney fees. Sally had sought an allowance of $25,428.59 for her attorney fees. During the proceedings the trial court also entered several protective orders which effectively barred Sally from discovering information contained in certain financial documents which she claimed were necessary to establish the value of the stock owned by John. In her present appeal, Sally contends the trial court erred in issuing such protective orders and alleges the aforementioned awards are inadequate under the circumstances.
In John’s appeal from the ruling of the trial court, he contends: (1) the trial court erred in concluding he is estopped from challenging the validity of a Nevada divorce, which he had aided Sally in obtaining, and her resulting capacity to enter into a common law marriage; (2) the court erred in finding a common law marriage existed between John and Sally; and (3) that the court erred in its finding that an antenuptial agreement executed by John and Sally, which purports to deny Sally any alimony or property settlement from John in the event of a dissolution of their marriage, is void as against public policy to the extent that it would bar the award of alimony and limit John’s duty to support.
On the basis of the above asserted grounds for appeal, we find the following issues are before us:
(1) Is John estopped or otherwise precluded from challenging the validity of Sally’s Nevada divorces and her consequent capacity to enter into a common law marriage?
(2) Does evidence in the record support the conclusion of the trial court that a common law marriage existed between Sally and John?
(3) Are the terms of the antenuptial agreement, barring alimony and a property settlement, fully enforcible against Sally?
(4) Did the trial court err in issuing the protective order regarding the federal income tax returns of the Winegard Corporation of which John is majority stockholder?
(5) Was the award of $75,000 to Sally as a lump sum in lieu of alimony adequate under the circumstances?
(6) Was the award of $10,000 to Sally to apply on the payment of her attorney fees adequate under the circumstances when the itemization for services rendered indicated charges to her of over $25,000?
I. John contends that any purported common law marriage between himself and Sally is void ab initio since Sally had at least one spouse living at the time of the common law marriage due to alleged jurisdictional defects in two Nevada divorces obtained by Sally. John neglects to note that the Nevada decrees are entitled to a presumption of validity until shown to be invalid by one who may properly assert such invalidity.
Cooper v. Cooper,
As a preliminary matter, we note that the scope of our review of the rulings of the trial court is de novo.
In re
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Marriage of Vogel,
Sally’s first Nevada divorce, from one Lonnie Anderkin, who appeared by counsel at the proceedings, took place in December 1966. In
Sherrer v. Sherrer,
Due to the fact that both parties to Sally’s first divorce are bound by said decree, Anderkin having appeared by counsel at the proceedings, § 125.185 of the Nevada statutes would bar a Nevada attack by John upon the divorce decree, and operation of the Full Faith and Credit Clause would produce a like effect in this state. To permit collateral attack in Iowa which could not be undertaken in the state where the judgment was rendered would be to deny the unified nature of our federal system as well as being in contravention of traditional notions of res judicata.
See Johnson v. Muelberger,
at 584-585 of
Sally’s second Nevada divorce presents a different question. During the summer of 1969 she obtained a divorce from one Frank Gilvin. He did not appear, either personally or by counsel. Thus, the
Sherrer
decision is inapplicable here, the jurisdictional question being left open for examination by the courts of sister states, at least upon the petition of the party absent at the original hearing,
Williams v. North Carolina
(hereafter noted as
Williams II),
While the
Williams II
opinion makes it clear that the nonappearing party to an ex parte divorce action is not barred from challenging the jurisdiction of the rendering court in a court of a sister state, the status of third parties seeking to attack the validity of an ex parte divorce is much less clear. If we look to the purpose of the Full Faith and Credit Clause, to have judgments of the courts of one state afforded the same force and effect in sister states as they are in the issuing state so as to effect a decree of national uniformity,
Johnson v. Muelberger,
584-585 of
Williams II
acknowledges the potentially compelling interest of states other than that issuing the decree in allowing review of the jurisdiction of the rendering court.
The result which would be reached in this case by applying the Nevada position regarding collateral attack upon a divorce decree by strangers is not different from that which would be reached under existing Iowa case law. We have been hesitant to allow collateral attack upon a divorce decree by a stranger to it.
Allen v. Lindeman,
The trial court held John to be es-topped from asserting that the Nevada court lacked jurisdiction to enter a divorce decree due to his complicity in Sally’s Nevada proceedings.
There is precedent for a form of estoppel in the divorce context. Indicative is
Swift v. Swift,
Both considerations are relevant to the matter before us here. John, having knowledge of any potential jurisdictional infirmities in the second Nevada decree *510 from the time it was rendered due to his financial aid and encouragement to Sally in procuring said decree, waited until he found it in his interest to challenge the Nevada decree, a period of several years. In twice considering a ceremonial marriage to Sally, as evidenced by the antenuptial agreement and its reaffirmation, he took the position that the Nevada decree was valid, a position relied on by Sally. The effectiveness of the laches argument is limited by John’s possible lack of standing to make any challenge, but the interest of society in requiring a prompt challenge to any decree and in limiting such an attack to interested parties dictate a denial of John’s claim. Likewise, that John has represented a situation to Sally inconsistent with that which he now asserts brings his action within the Swift definition of estoppel. Therefore, even if John has standing to challenge Sally’s Nevada divorce, the doctrines of laches and estoppel, as set out in Swift, preclude his contesting the decree.
While there is authority contrary to the position we would adopt if basing our holding on the aforementioned Nevada law,
see
Comment, 24 U.Chi.L.Rev. 376, 378-379 (1957), application of the equitable doctrines of estoppel and laches to cases such as that at bar have been uniformly endorsed by commentators.
See
Leflar,
American Conflicts of Law,
§§ 226, 460-462 (3rd ed. 1977); Goodrich and Scoles,
Conflict of Laws,
§§ 127, 259-260 (4th ed. 1964); Clark,
Estoppel Against Jurisdictional Attack on Decrees of Divorce,
70 Yale L.J. 45 (1960); Weiss,
A Flight on the Fantasy of Estoppel in Foreign Divorce,
50 Col.L.Rev. 409 (1950); Comment, 24 U.Chi.L.Rev. 376 (1957); Note,
The Dilemma of Third Party Attacks Upon Foreign Divorces,
17 Brooklyn L.Rev. 70 (1950); and by the majority of the courts,
Swift; Gilb v. Gilb,
John contends the trial court was wrong in concluding he was estopped from attacking the Nevada decree because the fact of estoppel had not been specifically pled by Sally. While preferable, it is not necessary that an estoppel be directly alleged when the operative facts from which the estoppel arises are embraced within the petition.
Dierking v. Bellas Hess Superstore, Inc.,
II. John strenuously controverts the ruling of the trial court that a common law marriage existed between him and Sally. There are three elements requisite to a common law marriage: (1) intent and agreement in praesenti to be married by both parties; (2) continuous cohabitation; and (3) public declaration that the parties are husband and wife.
In re Estate of Fisher,
In our holding with respect to the trial court’s award of temporary attorney fees to Sally we found, on the record at
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that stage of the proceedings, that Sally had presented sufficient proof to create a fair presumption of the existence of a common law marriage. We made clear we were not, at that time, finding that a preponderance of the evidence indicated a common law marriage.
In re Marriage of Winegard,
The record discloses the following bearing on the existence of the marital relationship: (1) Sally’s intent and belief with respect to her relationship with John; (2) opinions of various witnesses that the community generally regarded the parties as married; (3) continuous cohabitation by the parties since April of 1971; (4) John’s failure to deny his alleged marriage; (5) John’s acquiescence in Sally’s use of his name and her representations to the community they were in fact married; (6) Sally’s receipt of a wedding band from John; (7) hotel registrations and travel reservations wherein the parties were listed as Mr. and Mrs. John Winegard; (8) receipt of wedding gifts without objection by John; (9) payment by John of retail charge accounts incurred by Sally as Mrs. John Winegard; (10) mail received and sent by the parties as Mr. and Mrs. John Winegard; (11) John’s consent to Sally’s ownership of and designation as beneficiary under an insurance policy on his life wherein Sally was referred to as “insured’s wife;” (Petitioner’s ex. # 22); and (12) checks endorsed by John directing payment to the order of “Sally Winegard.” (Petitioner’s ex. # 8, # 9).
The above clearly indicate the existence of a common law marriage in accord with the essential elements set out in Fisher. While John contends he lacked the requisite intent to enter into a marital relationship, we note that intent may be shown by circumstantial evidence in the common law marriage context, Winegard at 617 of 257 N.W.2d, and was shown here. The evidence submitted subsequent to the first appeal to this court, largely regarding Sally having filed a joint income tax return with someone other than John for some of the years in question, was found by the trial court to operate against the conclusion that a common law marriage existed, but not to result in the conclusion that Sally had not met her burden of proof. Our examination of the record taken as a whole leads us to a like determination. Considered alone, the tax information would weigh against the finding of a common law marriage, but the remainder of the record sufficiently overcomes the contrary inferences which might be drawn. Therefore, we conclude that the trial court did not err in its findings and conclusions that a common law marriage existed between John and Sally.
John invites us to abolish common law marriages in Iowa. He cites little authority to support his position, and we are not inclined to accept his invitation in this regard.
III. Three of the remaining issues, all relating to the amount awarded Sally as a lump sum settlement in lieu of alimony, we address together. These, in the order in which they will be addressed, include: (1) the propriety of the protective orders entered by the trial court limiting Sally’s access to tax returns of the Winegard Corporation of which John is majority shareholder; (2) the effect to be given the terms of the antenuptial agreement barring the award of a property settlement or alimony to Sally; and (3) the adequacy of the $75,-000 lump sum award to Sally in lieu of alimony.
We require full disclosure of the financial conditions of parties to a dissolution proceeding in order for a trial court to make a proper award of alimony or a property settlement.
In re Marriage of Schantz,
John admits the value of the stock in question to have been $5.6 million in 1969. While a precise determination of the value of the stock at the time of the common law marriage is not available, such a valuation need not be made prior to the award of a lump sum in lieu of alimony to Sally.
Rider v. Rider,
John contends the antenuptial agreement entered into by him and Sally, both as initially signed and later reaffirmed, would bar the award of alimony or a property settlement to Sally. While acknowledging the general presumption in favor of antenuptial agreements, we have held that provisions of antenuptial agreements limiting alimony are void as against public policy.
In re the Marriage of Gudenkauf,
We therefore turn to the consideration of the adequacy of the award to Sally.
The trial court concluded $75,000 to be an adequate sum in lieu of alimony. In the light of the Schantz v. Schantz criteria (at 405 of 163 N.W.2d) and especially John’s wealth, the manner or style of living to which Sally became somewhat accustomed as a consequence of his affluence, and Sally’s limited future earning potential, we conclude $140,000 to be a just and adequate lump sum award in lieu of alimony. But for the relative .brevity of the marriage relationship, a greater award would have certainly been justified. The decree of the trial court is modified, and Sally is awarded the sum of $140,000 as a full and complete lump sum property settlement in lieu of alimony.
IY. Sally further appeals from the trial court’s award of $10,000 from John for the payment of her attorney fees. She had sought an allowance of $25,428.59. Temporary attorney fees had been allowed earlier in the course of this litigation to Sally’s counsel in the amount of $7,500. Considerable discretion is given to the trial court in the matter of setting fees.
See Winegard,
Needless to say, John’s motion that costs and fees be assessed against Sally is hereby overruled.
In conclusion we hold: (1) Sally had capacity to enter into a common law marriage; (2) the trial court did not err in its *513 finding that a common law marriage existed between John and Sally; (3) an antenup-tial agreement cannot preclude the award of alimony; and (4) the awards to Sally by way of lump sum settlement and for her attorney fees are fixed as hereinabove stated. The decree of the trial court is modified in conformity herewith.
The judgment and decree of the trial court is modified in the foregoing respects and this case as so modified is affirmed. Costs are assessed to appellee, John Robert Winegard.
AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED.
