delivered the opinion of the court:
Respondent, Monica A. Susan, appeals the judgment of the circuit court of Lee County granting petitioner James A. Susan’s petition to terminate maintenance. Respondent argues that the trial court’s determination that she was cohabiting with Don Borski on a resident, continuing conjugal basis (see 750 ILCS 5/510(c) (West 2004)) was against the manifest weight of the evidence. For the reasons that follow, we affirm.
Petitioner and respondent were married on May 27, 1978. They had four children together: Lacey, Jenise, Kelly, and James. On June 27, 2000, the trial court dissolved the marriage. The dissolution order provided that petitioner pay respondent $750 twice per month for maintenance. On April 27, 2005, petitioner filed an amended petition to terminate maintenance, alleging that respondent was cohabiting with another person on a resident and continuing conjugal basis. On September 1, 2005, the trial court held a hearing on the petition, during which the following evidence was adduced.
Respondent testified that she has lived in Stephenson, Michigan, since November 2000. None of her children live with her. Respondent began “going out” with Donald Borski in February 2002. Borski lives in Stephenson, about five miles away from respondent. Borski has four children: Chris, Ron, Mike, and Karen. After respondent began dating Borski, she did not date anyone else, although she did have sex with one other person sometime in 2003. She has not had sex with Borski for over two years.
One to two evenings per week, respondent has dinner at Borski’s house. Two to three evenings per week, respondent goes to Borski’s house to watch television or do some other activity. Respondent often sleeps over at Borski’s house, and Borski often sleeps over at respondent’s house. Borski has a key to respondent’s house. Respondent does not have a key to Borski’s house, but he is “always” home. When asked about other activities that she does with Borski, respondent stated that they have gone fishing, to a casino, or out to eat. Respondent works full time at Oseo Drug, either from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. or from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m.
Respondent and Borski have spent holidays together. Respondent testified that she spent Thanksgiving and Christmas with Borski in 2002, 2003, and 2004. One Christmas, Borski, along with his son Ron and Ron’s two children, stayed at respondent’s home. Borski and respondent shared a bedroom. Respondent’s daughters Jenise and Kelly stayed with her as well. Borski’s daughter Chris celebrated with them but spent the evening at Borski’s home. Although she could not recall at the hearing, respondent testified in a prior deposition that she and Borski spent the Fourth of July together in 2002, 2003, and 2004. Respondent and Borski spent Easter together in 2003, 2004, and 2005. If respondent had to work on a holiday, she would see Borski after work. Respondent also testified that she and Borski may have spent their birthdays together and that if Borski invites her, she accompanies him to family events. Respondent testified that she has sent out Christmas cards signed, “Love, Mom and Don.” Respondent also sent Jenise a congratulations card signed, “Love, Mom and Don.”
Respondent and Borski have gone on trips together. They spent five days camping and four-wheeling, along with respondent’s son and her son’s girlfriend. While camping, respondent and Borski shared a bed in a camper. Respondent and Borski attended respondent’s nephew’s wedding together in South Carolina. They spent a week in South Carolina and shared a hotel room but did not share a bed. Respondent testified that she has twice visited Borski’s brother with Borski and stayed at Borski’s brother’s home. She could not recall if she visited Borski’s brother a third time, in 2005. She also could not recall testifying at a previous deposition that she stayed with Borski’s brother for four days in 2005. Respondent and Borski have traveled together to Batavia, Illinois, to visit respondent’s friend. While there, the couple spent the night and shared a bed. Respondent and Borski also traveled to Morris, Illinois, to visit Kelly. Borski accompanied respondent on a six-hour drive to attend respondent’s granddaughter’s birthday party, and the couple spent the night. During Easter 2005, respondent and Borski visited Jenise and shared a bedroom in Jenise’s home.
Respondent testified that Borski owns his own home. Respondent does not have a financial interest in Borski’s home, nor does Borski have a financial interest in respondent’s home. Respondent pays her own utility bills. Borski has never paid any medical, clothing, or grocery expenses for respondent or members of respondent’s family. Respondent works full time; Borski is retired. Respondent has never paid any of Borski’s expenses. Respondent has bank accounts in Menominee and Stephenson, Michigan, and in Morris, Illinois. Borski does not have a financial interest in respondent’s bank accounts. Respondent and Borski do not own any personal property together. They do not keep clothing at each other’s home. They have never discussed marriage. Respondent characterized her relationship with Borski as one of friendship.
Scott Rusinek, a private investigator hired by petitioner, testified that on at least one occasion he followed respondent to Borski’s home in the evening and watched her park her car in Borski’s garage. The next morning, Rusinek saw respondent and Borski leave the home together.
Following the presentation of evidence, the trial court made a number of factual findings. The trial court found that respondent and Borski began dating in 2002 and have engaged in a sexual relationship, “albeit infrequent,” since that time. Respondent and Borski have spent most evenings together, including overnight, either at Borski’s or respondent’s house. The trial court noted that respondent presented no evidence that she ever spent an evening alone. The trial court also noted that respondent and Borski share meals together and that it was implied that the party preparing the meal was responsible for the expense of the meal. Respondent and Borski have vacationed together, have visited family together, and have attended the wedding of a family member of respondent. They have spent holidays together for the last few years. They sign greeting cards as “Mom and Don.” Respondent does not have a key to Borski’s home nor does she have a garage door opener for Borski’s garage. Borski does have a key to respondent’s home. Respondent and Borski do not share any financial interests. They do not share joint bank accounts. They do not jointly own any automobiles or real estate. They do not share personal property. Respondent and Borski each pay their own respective expenses. Respondent has never loaned Borski money. Respondent and Borski do not keep any of their clothing at each other’s home. The trial court held that, “The factors set forth by the case law weigh in favor of a finding that [respondent] and [Borski] are cohabiting on a resident, continuing, conjugal basis.” The trial court noted that “[t]he only factor weighing against such a finding is the interrelation of their personal affairs.” Respondent timely appealed. Respondent contends that the trial court’s determination that she and Borski were cohabiting on a resident, continuing conjugal basis was against the manifest weight of the evidence.
The trial court’s termination of maintenance was based on section 510(c) of the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (the Act), which provides, in pertinent part, that “the obligation to pay future maintenance is terminated *** if the party receiving maintenance cohabits with another person on a resident, continuing conjugal basis.” 750 ILCS 5/510(c) (West 2004). “The rationale behind termination of maintenance when resident, continuing, conjugal cohabitation exists is the inequity created when the ex-spouse receiving maintenance becomes involved in a husband-and-wife relationship but does not legally formalize it, with the result that he or she can continue to receive maintenance.” In re Marriage of Herrin,
Under the facts in this case, there can be little question that the trial court’s finding of a de facto marriage was not against the manifest weight of the evidence. Respondent and Borski had been together for over three years at the time of the hearing, and the evidence demonstrated that they spent nearly every night together during their relationship. The evidence also showed that the two took many trips together and spent virtually all holidays together. In fact, the only factor from the above list that weighs against the trial court’s finding is the fourth factor: the evidence indicated that respondent and Borski did not commingle funds or provide each other with monetary support.
Respondent argues that this fourth factor should be dispositive because “[mjaintenance is predicated upon a need for support by the spouse who is to receive maintenance” and, thus, “the most important question that arises in all termination of maintenance cases” is “whether the relationship has materially affected the recipient spouse’s need for support.” While we agree with respondent that “[mjaintenance is predicated upon a need for support by the spouse who is to receive maintenance” (Sappington,
For clarity, we draw a distinction between consideration of the recipient’s financial needs and consideration of the fourth factor above (the interrelation of personal affairs). The import of the fourth factor is not whether the new de facto spouse financially supports the recipient but, rather, whether their personal affairs, including financial matters, are commingled as those of a married couple would typically be. See In re Marriage of Toole,
In pressing her argument, respondent incorrectly assumes that “all termination of maintenance cases” involve “relationships.” Respondent’s argument essentially confuses two separate bases for terminating maintenance: termination due to substantial change in circumstances and termination due to de facto remarriage. If a recipient spouse’s relationship leaves the recipient financially secure, there may be a substantial change in circumstances warranting the termination of maintenance. See 750 ILCS 5/510(a) (West 2004). Of course, a substantial change in circumstances can arise independently of any relationship, romantic, conjugal, or otherwise. On the other hand, where the asserted ground for termination is not a substantial change but rather a de facto marriage (750 ILCS 5/510(c) (West 2004)), the goal is not to determine whether the relationship leaves the recipient financially secure but, rather, to determine whether the relationship leaves the recipient effectively married. Indeed, in those cases examining whether there is a substantial change in circumstances, the most important question obviously is whether the change in circumstances has materially affected the recipient spouse’s need for support. But in cases involving de facto marriage, maintenance is terminated because the recipient spouse is involved in a husband-and-wife-like relationship. Sappington,
Our reading of the two sections and how they fit within the Act brings us to the same conclusion. Section 510(a) of the Act (750 ILCS 5/510(a) (West 2004)) allows for either modification or termination of maintenance based on need. Section 510(c) (750 ILCS 5/510(c) (West 2004)), on the other hand, does not allow for modification of maintenance, but only termination. The sliding scale approach under section 510(a) is a much more sensible means of considering the parties’ needs and adjusting maintenance to accommodate them than is the binary approach under section 510(c). Because section 510(c) does not allow for reduced maintenance payments, a court invoking section 510(c) based even in part on changed financial need would be forced to choose between maintaining the status quo or terminating maintenance altogether, regardless of the amount of change in need demonstrated. The fact that the legislature chose in section 510(a) to provide for modification or termination of maintenance based on changes in need and did not mention need or provide corresponding flexibility in section 510(c) leads us to conclude that need is no more a factor in de facto than in de jure marriage situations.
Further, though it is true that “Maintenance is predicated upon a need for support by the spouse who is to receive maintenance” (Sappington,
A line of reported cases, some of which respondent cites, implies that the recipient spouse’s need is a central factor in determining whether maintenance should be terminated on the basis that the spouse has entered into a de facto marriage. For example, in In re Marriage of Bramson,
“Moreover, the legislative intent does not appear to be an attempt to control public morals. [Citation.] Rather, an important consideration, divorced from the morality of the conduct, is whether the cohabitation has materially affected the recipient spouse’s need for support because she either received support from her co-resident or used maintenance monies to support him. [Citation.]” Bramson,83 Ill. App. 3d at 663 .
Other appellate court cases have also implied that need is a factor in reviewing a finding regarding whether a de facto marriage existed. In In re Marriage of Reeder,
In In re Marriage of Arvin,
“Judith testified that Hamilton’s $100 contribution toward the oil bill was the only contribution he made toward household expenses. The couple did not have a joint checking account and did not commingle funds in any manner. [There was no evidence] that Judith’s cohabitation with Hamilton affected her need for support in any manner. *** [There was no evidence that] Judith used maintenance payments to support Hamilton. Additionally, Judith testified that she and Hamilton seldom ate together, she never did his laundry, and they only occasionally slept in the same bedroom.” In re Marriage of Arvin,184 Ill. App. 3d at 649-50 .
In In re Marriage of Caradonna,
In In re Marriage of Frasco,
Each of the cases above relies on several of the six factors listed herein in reaching a holding regarding the existence of a de facto marriage, but each also discusses the recipient spouse’s financial needs, whether maintenance was used to purchase items for the alleged de facto husband, and whether the alleged de facto husband provided support to the recipient spouse. Thus, each of the cases refers to the recipient spouse’s need as an additional justification for a finding, based on the relevant factors, that maintenance should be terminated due to a de facto marriage. However, the plain language of section 510(c) of the Act does not contemplate an analysis of the recipient spouse’s needs. 750 ILCS 5/510(c) (West 2004). The justification for the de facto marriage rule has nothing to do with financial need — the rule is designed to “remedy the inequity created when the recipient spouse becomes involved in a husband-wife relationship but does not formalize the relationship” and thus avoids termination of maintenance due to remarriage. Sunday,
In reaching our holding, we note that our supreme court has taken an ambiguous stance on the issue of whether need is to be considered in determining the existence of a de facto marriage. In Sappington, the supreme court addressed the issue of whether a couple could be considered to be in a resident, continuing conjugal relationship where they did not engage in sexual conduct. Sappington,
“Maintenance is predicated upon a need for support by [the receiving spouse], [Citation.] We believe that when two people live together *** it is the husband-and-wife-like relationship which bears the rational relationship to the need for support, not the absence or presence of sexual intercourse. Therefore, once an ex-spouse paying maintenance has demonstrated that a husband-and-wife-like relationship does exist, it should be [fineumbent upon the maintenance recipient to demonstrate that the relationship *** is not the type of relationship which was intended by the legislature to justify the termination of the obligation to pay maintenance.” Sappington,106 Ill. 2d at 467 .
The supreme court then quoted, without comment, two passages from appellate court cases: the above-quoted passage from Bramson, and the following passage from Halford:
“ ‘We believe that it was the intention of our legislature to provide for the termination of an ex-spouse’s obligation to pay future maintenance whenever the spouse receiving the maintenance has entered into a husband-wife relationship with another, whether this be by legal or other means.’ ” (Emphasis added.) Sappington,106 Ill. 2d at 467 , quoting Halford,70 Ill. App. 3d at 612 .
The supreme court’s decision in Sappington leaves ambiguous its stance on whether need is a factor to be considered in determining whether maintenance should be terminated under section 510(c) of the Act on the basis that the recipient is involved in a resident, continuing conjugal relationship. On one hand, the supreme court stated that the intention behind the de facto marriage rule is to terminate maintenance “whenever” a recipient has entered into a husband-wife relationship with another (Sappington,
Though we agree with the ultimate holding of In re Marriage of Weisbruch,
The Weisbruch court went on to note that terminating maintenance based on a conjugal relationship appeared “inconsistent” with the idea that the receiving spouse was still in need of maintenance, and it stated that the “same inconsistency appears in Sappington, which states that the most important factor is whether cohabitation affects the receiving spouse’s need for support, yet provides for the complete termination of maintenance even where the receiving spouse’s needs are not being completely met by his or her new partner.” Weisbruch,
First, we note that Sappington does not hold that the receiving spouse’s need for support is “the most important factor” in determining if cohabitation justifies termination of maintenance. Weisbruch,
The rationale of the de facto marriage rule is that a receiving spouse who is de facto remarried should be treated no differently from a receiving spouse who is de jure remarried. Because the spouse’s need is not relevant in determining whether he or she is de jure remarried, it is not relevant in determining whether the spouse is de facto remarried. Thus, a recipient who is de facto married can no more be heard to claim a right to continue maintenance based on need than could a recipient spouse who enters into a formal, legal marriage. Here, the totality of the circumstances supports the trial court’s finding of a de facto husband and wife relationship and is certainly not contrary to the manifest weight of the evidence. Thus, we hold that the trial court properly granted petitioner’s petition to terminate maintenance.
Based on the foregoing, we affirm the judgment of the circuit court of Lee County.
Affirmed.
GEOMETER, EJ., and CALLUM, J., concur.
Notes
As discussed below, the quoted sentence from Sappington, and indeed Sappington itself, can be read two ways. It can be read as relying on the “need for support” as a consideration in determining whether a husband-wife relationship exists, or it can be read as stating that the existence of a husband-wife relationship is the sole question in determining whether maintenance should be terminated.
The holding in Weisbruch underscores the point that section 510(c) of the Act is invoked not by the recipient spouse’s purpose in not getting legally married, but rather by whether the recipient spouse is in a relationship that meets the relevant factors, even if the spouse would be unable to enter into a de jure marriage.
