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*1 H I LLINOIS O FFICIAL R EPORTS Appellate Court
In re Marriage of Mancine
,
Docket No. 1-11-1138
Filed February 2, 2012
Held In marriage dissolution proceedings between petitioner, who had adopted a child as a single parent shortly before her marriage to respondent, and ( Note: This syllabus respondent, who never followed through with the parties’ intention that constitutes no part of the opinion of the court he would adopt the child petitioner had adopted, the trial court properly but has been prepared granted petitioner’s motion to dismiss respondent’s claim for sole custody by the Reporter of of the child she adopted just before the marriage, since Illinois has not Decisions for the adopted the “equitable parent” doctrine, he had no standing as a parent to convenience of the seek custody under the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act, reader. ) the Illinois Parentage Act or the Illinois Parentage Act of 1984, equitable
estoppel did not bar a finding that respondent was not a parent due to petitioner’s holding him out as the parent of the child, especially when respondent knew he was not the child’s biological parent and that formal adoption was necessary, Illinois does not recognize “equitable adoption,” there was no contract to support a “contract to adopt” theory, and there was no basis to invoke the parens patriae power.
Decision Under Appeal from the Circuit Court of Cook County, No. 10-D-9394; the Hon. Nancy J. Katz, Judge, presiding. Review
Judgment Affirmed.
Counsel on Berger/Schatz, of Chicago (Andrew D. Eichner and Myra A. Foutris, of counsel), for appellant. Appeal
Beermann, Pritikin, Mirabelli & Swerdlove, LLP, of Chicago (Enrico J. Mirabelli and Amy L. Jonaitis, of counsel), for appellee.
Panel
JUSTICE PUCINSKI delivered the judgment of the court, with opinion.
Justices Fitzgerald Smith and Sterba concurred in the judgment and opinion.
OPINION In divorce proceedings below, the husband, respondent Nicholas Gansner, sought custody of a minor child, William Gansner, who had been adopted by the mother, petitioner Miki Loveland Mancine, but Nicholas never filed a petition for adoption. The child was not the biological child of either Miki or Nicholas. The circuit court granted Miki’s motion to dismiss on the grounds that Nicholas lacked standing. We affirm the dismissal because: (1) Illinois has not adopted the “equitable parent” doctrine and Nicholas has no standing as a parent to seek custody under the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (750 ILCS 5/101 et seq . (West 2010)), the Illinois Parentage Act (750 ILCS 40/1 et seq . (2010)), or the Illinois Parentage Act of 1984 (750 ILCS 45/1 et seq . (West 2010)); (2) equitable estoppel did not apply to bar a finding that Nicholas was not a parent due to Miki’s holding out of him as the parent, where the husband was aware at all times that William was not his biological child and that formal adoption was necessary; (3) Illinois does not recognize “equitable adoption” in child custody proceedings and a “contract to adopt” theory did not apply where there was no contract; (4) there was no basis to invoke the parens patriae power under the Juvenile Court Act of 1987 (705 ILCS 405/1-1 et seq . (West 2010)); and (5) there is no requirement that the child must be adjudicated to have a father and Miki legally adopted the child as a single person. BACKGROUND Miki and Nicholas began dating in the spring of 2008. At that time, Miki was separated
from her then-husband, John Mancine. Miki had a one-year-old adopted daughter named Elizabeth and had begun the process of adopting a second child, William, and was matched with a birth mother. Miki and Nicholas decided they would marry in approximately June or July of 2008. Because Miki had already started the adoption process of William as a single *3 parent before she met Nicholas, Miki and Nicholas were advised by the adoption agent to finish the process of Miki’s adoption of William, and then for Nicholas to adopt William as a stepparent after the parties’ marriage. At the time, Miki and Nicholas resided in Wisconsin, where unmarried couples cannot simultaneously adopt a child. See Wis. Stat. Ann. § 48.82 (West 2008). William was born on August 5, 2008, and his birth certificate reflected the name
“William Michael Gansner.” In early September 2008, the adoption agent visited Miki and Nicholas to update the home study completed in January 2008 because Nicholas had moved in with Miki and was co-parenting William. Miki’s adoption of William was not yet finalized due to the six-month statutory waiting period. In the adoption agent’s report of February 27, 2009, the agent noted that Miki named Nicholas as the sole guardian of William and any future child she has, and named her parents as alternate guardians. Nicholas took care of William, including diaper changes and feedings. On November 2, 2008, William was baptized. The church record for the baptism listed William’s “parents” as Nicholas and Miki. Nicholas and Miki became formally engaged in December 2008. William’s adoption by Miki as a single adult was finalized in Wisconsin on March 4,
2009. The adoption papers identified William as “William Michael Gansner.” Nicholas and Miki got married in May 2009. It was both Nicholas’ and Miki’s intent that Nicholas formally adopt William as a stepparent after their wedding. Miki had contacted William’s adoption agent before their wedding and arranged for her to visit them immediately following the wedding to perform a screening for Nicholas’ adoption of William. In June 2009 the adoption agent performed the stepparent adoption screening of Nicholas. The agent’s report of June 9, 2009, reflected that the adoption agency intended to support the granting of Nicholas’ stepparent adoption petition. In Nicholas’ affidavit in support of his pleadings, he attached an e-mail from the adoption agent to Nicholas dated August 6, 2010, informing Nicholas that he was free to file his stepparent adoption petition, and he averred that this is a true and correct copy of the e-mail. At that time, Nicholas and Miki had already started the process of adopting yet another
child, Henry, and were in the process of moving from Wisconsin to Chicago, Illinois, to be closer to Miki’s parents. Nicholas alleges that he was under the impression that he and Miki had to assemble a number of documents to accompany his adoption petition. Later, he learned that he simply had to provide a form petition and include a copy of the order of Miki’s adoption of William. Nicholas alleges in his brief that “[a]s a result of all of these factors, the ministerial act of filing the stepparent adoption papers just never happened.” It is undisputed that respondent never filed a petition to adopt William. Nicholas and Miki moved to Chicago with Elizabeth and William. Henry was born on
September 16, 2009. Nicholas alleges that since he was out of work and Miki was traveling for her job, he was the primary caretaker of the three children. Nicholas avers in his affidavit that on August 6, 2009, Miki e-mailed him asking, “Have you made any progress toward adopting William???? I would like you to take care of that ASAP,” and telling Nicholas to “call Carol Gapen from law center for children and families.” Nicholas eventually became employed in a full-time position as an assistant Attorney *4 General for the State of Illinois. Nicholas maintains he continued to act as the three children’s primary caretaker and took Elizabeth and William to day care and Henry to Miki’s parents’ house every morning. In the evenings, Miki’s mother and a nanny would pick up the children from day care and bring them home to be with Nicholas. Nicholas was listed as the children’s parent at their day care facility. According to Nicholas, Miki always held out William as Nicholas’ child and held out herself, Nicholas, Elizabeth, William and Henry as “the Gansner family.” Miki filed a petition for dissolution of marriage and served Nicholas with summons for
dissolution of marriage on September 24, 2010. In Miki’s petition, she alleged that she and Nicholas had only one child, Henry, and that Nicholas was a fit and proper person to share joint custody of Henry. On December 6, 2010, Nicholas filed his response to Miki’s petition for dissolution of marriage and his counterpetition for dissolution of marriage. In both pleadings, Nicholas sought sole custody of William and Henry. On December 16, 2010, Miki filed her motions to dismiss Nicholas’ claim for sole custody of William in his response and counter-petition, pursuant to section 2-619(a)(9) of the Illinois Code of Civil Procedure (735 ILCS 5/2-619(a)(9) (West 2010)), based on the fact that William had no standing to seek custody of William. On March 14, 2011, the circuit court issued its ruling granting Miki’s motions to dismiss, followed by a written order. Nicholas timely appealed. ANALYSIS The issue presented by the present appeal is whether a nonbiological father has standing
to seek custody of a child he intended to adopt but never formally adopted. Nicholas argues
that the court erred in granting Miki’s section 2-619 motion to dismiss Nicholas’ request for
custody based on his lack of standing due to the fact that he never adopted William.
“Standing in Illinois requires ‘some injury in fact to a legally cognizable interest.’ ”
Preferred Personnel Services, Inc. v. Meltzer, Purtill & Stelle, LLC
,
Rather, Nicholas makes the following equitable arguments that he should have standing to
seek custody: (1) Illinois courts should revisit the concept of “equitable parent” and Nicholas
should be recognized as William’s “equitable parent”; (2) that Miki should be equitably
estopped from challenging Nicholas’ request for custody due to her own representations that
Nicholas was William’s father; (3) that his “equitable adoption” of William should be
recognized, even though he did not undertake the “ministerial act” of filing a petition for
adoption; (4) that the court should apply a plenary
parens patriae
power to award Nicholas
custody; and (5) the court’s adjudication that Nicholas is not William’s parent should not be
allowed to stand because it leaves William fatherless. Where the facts in a case are
uncontroverted, we review a trial court’s order granting a section 2-619 motion to dismiss
(735 ILCS 5/2-619 (West 2010))
de novo
.
Boelkes v. Harlem Consolidated School District
No. 122
, 363 Ill. App. 3d 551, 554 (2006). Also, generally the question of standing is
reviewed
de novo
.
In re Guardianship of K.R.J.
,
equitable parent since he was the child’s primary caregiver since birth, it would be in the
child’s best interest, and “the time has come to revisit the equitable parent doctrine in
Illinois.” Nicholas argues that he acted as William’s father in every way and has developed
a bond with William such that he should be recognized as William’s “equitable parent.”
Nicholas’ brief is replete with assertions of his caretaking of and emotions toward
William. However, as Nicholas acknowledges, Illinois has not adopted the “equitable parent”
doctrine. As the Fourth District has noted, “the theory of making a man who is not the
biological father of a child an ‘equitable parent’ under certain appealing circumstances has
never been recognized in Illinois.”
In re A.K.
,
solely within the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (750 ILCS 5/101
et seq
.
(West 2010)), the Illinois Parentage Act (750 ILCS 40/1
et seq
. (2010)), or the Illinois
Parentage Act of 1984 (750 ILCS 45/1
et seq
. (West 2010)).
In re Marriage of Simmons
, 355
Ill. App. 3d 942, 953-54 (2005). In enacting the Parentage Act, the General Assembly
established a “statutory mechanism that serves to legally establish parent and child
relationships in Illinois.” (Internal quotation marks omitted.)
J.S.A. v. M.H.
,
that route is not available to Nicholas. Section 601(b)(2) of the Illinois Marriage and
Dissolution of Marriage Act (750 ILCS 5/101
et seq
. (West 2010)) provides that a custody
proceeding may be commenced by a nonparent “ ‘by filing a petition for custody of the child
in the county in which he is permanently resident or found,
but only if he is not in the
physical custody of one of his parents
.’ ” (Emphasis added.)
In re R.L.S.
,
adoptive parent, is the only legal parent William has. As a nonparent, Nicholas thus has no
standing to seek custody of William. Nicholas nevertheless relies upon
Koelle v. Zwiren
, 284
Ill. App. 3d 778 (1996), for the proposition that “awarding custody or visitation rights to a
nonparent over the objection of a natural parent is permissible if it would be in the best
interests of the child.”
Koelle
,
by Nicholas. In
In re Marriage of Roberts
,
in
Roberts
, the child was born during the marriage, and thus there was a presumption of
paternity under the Illinois Parentage Act of 1984 (
In re Marriage of Roberts
, 271 Ill. App.
3d at 978 (citing 750 ILCS 45/5 (West 1992))), and the petitioner’s wife misled him to
believe for a time that the child was his.
In re Marriage of Roberts
,
Townsend
merely recognized that a natural parent’s superior right to custody is not absolute
*7
but is subject to the best interests of the child.
In re Custody of Townsend
,
¶ 22
Nicholas also cites to
Cebrzynski v. Cebrzynski
,
award of custody of a child to a nonparent stepmother over a biological mother was affirmed.
However, in that case the nonparent had physical custody of the children, while the natural
parent did not have custody. Custody of the children was awarded to the father in his divorce
from the biological mother, with the mother having only visitation rights, and after the
husband died the children continued residing with the stepmother in her custody.
Cebrzynski
,
physical custody of the child. While we are not unsympathetic to the litany of the many acts and emotions of Nicholas toward William, the fact remains that he did not adopt William and has no standing to seek custody as a nonparent otherwise. The circuit court did not err in granting the section 2-619 motion to dismiss. II. Equitable Estoppel Nicholas also argues the circuit court erred when it held Miki was not equitably estopped
from denying that Nicholas is William’s father where petitioner’s words and conduct intentionally induced respondent to reasonably believe he was William’s father. Among the many acts cited by respondent, he also alleges he performed a vasectomy in reliance on petitioner’s misrepresentation. “To establish equitable estoppel, the party claiming estoppel must demonstrate that: (1)
the other person misrepresented or concealed material facts; (2) the other person knew at the
time he or she made the representations that they were untrue; (3) the party claiming estoppel
did not know that the representations were untrue when they were made and when they were
acted upon; (4) the other person intended or reasonably expected that the party claiming
estoppel would act upon the representations; (5) the party claiming estoppel reasonably relied
upon the representations in good faith to his or her detriment; and (6) the party claiming
estoppel would be prejudiced by his or her reliance on the representations if the other person
is permitted to deny the truth thereof.”
Geddes v. Mill Creek Country Club, Inc.
, 196 Ill. 2d
302, 313-14 (2001) (citing
Vaughn v. Speaker
,
the formal adoption process in order to be William’s legal parent. Both Miki and William contemplated Nicholas’ formal adoption. At no time did Miki claim that Nicholas could be William’s legal parent without formal adoption, nor does Nicholas even claim this was the case. There is no reliance by Nicholas upon Miki’s alleged acts and statements for his failure to complete the formal adoption process. In fact, Miki herself urged Nicholas to file the adoption petition for William, by Nicholas’ own admission in his affidavit. Instead, Nicholas claims he delayed filing the adoption petition because he was under the assumption that the petition required much paperwork. However, even assuming arguendo that Nicholas purportedly relied on Miki’s alleged
acts of holding him out as William’s father in not undergoing the formal adoption process,
we hold such reliance was not reasonable. A party can invoke the doctrine of equitable
estoppel only when she reasonably relies on another party’s conduct or representations in
forbearing suit.
In re Joseph B.
,
complete the “ministerial act” of filing a petition for adoption, as Nicholas fully intended to
*9
adopt William. However, the filing of a petition for adoption is not merely a “ministerial
act.” “ ‘Adoption is the legal and social process by which a nonbiological parent-child
relationship is created.’ ”
In re Joseph B.
,
“contract to adopt” theory. In
Monahan
, there was an oral contract by the decedent to adopt
the plaintiff, but the circuit court held that the plaintiff was not a legally adopted son of the
intestate and therefore was not entitled to inherit his share of the intestate’s property. The
Illinois Supreme Court reversed and remanded the case to the circuit court to allow proof of
an oral contract to adopt.
Monahan
,
of Edwards
,
section 601(a), of the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act.
Milenkovic v.
Milenkovic
,
public policy is served by such a result. However, we note that the Illinois Supreme Court
has specifically held that no liberty interest exists with respect to a child’s psychological
attachment to a nonbiological parent. See
In re Marriage of Simmons
,
Illinois has not adopted the “equitable parent” doctrine and Nicholas has no standing as a parent to seek custody under the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (750 ILCS 5/101 et seq . (West 2010)), the Illinois Parentage Act (750 ILCS 40/1 et seq . (West 2010)), or the Illinois Parentage Act of 1984 (750 ILCS 45/1 et seq . (West 2010)); (2) equitable estoppel does not apply here due to Miki’s holding out of Nicholas as a parent, where Nicholas was aware at all times that William was not his biological child and that formal adoption was necessary; (3) Illinois does not recognize “equitable adoption” in child custody proceedings and a “contract to adopt” theory does not apply because here there was *11 no contract; (4) there is no basis to invoke the parens patriae power under the Juvenile Court Act of 1987 (705 ILCS 405/1-1 et seq . (West 2010)); and (5) there is no requirement that William must be adjudicated to have a father and Miki legally adopted William as a single person. Affirmed.
Notes
[1] In
In re A.W.J.
,
