In re Jesus JJ.
Appeal from an order of the Family Court of Tompkins County (Barrett, J.), entered February 8, 1995, which granted petitioner’s appliсation, in a proceeding pursuant to Social Services Law § 384-b, to adjudicate respondent’s children to be permanently neglected.
In a prior proceeding pursuant to Family Court Act article
The issue of petitioner’s diligent efforts is a threshold inquiry in this permanent neglect proceeding and petitionеr bears the burden of proof on the issue by clear and convincing evidence (see, Matter of Mary S.,
It is clear from the record that the plan developed by petitioner included a number of programs and established a number of goals that were realistic and appropriate for respondent’s individual situation. It is equally сlear from the record that respondent participated in the programs provided by petitioner. The troublesоme issue concerns the goal established by petitioner which required respondent to acknowledge that his daughter hаd been sexually abused and to take responsibility by stating his knowledge of and/or participation in the abuse.
In Matter of Charlene TT. (supra, at 277), this Court cоncluded that "absent an adjudication, conviction or admission, requiring respondents to admit the father’s alleged sexual abuse of Charlene and receive counseling for such abuse simply was not a realistic goal”. In this case, however, there is an adjudication that respondent’s daughter was sexually abused while in respondent’s custody (see, Matter of Julissa II., supra), and the goal established by рetitioner was not limited to requiring respondent’s admission that he was the abuser. The goal established by petitioner could have been met by respondent’s acknowledgement that the sexual abuse had occurred, without an admission that he had actually committed the abuse.
As a custodial parent, respondent’s responsibilities included
Nor is this a case where respondent was not provided with sufficient understandable information or a sufficient realistic opportunity to achievе the goal (cf., Matter of Jesus JJ.,
Turning to the issue of respondent’s failure to plan for the future of his children, it is well sеttled that in order to adequately plan for the future of a child, a parent must "assume a measure of initiative and resрonsibility” (Matter of Jamie M.,
Crew III, J. P., White, Yesawich Jr. and Spain, JJ., concur. Ordered that the order is affirmed, without costs.