In re H.A.
and
ISABEL A. SUAREZ, Atty. Reg. #0015899, 765 Troy Street, Dayton, Ohio 45404
Attorneys for Appellant, Mother
H. STEVEN HOBBS, Atty. Reg. #0018453, 119 North Commerce Street, Post Office Box 489, Lewisburg, Ohio 45338-0489
Attorney for Appellee, Maternal Grandmother
ENRIQUE RIVERA-CEREZO, Atty. Reg. #0085053, 765 Troy Street, Dayton, Ohio 45404
Attorney for Appellee, Father
OPINION
HALL, J.,
{¶ 1} M.A. appeals from the trial court‘s decision and judgment overruling her objections to a magistrate‘s decision and awarding maternal grandmother D.R. (“Grandmother“) visitation with M.A.‘s child.
{¶ 2} M.A. advances three assignments of error. First, she contends the trial court erred in failing to give “special weight” to her desire that Grandmother not have visitation. Second, she challenges the trial court‘s finding that awarding Grandmother visitation was in the child‘s best interest. Third, M.A. claims the trial court erred in granting excessive visitation.
{¶ 3} The record reflects that M.A. is Grandmother‘s daughter. M.A. is a single mother. Grandmother filed an August 2011 motion requesting court-ordered visitation with M.A.‘s child. At the time of the motion, the child was almost three years old. The matter proceeded to a March 2012 hearing before a magistrate. Based on the evidence presented, the magistrate granted Grandmother‘s motion. The trial court later sustained objections, however, and vacated the magistrate‘s decision, finding that the child‘s father, C.G. (“Father“), had been denied his right to participate in the hearing. The trial court returned the matter to the magistrate for a “new hearing,” which was held on August 14, 2012 and November 19, 2012. Following that hearing, the magistrate again granted Grandmother visitation. M.A. filed objections. In a June 18, 2013 ruling, the trial court overruled M.A.‘s objections, adopted the magistrate‘s decision, and awarded Grandmother visitation one weekend per month from 6:00 p.m. Friday until 8:00 p.m. Saturday. The trial court also awarded Grandmother visitation one week each summer. M.A. has appealed from the trial court‘s ruling.
{¶ 4} Before addressing M.A.‘s arguments, we turn to
{¶ 5} In the present case, the trial court made the requisite best-interest findings and stated that it was giving “special weight” to M.A.‘s wishes regarding visitation. The trial court found visitation with Grandmother to be in the child‘s best interest, despite M.A.‘s wishes to the contrary. On appeal, “we review the trial court‘s decision regarding non-parent visitation and its corresponding analysis of the best-interest factors, including the wishes of a parent, for an abuse of discretion.” In re F.D., 2d Dist. Montgomery No. 23358, 2009-Ohio-4788, ¶10.
{¶ 6} In her first assignment of error, M.A. contends the trial court merely gave “lip service” to her wishes regarding visitation and provided no rationale for going beyond those wishes and granting Grandmother visitation. M.A. also argues that the trial court ignored or dismissed as insignificant her concerns about visitation.
{¶ 7} Upon review, we conclude that the trial court properly gave M.A.‘s wishes the
{¶ 8} The Ohio Supreme Court applied Troxel‘s “special weight” requirement to Ohio‘s non-parent visitation statutes in Harrold, supra. The requirement does not mean, however, that a parent‘s wishes regarding non-parent visitation must prevail. As the Harrold court recognized, “Ohio‘s nonparental-visitation statutes not only allow the trial court to afford parental decisions the requisite special weight, but they also allow the court to take into consideration the best interest of the child and balance that interest against the parent‘s desires.” Harrold at ¶43. “[W]hile Troxel states that there is a presumption that fit parents act in the best interest of their children, nothing in Troxel indicates that this presumption is irrefutable. The trial court‘s analysis of the best interests of a child need not end once a parent has articulated his or her wishes.” Id. at ¶44. Indeed, “[b]y stating in Troxel that a trial court must accord at least some special weight to the parent‘s wishes, the United States Supreme Court plurality did not declare that factor to be the sole determinant of the child‘s best interest.” Id. “[N]othing in Troxel suggests that a parent‘s wishes should be placed before a child‘s best interest.” Id.
{¶ 9} In In re Madison C., 2d Dist. Montgomery No. 22029, 2007-Ohio-5983, a case relied on by M.A., this court applied Troxel and Harrold where a great aunt attempted to obtain visitation with a three-year-old child. In Madison C., a magistrate found that the child and the great aunt shared a strong bond, the great aunt had cared for the child since infancy and had a genuine concern for the child‘s welfare, and visitation with the great aunt was in the child‘s best
{¶ 10} Upon review, we find the present case distinguishable from Madison C. with regard to the “special weight” issue. Unlike Madison C., the magistrate and the trial court here did not totally ignore M.A.‘s wishes or fail to provide any rationale for contravening them. To the contrary, the magistrate acknowledged and discussed M.A.‘s wishes but found them outweighed by other considerations. Specifically, the magistrate made the following findings in its decision, which the trial court adopted:
In the present case, based on the competent, credible evidence and testimony adduced at trial, the Court finds that the maternal grandmother is a surgical recovery nurse with a secret security clearance who works at Wright Patterson Air Force Base. The evidence is clear that the grandmother had an ongoing and substantial relationship with the child until terminated by the mother and a genuine interest in the child‘s welfare. It is undisputed that the child and mother resided with the grandmother for several years after the child was born during which time the grandmother cared for the child almost daily, including entire weekends, and provided financial support to the mother including, but not
limited to birthing costs and items such as a stroller and car seat. Even after the mother and child ceased residing with the grandmother, she regularly visited with and had a positive and bonded relationship with the child. Oddly, the grandmother still maintains the other on her health insurance at no cost to the mother in spite of this dispute. The Court finds that the parties’ relationship appears to have inexplicably soured in early 2011. Whatever the situation was, it plainly angered the mother and caused her to terminate the grandmother‘s contact with the child. The mother has expressed her strong wish that the Court deny the grandmother‘s petition for visitation with the child. Frankly, this court is still unable to state with any clarity why these parties are having this dispute other than the mother‘s complaints about what objectively amount to inconsequential childhood experiences with the grandmother and the somewhat obvious attempt by the mother and maternal grandfather to re-litigate the maternal grandparents’ divorce through this action.
What is painfully clear to the court is that the mother‘s desire to terminate the child‘s relationship with the grandmother is not properly justified in this case. [Emphasis sic]. It is not based on any real, meaningful harm or detriment that may have occurred to the child in connection with the child‘s substantial and long-term relationship with the grandmother, but instead on the soured relationship between the mother and grandmother. In essence, the mother asks this court to punish the grandmother for all of the mother‘s petty childhood grievances against her, and for her conduct in connection with a 17-year-old divorce proceeding, by denying to
her any court-ordered contact with her grandchild. However, such an action, while perhaps achieving mother‘s questionable goal, would equally deprive the child of an important and well-established relationship with the grandmother to the child‘s detriment. This Court encourages but cannot force the mother and grandmother to reconcile their seemingly insignificant differences. In any event, the Court will not punish the child merely because of those differences. Furthermore, the “special weight” that the Court affords to the mother‘s wishes that the grandmother‘s motion be denied is, in this instance, plainly outweighed by the other facts and circumstances considered by the Court in making this determination[,] especially the substantial nature of [the] child‘s prior, bonded relationship with the grandmother and the fact that the continued unjustified disruption in that relationship would be detrimental to the child‘s well-being.
(December 13, 2012 Decision at 1-2).
{¶ 11} In overruling M.A.‘s objections and adopting the magistrate‘s decision, the trial court added the following:
The court recognizes the evidence presented suggests the child and [Grandmother] had a positive and bonded relationship with one another until [M.A.] ceased residing in [Grandmother‘s] home when the relationship between mother and daughter became strained. [M.A.‘s] concerns with [Grandmother] stem from lingering resentment derived from her own childhood and her parents’ 1996 divorce and are not properly justified. [M.A.] has taken steps to suspend
visitation with [Grandmother] for personal reasons unrelated to the safety and welfare of the child. [M.A.‘s] concerns with visitation do not appear to be based on the best interest of the child. The Court, having afforded appropriate weight and consideration to [M.A.‘s] wishes, concludes visitation with [Grandmother] is in the child‘s best interest.
(June 18, 2013 Decision and Judgment at 3).
{¶ 12} While M.A. plainly disagrees with the magistrate‘s and the trial court‘s opinion about her wishes regarding visitation, their decisions demonstrate that her wishes were not ignored and that a rationale was provided for contravening them. In short, the magistrate and the trial court appear to have questioned the seriousness, if not the sincerity, of M.A.‘s concerns and found them outweighed by other factors. Whether the trial court erred in reaching this conclusion is addressed under M.A.‘s second assignment of error. For purposes of the first assignment of error, we conclude that the trial court did give the requisite “special weight” to M.A.‘s wishes regarding visitation. Accordingly, the first assignment of error is overruled.
{¶ 13} In her second assignment of error, M.A. challenges the trial court‘s finding that awarding Grandmother visitation was in her child‘s best interest. M.A. complains that the trial court misstated and ignored evidence, failed to weigh the statutory best-interest factors properly, ignored the guardian ad litem‘s recommendation, and discounted her concerns.
{¶ 14} Upon review, we find no abuse of discretion in the trial court‘s best-interest determination. As set forth above, the record reflects that M.A. is Grandmother‘s daughter. Grandmother obtained custody of M.A. following a 1993 divorce. (August 14, 2012 Tr. at 63). While M.A. was in high school, she began dating C.G. When Grandmother disapproved of the
{¶ 15} On or about January 1, 2010, M.A. and the child moved out of Grandmother‘s house and into an apartment. (Id. at 71, 113). Despite M.A.‘s relocation, Grandmother continued to have daily contact with the child and to provide child care. (Id. at 72). Grandmother was concerned because M.A.‘s new boyfriend (not the child‘s father), who had tattoos on his face and nose piercings, lived with M.A. and was performing tattooing out of the apartment. (Id. at 72). To help ensure that the child was safe, and at M.A.‘s request, Grandmother regularly watched the child. Grandmother had the child on weekends from Friday evening until Monday morning and also would pick up the child after work during the week. (Id. at 72-73). Grandmother provided formula and baby food for the child. She also purchased housewares for M.A.‘s apartment. (Id. at 74). Up until March 2011, Grandmother saw M.A.‘s child practically every day. (Id. at 115).
{¶ 16} In March 2011, M.A. and Grandmother had a falling out. M.A. testified that the
* * * I really want my mom, in my opinion, to be healthy and able to have a relationship with [the child]. I want a relationship with her. It‘s just—I‘ve seen her at a good state, I feel. And I‘ve seen her at her worst. And right now, with everything, the texting and the calling, still, and the—you know, showing up at my house and things like that, that she‘s now where I‘ve seen her at. And I—I don‘t want the same things and the same feelings that I had as a kid and have to this day—they still carry with me now—to happen to [the child].
(Id. at 32-33).
{¶ 17} In its decision awarding Grandmother visitation, the trial court specifically addressed the statutory best-interest factors and made findings with regard to them. (June 18, 2013 Decision and Judgment at 2-3). On appeal, however, M.A. complains about the trial court
{¶ 18} In addition to addressing the foregoing misstatements, M.A. challenges the trial court‘s weighing of the various best-interest factors. She contends the trial court ignored the guardian ad litem‘s opinion that her wishes regarding visitation should be upheld. She also claims the trial court gave too little weight to her concerns about Grandmother. It is apparent to us, however, that the trial court did not find M.A.‘s concerns as significant as did the guardian ad litem. The trial court was not obligated to follow the guardian ad litem‘s recommendation, and it reasonably could have questioned the significance—possibly even the sincerity—of M.A.‘s concerns in light of the fact that M.A. (1) allowed her child to live in Grandmother‘s home for approximately fifteen months while Grandmother met all of M.A.‘s and the child‘s needs and (2) continued to allow Grandmother to care for the child daily after M.A. moved into an apartment
{¶ 19} As noted above, the legislature, through
{¶ 20} In her third assignment of error, M.A. claims the trial court erred in granting excessive visitation between Grandmother and the child. Even assuming that some visitation was warranted, she challenges the trial court‘s decision to award Grandmother one weekend a month and one week each summer. M.A.‘s only real complaint is that Grandmother‘s visitation is in addition to the standard parenting time enjoyed by C.G., the
{¶ 21} We find M.A.‘s argument to be without merit. We are unpersuaded that Grandmother‘s visitation is excessive simply because C.G. has his own parenting time. C.G. is entitled to parenting time because he and M.A. are unmarried parents living separately. The statute under which Grandmother obtained visitation also applies when a mother is unmarried. In authorizing the parent of an unmarried mother to obtain visitation, the legislature certainly could have foreseen that the child‘s father also might have parenting time. In our view, the trial court was not obligated to reduce Grandmother‘s visitation to something less than it ordered on the grounds that C.G. also had parenting time. Nor can we say that the trial court‘s visitation order is so excessive on its face as to constitute an abuse of discretion. The third assignment of error is overruled.
{¶ 22} The judgment of the Montgomery County Common Pleas Court, Juvenile Division, is affirmed.
DONOVAN and WELBAUM, JJ., concur.
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