This appeal arises from the order of the trial court granting custody of Patricia A. White and Edward H. White to their natural mother, Jeanne M. White. For the following reasons, we set aside that, order and remand the case for the filing of a full opinion.
Jeanne M. White (hereinafter referred to as the mother) and William G. White, appellant herein, were married in Thailand on September 9, 1963. At that time, appellant was an American Army Officer and the mother was a native to the country. Two children were born of this union, Patricia on June 6,1964, and Edward on June 6,1965. The marriage encountered some difficulties, but remained relatively stable until May 2, 1977. On that date, the mother discovered appellant in a hotel room with another woman. Both parties became considerably upset over the incident, and the mother testified that appellant informed her that he did not desire to have her and that she was not to have any conversation with the children. For the next month, appellant frequently absented himself from the couple’s residence for reasons allegedly connected with his employment. During this period, appellant’s marital difficulties were apparently communicated to his superiors in the Justice Depart *167 ment, which resulted in a demand upon him to take corrective measures or find his position terminated. Attempts to arrange a solution agreeable to both his employer and wife failed, and his contract with the federal government was terminated. 1 The mother, together with the children, ultimately left Thailand on August 7, 1977, and settled in a unit of a Cumberland County motel owned by both parties.
Following his dismissal in Thailand, appellant traveled throughout Europe from August 30 until his return to the motel property on or about September 21, 1977, where he resided, with his brother, in a residence which was connected to the motel. On October 28, 1977, the mother filed a petition, and appellant a cross-petition, for custody of the children. This appeal was filed following the award of custody to the mother.
Preliminarily, it is well established that the scope of review of this court in such disputes is of the broadest type.
Commonwealth ex rel. Spriggs v. Carson,
Instantly, this requisite reasoned analysis of the pertinent evidence is well-nigh wholly absent. It is axiomatic that the pole star of any custody proceeding is the best interests of the child, a term which encompasses his spiritual, physical, emotional and intellectual well being.
In re Custody of Neal, supra; Shoup v. Shoup,
“We find the foregoing narration to be the facts of the case and have no difficulty in concluding that the husband’s involvement with another woman was the basic trigger for the present situation .
This is a most unfortunate situation but it is obvious that the wife had, during the entire life of the children, looked after and cared for them. We find the present situation to have been triggered by the misconduct of the husband involving another woman.” (Opinion at 3).
*169 While appellant’s extramarital affairs may indeed have “triggered” the disintegration of the marriage, such a factor has little bearing on his present ability, or lack thereof, to attend to the children’s best interests. A spouse’s past marital misconduct is significant only to the degree that the welfare of the children is likely to be affected thereby. See, e. g., Commonwealth ex rel. Myers v. Myers, supra; Commonwealth ex rel. Spriggs v. Carson, supra; Augustine v. Augustine, supra. Even a parent’s present non-marital relationship is not sufficient to deny him or her custody of the children; in each case, all relevant circumstances must be examined so as to determine what action would be in the best interests of the child. To the extent that this record indicates the use of an order of custody as a method of punishing the parent more responsible for the marital discord, we disapprove such use; our sole concern is the child’s welfare. Instantly the court offers no comment on whether it believed the children adversely affected by appellant’s affairs. 2
Indeed, we are offered neither guidance as to the credibility of the witnesses nor the trial judge’s findings as to the probability of the incidents testified to at the hearing. We have often noted that the hearing judge is in a far superior position to determine matters of credibility, and to evaluate the attitude and sincerity of the witnesses.
Jones v. Kniess,
While we might review the record and reach a conclusion without the benefit of a proper analysis by the lower court, such a course would serve neither the best interests of the children nor the Commonwealth. We are loath to pass judgment on something as precious and intrinsically valuable as a child’s welfare without every possible piece of information bearing on the subject. It is for this reason that we demand a full record and a probing analysis thereof. Instantly, the opinion we are presented with renders it impossible to effect a just result. 4
The order of the lower court is consequently set aside, and the record is remanded for entry of a full opinion.
Notes
. Appellant admitted that various alternatives were discussed with his wife, including one in which she would receive $20,000 to leave Thailand and the children, and travel alone to the United States.
. The hearing judge did note that both children expressed a preference to be with their father. Patricia, thirteen years of age at the time of the hearing, indicated that she had poor relations with her mother. (N.T. 99). Edward, twelve at the time, stated that his father would take them on comping trips if he were awarded custody. (N.T. 103). Both responded in the negative when queried as to whether appellant told them to state their preference for him. The court chose to disregard their preferences because it “was obvious that both had been considerably influenced by the father. ...” (Opinion at 3). It has previously been held that while a child’s desire is not controlling, it constitutes a factor to be considered, particularly as the children grow older.
Commonwealth ex rel. Holschuh v. Holland-Moritz,
. Apparently, the one major impression made on the court was appellant’s testimony that if he were awarded custody, his brother would vacate the residence while appellant would move in with the children. (N.T. 77). When questioned as to whether the same would happen if custody were awarded to the mother, appellant stated that he did not know if his brother would then vacate and allow the mother to enter. (N.T. 77). While this is no doubt revealing, it hardly constitutes the paramount reason on which to predicate custody.
. We note also that the court concludes its opinion thus: “[W]e saw and see no reason to deprive the wife of the custody of the children and to award them to the husband.” (Opinion at 4). While this may simply be a recognition of the actual status of the children at the time of the hearing, we reiterate that the burden of proof in these cases is shared equally by the contesting parents.
In re Custody of Hernandez,
