In Re Bowman
This is an appeal by a biological father from an order which, upon petition by a divorced mother, terminated the father’s parental rights to his two children.
Jeffry L. Bowman, II, and Cynthia E. Shuey were married on August 20, 1983, and divorced in September, 1988. Two children were born of the marriage: Jeffry L. Bowman, III, born on August 12, 1985; and Joshua Bowman, born on October 10, 1986. Cynthia has had custody of the children since she and Bowman separated in October, 1987. In April,
Parental rights may be terminated if a “parent by conduct continuing for a period of at least six months immediately preceding the filing of the petition [for termination] either has evidenced a settled purpose of relinquishing parental claim to a child or has refused or failed to perform parental duties.”
With regard to the fulfillment of parental duties, the Superi- or Court has observed that
[w]hen a parent is separated from his children, he not only has a duty to love, protect and support them; he also has a duty to maintain communication and association with them.Adoption of McCray, 460 Pa. 210 , 216,331 A.2d 652 , 654 (1975); In re Adoption of M.J.H.,348 Pa.Super. 65 , 72,501 A.2d 648 , 651 (1985). Our courts have repeatedly stated that being a parent is more than a passive state of mind; it requires constant affirmative demonstration of parental devotion. M.J.H.,348 Pa.Super. at 73 ,501 A.2d at 652 .
In re V.E.,
A trial court’s inquiry, however, may not cease even when it determines that the statutory requirements of
On appeal from an order terminating parental rights, this Court’s scope of review is limited to determining whether the decree of termination is supported by competent evidence.
Matter of Adoption of C.A.E.,
This is not a custody action. The issue is not whether the children should be removed from their mother’s custody. She has been the children’s primary caretaker, and no one has questioned her ability and willingness to provide loving care for her sons. The children’s biological father, on the other hand, has not provided the same quality of care for his children. Whether because of the demands made upon him by his country and/or his employment, it is clear that he has not provided the “hands on” care which has come from the children’s mother. Father, indeed, has shown signs of irresponsibility. He is late for appointments; sometimes he fails to appear at all; and on occasion he has brought the children home late after a visit. Sometimes he also forgets to send gifts or cards on important occasions in the lives of his children. Still, he has supported his children regularly, albeit pursuant to a wage agreement, and he clearly has not abandoned his children or evidenced a settled purpose to relinquish parental rights by failing to perform parental duties.
At the time of separation, father was in the military service and was stationed in Okinawa. In June, 1988, he reported to Camp Pendleton, California. During the time when father was in the service, of necessity, he had little or no contact with his sons. In 1988, however, he did remember his children with Christmas gifts. While on leave during the summer of 1989, father saw his children frequently but experienced difficulty in keeping the schedule which he and mother had arranged and to which mother expected him to adhere. In August, 1989, it appears that father, still in the service, returned to California; and later that year he failed to acknowledge his sons’ birthdays or Christmas with gifts, cards or telephone calls.
In the fall of 1990, the order for visitation was changed, at mother’s request, to require that visits take place under supervision of the Clinton County Children and Youth Social Services Agency. 2 Father’s visits under this arrangement were made in November but not in December. In January, 1991, father was ordered to return to active duty in the armed forces and, continuing until January, 1992, participated in Operation Desert Storm. Again, he was separated from his children.
In January, 1992, father took employment with PandralJackson, a railroad-related company. This job, which he continues to hold, requires that he be away from home for extended periods of time. In April, 1992, mother filed a petition to terminate father’s parental rights.
When mother, in 1992, experienced behavioral difficulties with the boys, a psychologist met with the interested parties and discovered that a strong bond existed between the boys and their natural father. The boys, it appears, were greatly concerned about their father’s safety and wished to see him more frequently. The psychologist recommended that if father could not see his children regularly because of his job related absences, he maintain regular contact by mail. This was in December, 1992. Father failed to follow this recommendation. By a wage agreement, however, he has continued to support his children.
More importantly, it appears from this record that the breaking of the strong bond which exists between father and sons may well be prejudicial to the best interests of these boys. This was a factor which the trial court failed to consider. The court did not make a finding and, indeed, did not consider whether termination would serve the “needs and welfare” of the children, as required by
After careful review, therefore, we conclude that the evidence fails to support the trial court’s order terminating the parental rights of the appellant father. Not only has he not evidenced a settled purpose of relinquishing his parental rights, but the record fails to demonstrate that a termination
Order reversed.